Confucius said: Too much is too late.

People always show a strong attachment to the things or people they focus on, indulging in them, either suffering or being happy. But we ignore other things or people that do not attract our attention, but are indispensable to our lives. People will say, don't you like it with all your heart? Why set limits? Isn't this selfish? That's right, and I have no excuse. I just know that I should keep a peaceful mind. At this time, I can look at the overall situation from a higher angle, so that I won't ignore the details that are easily overlooked by us. The way to keep a calm mind is not to be too persistent. Only by setting limits on emotions can we deal with our emotions accurately and avoid harmful and manipulative emotions from outside.

whether it's people or things, friendship and love, it's too late. Learn to grow up and control yourself, and never act on the whim. 2. Too much is too late. Famous aphorism

Confucius said: Too much is too late.

People always show a strong attachment to the things or people they focus on, indulging in them, either suffering or being happy. But we ignore other things or people that do not attract our attention, but are indispensable to our lives.

people will say, don't you like it with all your heart? Why set limits? Isn't this selfish? That's right, and I have no excuse. I just know that I should keep a peaceful mind. At this time, I can look at the overall situation from a higher angle, so that I won't ignore the details that are easily overlooked by us.

and the way to keep a calm mind is not to be too persistent. Only by setting limits on emotions can we deal with our emotions accurately and avoid harmful and manipulative emotions from outside.

whether it's people or things, friendship and love, it's too late. Learn to grow up and control yourself, and never act on the whim. 3. Who knows the famous saying about "Too much is not enough"

Confucius said: Too much is not enough.

People always show a strong attachment to the things or people they focus on, indulging in them, either suffering or being happy. But we ignore other things or people that do not attract our attention, but are indispensable to our lives.

people will say, don't you like it with all your heart? Why set limits? Isn't this selfish? That's right, and I have no excuse. I just know that I should keep a peaceful mind. At this time, I can look at the overall situation from a higher angle, so that I won't ignore the details that are easily overlooked by us.

and the way to keep a calm mind is not to be too persistent. Only by setting limits on emotions can we deal with our emotions accurately and avoid harmful and manipulative emotions from outside.

whether it's people or things, friendship and love, it's too late. Learn to grow up and control yourself, and never act on the whim. 4. Examples about going too far is too late

Examples:

1. Zi Gong asked, "Which is better, a teacher or a businessman?" Confucius said: "The teacher has passed, but the business is not as good." Say, "But then the teacher will recover?" Confucius said, "Too much is too late."

Vernacular translation: Zi Gong, a student of Confucius, asked Confucius which of his classmates, Zi Zhang and Zi Xia, was wiser. Confucius said that Zi Zhang often exceeded the requirements of Zhou Li, while Zi Xia often failed to meet the requirements of Zhou Li. Zi Gong asked if it was better for Zi Zhang to surpass it. Confucius replied that the effect of exceeding and failing to achieve it was the same.

2. A man went to Jinshan Temple, a thousand-year-old temple, to ring a bell to pray for blessings. The old monk in charge of the bell told him that the bell would only ring three times: the first one was the blessing of the door; The second is the high official and generous; The third is to prolong life. That guy was angry after knocking for the third time, so he knocked again on purpose while the old monk was not paying attention. The old monk said to him in utter amazement, "This is over, the previous knocking is all wasted." The fellow asked the old monk why? The old monk said that the clock can't strike the fourth time. If it strikes, everything will be empty.

3. Qin destroyed the six countries. After reunification, it attempted to be highly centralized and autocratic, to prevent the rebellion of the six countries, to unify thoughts by burning books and burying Confucianism, and to kill the nobles of the six countries, thus reducing the chance of rebellion. However, if it went too far, it would arouse people's resistance and be destroyed by the six countries.

4. Zhang Zi said: If you love your beloved, you will be kind. Focus on the "neck". It is too much to love others more than yourself.

Too much is too little. Think about what kind of development parents will bring to their children if they treat their children and love them more than themselves. Now everyone has seen it.

5. The Song Dynasty emphasized literature and suppressed martial arts. The basic national policy of "emphasizing culture and education and restraining military affairs" promoted by the rulers of the Song Dynasty made the culture develop to an unprecedented height. Because of the heavy literary spirit and weak martial arts, it was finally slaughtered and destroyed by Meng Yuan!

Baidu Encyclopedia-Too much is not enough. 5. Poems that describe ingratitude

1. Why should friends make more friends, and not much money is not deep? -Tang Dynasty: Zhang Wei's

Explanation of "The Master of the Wall": Now friends are ungrateful. If you have something to do, you are a friend. If you have nothing to do, you are a stranger.

2. White heads know each other and still press the sword, while Zhumen plays the crown with laughter. -Tang Dynasty: Wang Wei's "Drinking and Pei Di":

Interpretation: When your good friend comes to you, you'd better press the hilt of the sword, or be wary of him. He will still do you harm in secret, and you will be proud of being a good friend. If you expect him to promote you and help you, it will only make him laugh.

3. It's easy to change your mind, but it's easy to change your mind. -Qing Dynasty: Naran Rong Ruo's "Magnolia"

Interpretation: I took a break in the years and slowly faded away the burning feelings at first sight. Looking back, I said that people's hearts have changed.

4. heart breaker, an infatuated woman, is so lovelorn. -Ming dynasty: Lu Cai's

Interpretation of "Huaixiang Ji Yin Shi Chi Lou": They have no good result for the infatuated woman heart breaker.

5. I don't know where my home is, but I can't repay the wolf for his kindness. -Modern: Lu Xun's Camel Xiangzi

Interpretation: People forget their family and don't know where their home is. Raising kindness is like an baiwenhang who doesn't know how to repay it.