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Be sincere and generous.
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Kang Youwei's "The First Book of the Shangqing Emperor"
2
A person's mind will be narrow if there are many desires. Few desires lead to tolerance.
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[Qing Dynasty] Jin Ying's "Aphorisms on the Wall"
3
. A large amount is good for doing things, and a big tree is good for providing shade. .
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Chinese Proverbs
4
When someone slanders me, it is better to be able to tolerate it than to be able to defend myself. When people insult me, it is better to be able to transform it than to prevent it.
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Master Hongyi's "Farewell Records of Aphorisms"
5
No one can be perfect except Yao and Shun.
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[Tang Dynasty] Li
Bai's "Book of Jingzhou with Han"
6
, Guan Gong released Prime Minister Cao, but his husband must be able to tolerate others.
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Chinese Proverbs
7
To be kind to others is to be good at forgiving.
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[Beautiful] Frost's "New Hampshire"
8
, Patience keeps the trouble in mind.
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Chinese Proverbs
9
Being patient makes a true gentleman, being able to bend and stretch is a man.
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Chinese Proverbs
10
Don’t let a small grudge lead to a close relationship, and don’t let a new grudge make you forget your old kindness.
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[Qing Dynasty] Jin
Tassel "Aphorisms on the Wall"
11
, Saint Noble and broad, but the common people are humble.
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[Chinese] Lu
Jia's "Xinyu
·
Shu Shi"< /p>
12
The East China Sea is wide and deep, with hundreds of rivers descending from humble beginnings; although the Five Mountains are tall, they do not resist dirt and dust.
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[Three Kingdoms] Cao Zhi
Zhi
"When You Want to Travel to Nanshan"
13
, endure a word, give up your anger, endure one thing, and lose one thing.
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Chinese Proverbs
14
If you don’t think twice about things, you will eventually regret them. People who can endure a hundred times will have no worries.
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[Ming Dynasty] Feng Menglong's "Eternal Words to Awaken the World"
15
People should have a conscience. Even the cruelest of hearts have fleeting, sweet memories of forgiving others.
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[Jie] Seifert's "City of Tears"
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Forgive others more and forgive yourself less .
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Chinese Proverb
17
It is easier to forgive an enemy than to forgive a friend.
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[English] Blake's "Jerusalem"
18
If you have patience, you will benefit. ; To have tolerance is to have great virtue.
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"Shang Shu
·
Book of Zhou
·
"Jun Chen"
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To be tolerant is to be great, but to be without desire is to be strong.
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"Ancient and Modern Couplets"
20
When you come out of the cave, you are invincible, and you can be spared. Spare people.
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[Song Dynasty] "Quatrains" by the Taoist Master Shanqi
21
A benevolent person loves all things.
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"Historical Records
·
The Zhao Family"
22
. If the mountains are sharp, they are not high; if the water is narrow, they are not deep.
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[Han] Liu
To "New Preface
·
Jie Shi"< /p>
23
Those who are discouraged draw their own conclusions, and those who are narrow-minded are prone to profit.
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[Ming Dynasty] Zhu Zhiyu's "Zhu Shunshui Collection
·
Gong Min"
24< /p>
If we are generous and compatible, everything will be harmonious.
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"Song Dynasty Fact Garden
·
Ancestral Hadith"
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p>. Evil people are bold, villains are popular, and gentlemen are generous.
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Chinese Proverbs
26
If you are not tolerant of others, you do not deserve the tolerance of others.
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[Russian] Turgenev's "Roting"
27
, The sky and the earth are wide in the chest, and there are always crossings People and ships.
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Chinese Proverbs
28
, Taishan does not allow soil, so it can become big; rivers and seas do not choose small details Because it flows, it can reach its depth; the king does not exclude the common people, so he can understand its virtue.
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[Qin] Li
Si's "Book of Remonstrances and Chases from Guests"
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, If it is too strong, it will break.
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"Book of Jin
·
Biography of Liu Wei"
30
If you can tolerate villains, you will become a gentleman.
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[Ming] Feng Menglong's "Zengguang Zhitanbu"
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, being able to serve others, so he has a guilty conscience; His heart is empty, so he takes it widely; he takes it widely, so he becomes taller.
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[Ming Dynasty]
Li
Zhi's "Book Burning"
·
Gao Yanshuo"
32
One forbearance can support a hundred courages, and one moment of silence can control a hundred actions.
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[Song Dynasty] Su
Xun's "Mind Skills"
34
When it is convenient It is convenient to be able to find a place for others and to forgive others.
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[Ming Dynasty] Wu Chengen's "Journey to the West"
35
A great man has two hearts: one A heart that bleeds, a heart that tolerates.
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[Lebanon] Kahlil Gibran
36
The violet leaves its fragrance there and crushes its ankles superior. This is forgiveness and anger.
