Choosing a partner is not just choosing a person, but choosing a lifelong lifestyle! Buffett once said: The most important decision in my life is who I choose to marry, not any other investment.
It's raining outside, and you can't say anything. It's sunny outside, so you say it's sunny. We are too far away from the outside world.
There is a me in the world and a you in the world. We broke each other, added water and mud, got together, and remolded a me and a you. From then on, there was me in the mud and you in the mud. -classic quotations from Ma Weiwei's Theory of Chess Manual.
I was lucky enough to find my lifelong companion-glasses as early as primary school.