When the winter vacation in 2006 approached, I introduced the student Xiao Ni to Le Man. I haven't seen Xiao Ni for five years, and I don't know much about her. She has a short marriage history. Her sister-in-law told me that she is still alone and wants to find a man like her brother and father. It is said that many older men can tolerate her because of her bad personality.
I listened to the little mud sister-in-law's nagging, and suddenly Leman flashed in my mind. Are they not suitable? One requires youth; A required age; His (her) conditions are more in line with each other's requirements. Fix them.
I acted immediately and called Xiao Ni first. After she agreed, I called Lyman to explain the situation. Lyman said, "Too young, no,no." I said, "Don't you want to be young? Isn't this just right? I have already told people that if people don't think you are old, they will contact. "
Lyman said, "Well, let's add QQ first. Let's contact on QQ first and meet again when we are in a good mood. " I said yes. Just send the QQ numbers of both parties to the mobile phone for exchange. I think, being a matchmaker now just needs to pull strings. I thought the task had been completed. It was their own business.
As a result, both sides didn't add each other for several days, just holding each other there, as if whoever added first wanted fall in price. I said, Lyman, you are so hypocritical. Do you lose face first? Just add a QQ I turned to Xiao Ni and said, "After all, you are young, so you'd better add him first. In fact, whoever adds him is the same. " In this way, both sides added QQ.
Two days later, both of them told me at the same time that they didn't feel anything. Forget it.
I must have taken the wrong medicine to be so enthusiastic. I said to Lehmann, "Yichang is not far from Changyang. Let's meet. It' s uncomfortable to meet, forget it. " Leman listened to my suggestion and immediately sent a "short message" to the woman who came to Changyang. The woman also replied: "Changyang people are hospitable." In this way, the two met in Changyang, and the result was love at first sight. They are both very satisfied with each other. After that, the two want to date again, to get to know each other better, the man wants to see the woman's parents, whether to have children and so on. Both of them contacted me by QQ. I went around in two ways to reassure both sides. One night, Xiao Ni talked and talked until twelve o'clock. Thankfully, the merit is finally complete.
Out of concern, I occasionally ask about their progress. Lyman told me that Little Mud shouted in the streets of Wuhan: "Long live Miss Pearl!" I know that although I am grateful on the surface, I am actually expressing my love to each other. But it sounds comforting. What happened next, what Little Mud and his relatives did, made me almost vomit blood.
Xiao Ni went home for the Spring Festival. Her aunt, my classmate and colleague, spent the Spring Festival at her home. I don't know what she said. Little Mud came to see me with a beaming face before coming back from the Spring Festival, and didn't even say hello during the Spring Festival. I vaguely felt that something was wrong. Xiao Ni's aunt is a famous neurotic person who likes to make trouble and has done many unreasonable things. She must have made some small moves at Little Mud's house, so Little Mud will have such a change. I am an extremely sensitive person, I feel it, but it is difficult to speak. What I want to say is vision. I am doing a good deed with a clear conscience.
After the Spring Festival, we went to school. Xiao Ni's parents went to Yichang to visit their grandchildren and also wanted to see their future son-in-law. Le Mans and Xiao Ni's parents finally met and got along well. Xiao Ni's mother came back ecstatic and said to me, "Lyman called her mother." I am grateful to her, too, but she has a heart attack, and her daughter, who is nearly 30 years old, finally landed, and said it was like this. I was fooled by her emotional contagion, and thought I had done something out of line. I was happily married as soon as I made a move, and I was a little complacent. In the office, I showed off to menstruation, a little mud, saying that my success as a matchmaker was in sight. I think she is Xiao Ni's own menstruation, Xiao Ni's old mother is happy, my matchmaker is happy, and her own menstruation should be happy. Originally, it was a good thing. I didn't expect Xiao Ni's aunt to be jealous of me and maliciously vilify my goodness, which almost ruined it and made everyone uncomfortable. I'm angry with the splint. I get angry when I think about it, just like eating a dead fly.
