What Helen said to Jane in Jane Eyre. It's about how cowardly you are if you can't stand it.
Helen taught her patience and adaptability. "since you can't escape, you have to endure ... you said you can't stand it, it's cowardice and stupidity. If a person can't stand the pain he has to endure, it is cowardice, "Helen also told her." "Life is too short to hold grudges.