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Mark Twain
37
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Tolerance is like the drizzle from the sky that nourishes the earth. It blesses those who are tolerant and those who are tolerated.
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Shakespeare's famous play "The Merchant of Venice"
38
The noblest revenge is tolerance
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Hugo<. /p>
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Only brave people know how to be tolerant; a coward will never be tolerant, this is not his nature.
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Si
Tern
Zhou Enlai is magnanimous:
Our beloved Premier Zhou has always been called a model of courtesy.
Once,
Prime Minister Zhou asked a barber named Zhu to shave his face. Halfway through the shave, Premier Zhou suddenly coughed. Master Zhu didn't pay attention.< /p>
After a small scratch,
Master Zhu felt nervous and
hurriedly said:
“
I didn't do my job well.
I'm really sorry, Prime Minister.
"
Premier Zhou smiled and comforted him and said:
"
How can I blame you! It's all my fault that I coughed and didn't say hello to you. Fortunately you
did the knife quickly.
”
Afterwards, Premier Zhou thanked Master Zhu repeatedly and tried his best to eliminate Master Zhu’s concerns.
The Prime Minister has a lot of heart:
The Shu Kingdom during the Three Kingdoms Period
After the death of Zhuge Liang, Jiang Wan was appointed to preside over the government.
One of his subordinates was Yang Xi
He had a withdrawn character and was slow to speak. When Jiang Wan spoke to him, he would not respond. /p>
It’s outrageous that Yang Xi is so disrespectful to you!
"
Jiang Wan smiled calmly and said:
"
People
well,
Everyone has their own temperament.
Let Yang Xi praise me in person,
That is not his nature;
Let him
in front of everyone If he says something wrong about me in front of him, he will think that I can’t get off the stage.
So,
he had no choice but to remain silent.
In fact,
This is what makes him valuable.
”
Later, some people praised Jiang Wan
“
The prime minister’s belly can support a boat
”
Liszt accepted free students:
There was a girl who was going to give a concert.
She said on the poster that she was a student of Liszt.
The day before the performance,
Li Si Te appeared in front of the girl. The girl was so frightened that she sobbed and pretended that it was for livelihood and asked for forgiveness.
Liszt asked her to play the music to him and give him some guidance, and finally said cheerfully:
“
Go on stage boldly
Play,
You are now my student.
You can announce to the theater manager that
the last program of the party will be performed by the teacher
for the students.
”
Liszt played the last piece at the concert.
Peng Dehuai is magnanimous:
Peng Dehuai, commander-in-chief of the three Red Army Corps, and others
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Many people inspected the terrain at the front, and the messengers held The red flag ran and yelled to give way.
Only one warrior sat still.
Peng Dehuai shouted a few words when he saw someone blocking the road.
The warrior stood up and punched Peng
It was always two punches.
Mr. Peng let him go and hurried on.
Afterwards,
the soldiers were ordered to bring the soldier to see Mr. Peng.
Mr. Peng Li
He immediately asked him to go back. The soldier knew that he had caused trouble.
He was afraid.
Seeing that Mr. Peng didn’t care, I was deeply moved.
When I met someone later, I
said:
“
The commander-in-chief is really magnanimous!
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Please bear the burden of thorns
Lin Xiangru because
"
Return the jade to Zhao
"
He was awarded the title of Shangqing due to meritorious service, ranking above the incorruptible ones. Lian Po was very unconvinced and threatened to humiliate Lin Xiangru in person. After Lin Xiangru learned about it, he tried his best to avoid and tolerate it, and not to conflict with Lian Po.
Lin Xiangru’s retainers thought he was afraid of Lianpo, but Lin Xiangru said:
“
The reason why Qin did not dare to invade our Zhao country is because
Because of General Lian and me,
I tolerate and give in to General Lian.
I put the country’s danger first.
p>Put personal
private grudges behind!
”
When Lian Po heard this, Lian Po< /p>
The story of "
Asking for sin
"
.
Renyi Hutong
During the Ming Dynasty,
Dong Duxing, a native of Jiyang, Shandong Province, served as an official in the capital.
One day,
he received a letter from his family,
saying that his family was building a house
and had a quarrel with his neighbor over the foundation.
I hope he can use his power to come forward and resolve the matter.
Dong Duxing immediately revised a letter after reading it
and said:
“
A book sent thousands of miles away is just a wall, I can’t help but use it I laughed heartbrokenly; you are kind and we are close neighbors, so why not give up two feet?
”
After reading it, my family felt that Dong Duxing was reasonable. So he took the initiative to give up a few feet when building a house. When the neighbors saw
the Dong family being like this,
they also realized something and
followed suit.
As a result, the two families gave up an eight-foot-wide space.
After the house was built,
there was an alley, known as the world
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Renyi Hutong
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