One night, Lyman called me and asked, what did I say to Little Mud's aunt? I said, what's going on? Le Mans said Little Mud had a big fight because of menstruation. I explained it calmly. After answering the phone, I felt very uncomfortable. My husband complained to me: "Listen to this man questioning you, what are you talking about!" I didn't sleep well all night, so I calmly thought, let's find out the truth first. The next day, I found Xiao Ni's mother and asked about the situation, which explained my conversation with Aunt Xiao Ni. Xiao Ni's mother thinks there is nothing wrong with what I said, but she is as happy for her daughter as she is. But I can't stop complaining that I shouldn't tell her sister-in-law, saying that her sister-in-law is so virtuous and don't tell her anything. And explain to the little mud what happened in front of him. Things should come out here. Xiao Ni's aunt made trouble in the middle and deliberately stirred it up. I have nothing to blame them. But what Xiao Ni's mother said next made me very chilling. She said: the daughter-in-law married into the house and the introducer committed suicide by climbing over the wall. Tell me not to have any contact with Lyman in the future. And said: My little clay has been such a character since she was a child, and her things will be unrelenting when others touch them. As soon as I heard about the change of attitude towards me before and after I came into contact with Xiao Ni, I knew there must be a conspiracy among my colleagues. I asked Xiao Ni's mother, and she told me that Xiao Ni's aunt said that I had a good relationship with Leman and reminded Xiao Ni to be vigilant and take precautions. I asked: Does she have any evidence? Mother Mud said, "She said that you always said that Lerman is good and capable." I'm really upset. I said, "I always tell Lerman that Mud is good and smart. I am a matchmaker, and I can't speak well of both sides. How can I say that? This can also be' evidence'. It's outrageous. " I lamented the confusion of Xiao Ni's mother and daughter, right and wrong. I'm deeply sorry. If I had known this, I would have said nothing! I found out the reason, went back to school and found Xiao Ni's aunt, so I criticized her mercilessly and told the truth. She was accused by all sides and tried to expose her. She was depressed. She said, "Stop it. I feel so sad. I am a loyal girl. I reminded her that I didn't expect it to be self-defeating. " . B daughter artistry sold me. In order to make up for the harm done to me, and to retaliate against my niece for betraying her, she told me that Xiao Ni had let the other party know because of her weakness, and she wanted to tell me something in order to retaliate against the other party.
There has never been a word between me and Little Mud. All her performances are conveyed by her mother, aunt and Lyman. My feelings for her ranged from caring to tolerance to disgust. It stands to reason that I care about her and find her an ideal husband. She doesn't appreciate me, but she will never have any opinion of me. But in this case, she is extremely selfish and heartless. She is my student, but she makes me feel like a violent and willful queen. My irrelevant words became her unforgivable mistakes. I knew Lerman for two years before I became her matchmaker. Now it has become her business. My previous friendship with Lerman offended her! Xiao Ni said that I was a matchmaker in the office to let others know that she was almost 30 years old and not married, which made her look ugly. She has been divorced for many years and never got married. This is a fact that everyone who knows her knows. I asked her about her in the office and introduced her to my friends, which became my "crime". In the street of my hometown, I met him head-on, pretending not to see him, as if I had a grudge. I'm in a terrible mood and I don't know what to say. Although I am not good at mediation, I am full of enthusiasm and have been treated as a donkey's liver and lung by Xiao Ni's family. I can't figure out how small such a person is, with a hair covering his face. I think she has psychological and personality problems.
When I first started being a matchmaker for Xiao Ni, I told my girlfriend A. A criticized me and said, "What did you introduce to her? She is a person with personality. One hair can cover her face, and then she will send you all over. " I trust A very much, and I feel a little regretful after listening to it, but I still make an excuse of lack of confidence: I care about her and do good deeds, so I don't think so.
I told my girlfriend B that being a matchmaker made me sick. She snapped at me: What's the point of introducing it to others now? How many men want money and lust, how many women want to get rich and love money, but they can't get good. This society is too complicated, not as pure as before. Especially those who remarry, many people have personality defects. When introducing people, the first priority is not to be fooled by these remarried people. Many divorces are due to affairs and betrayal. I am speechless. ...
Later, I heard Xiao Ni's classmate say that she was selfish, willful and irresponsible ... but I didn't know her. She is a selfish, willful and heartless woman. Being her matchmaker this time has given me a clear understanding of her.
Laozi said, "He who knows others is wise, and he who knows himself is wise." I seriously reflect on myself, and my heart is relieved. It was because I was unwise that I helped them and turned myself into a slut.
I made n phone calls to match the two sides and stayed with them for n nights. I found a rich husband for Little Mud and a young sister for Lyman. They are all satisfied and their marriage is very happy. The tense relationship between Xiao Ni's aunt and Xiao Ni's husband and wife also became a joke under the mediation of her mother. Only I, an outsider, was planted very dirty by menstruation of Xiao Ni, was deeply hurt by Xiao Ni's mother's words, and was regarded as an enemy by Xiao Ni. Le Mans: I have gone from a stranger to a friend, and now from a friend to a stranger. Think about it, it's really not worth it. Why bother me? Being a matchmaker is an internal injury. Alas, when the matchmaker still has this kind of retribution, he really lost his wife and lost his soldiers. If you have insufficient internal skills, if you don't have a thorough understanding of others, and if you are not your closest relatives and friends, I suggest you not to be a matchmaker.