2, excessive protection, let children develop inertia, lose common sense of life and viability, and will eventually be eliminated by society.
Teach a child to say 10 thousand words, it is better to let him try once. Tears will teach him to reflect, regret will help him grow, and pain will make him brave.
In life, do you often see such a picture: parents or grandparents, grandparents are always concerned about children's lives and activities, helping children solve various things.
This kind of education hinders children's self-reliance and independence, and destroys their self-confidence and adaptability.
Some people call back and ask their parents why there are shells on eggs and how to peel them; Some students put the rice cooker directly on the gas stove to cook; Some people don't know how to drain water when cooking. ...
The poor inherit the wind. They always feel that the more they pay for their children, the more they love them.
They hope that every step of their children will be smooth, and they will try their best to clear the obstacles for their children and take on everything. However, they ignore that children grow up through falling and making mistakes again and again.
Life should be soaked by rain, not a drop less; The road that life should take cannot be reduced by one step; You can't escape the suffering that life deserves. Only in this way can children grow into an indomitable spirit.