Nine times out of ten, the next sentence is that people who can talk to others are the same, which comes from the work "Commander of Biezicai" by Fang Yue, a poet in the Song Dynasty: Unhappy things are often the same as people who can talk to others, knowing that Jingmen is a talented man and dreaming of fighting the south with iron horses.

It means that people live in this world, and there are 789 things that are not satisfactory in ten things, but occasionally only one thing is satisfactory and not perfect. And it is lucky to be able to confide one or two or three of these regrets to others.

Chicken soup for the soul:

Only by enduring loneliness can we remain prosperous. The road to success is full of hesitation, helplessness, sarcasm and even ridicule, but the process of going through this dark age is precisely the key stage of self-precipitation, just like the darkness before dawn. Endure it, and it will be dawn.

When life is unhappy, nine times out of ten it is a blessing in disguise. It is better to face it frankly than to cry. Don't wait for someone who shouldn't wait, and don't break our hearts. Loneliness is not necessarily unhappy. What you get may not last long, and what you lose may not be lost. If we look down, the damage will be less.

Laugh at the bleak situation, and then sit and watch the clouds rising in Ran Ran. No dispute is compassion, no argument is wisdom, no smell is purity, no thought is freedom, forgiveness is liberation, and contentment is letting go.