Mood is a
emotional
state of people, which is characterized by anxiety, depression, calmness and pleasure, with various colors, which vary from person to person. Being moody, changeable and unstable is not conducive to self-cultivation.
Some people in life
feel like sunshine when things are smooth, but when they are frustrated, they feel like a stagnant pool, disheartened and idle away
Life
Others are different. They are elated when the spring breeze is prosperous, face difficulties and bumps, overcome themselves, open their minds and smile at life.
people who believe in "every man for himself, the devil takes the hindmost" are definitely not open-minded. This kind of people are dissatisfied with everything, full of complaints, too fat to eat meat, too crowded to sit in the car, trying their best, accumulating wealth, low interest, petty, seeking fame and reputation, corrupt, cunning, deceiving others, caring about self-interest, jealous of people, and ultimately suffering from mental depression and mental torture.
People with an open mind behave gracefully. Tolerance, generosity, frankness, warm and polite manners, elegant and noble qualities are the common sense that sages taught people to be human. Manners are related to the success or failure of things, elegant manners will bear the fruits of success, and rude language and bad manners will be full of obstacles. Open-minded, elegant, from kindness, noble personality. They will not neglect the lowly, flatter the dignitaries, tolerate those with different views and live in peace with those who are jealous. I always respect other people's thoughts in my life, never insist on uniformity, try my best to control my emotions, listen to other people's opinions with an open mind, don't make harsh comments easily, be tolerant, be polite to others, have noble feelings and excellent quality.
It depends on an open mind, an optimistic personality, humility, friendliness, and elegant manners.
Zheng Banqiao and Yuan Mei are both great writers in the Qing Dynasty, both of whom are brilliant. In Zheng Banqiao's poem "To Yuan Mei", there is a beautiful sentence "I am not poor if you have a genius". It is not uncommon for ancient scholars to despise each other. Zheng Banqiao was not jealous of Yuan Mei's knowledge, but regarded his "wizard" as his example and wealth. This kind of mind is open and tolerant, which is admirable.
When I saw the question and answer of "Harmony with Two Immortals" in the book, my mood suddenly widened. "Harmony with two immortals", namely Hanshan and Picked up. A holy monk in the Tang Dynasty, with a high reputation for poetry, was respected for his merits. In the past, Hanshan asked Pickup, "There are people who slander me, bully me, insult me, laugh at me, despise me, belittle me, hate me and cheat me. What should I do?" Pick up the answer: "Just bear with him, let him, let him, avoid him, endure him, respect him, ignore him, and stay a few years and see him." Although the language is humorous, it is meaningful. The key is to broaden your mind, to be sincere and tolerant, and no matter how deep and thick the misunderstanding is, it will melt away the snow over time
to broaden your mind, to be calm, to cultivate one's morality and to keep in good health. Faced with unpredictable changes and tangible and intangible pressures, people are easily upset and distracted; Anxious to get angry, at a loss; Non-stop, exhausted; Put all your eggs in one basket, the larger the foe; Go with the flow and muddle along. There are also superficial scenery, inner hesitation, immature appearance, vicissitudes of life, hard-won achievements and frequent depression. It is even more important to broaden your mind, calm down, calm down, treat everything calmly, don't compare with others, don't be jealous, don't show off, don't feel inferior, and don't be arrogant, so that you can forget fame and fortune, forget resentment, pay attention to life, and be healthy physically and mentally. < P > Lu You said, "Old age can cleanse the world, and there is no bright moon in the balcony." The road of life is not straight and accessible, and people will inevitably encounter troubles, setbacks and misfortunes, but we should pay attention to adjusting our state of mind, strive not to be influenced by the outside world, and always maintain a calm and open-minded psychological state. Get rid of low tastes, get rid of selfish distractions, live aboveboard, and your mind will be open and your life will be happy.