If you want to be strong, please demand yourself by the standards of the strong.
First of all, tell yourself: I am a person who does great things. Whether you are lazy, jealous, afraid, impetuous or inferior, you should say to yourself: I am a person who does great things. Let your heart be strong first, and stay away from mediocrity to stand up step by step. If you want to be strong, you must demand yourself by the standards of the strong.
Second, stay away from these people. 1. People who are bad to others. 2. Idle people. 3. People who always hit you. 4. People who always take without giving back. People around you have a great influence on themselves. These four kinds of people must stay away. They are your enemies growing up.
Third, the magic weapon to adjust your state. When you are depressed and depressed, you must learn to use these magic weapons to adjust yourself.
1. Read books that can bring strength. 2. Watch videos that can bring strength. 3. Listen to music that can bring strength.
Fourth, hang a picture in an eye-catching place. Always remind yourself to hang whatever you are missing.
1, if you don't have tolerance, then hang a famous saying of tolerance.
2, you are always lazy, so hang a famous saying to motivate yourself. Don't spend time worrying, focus on the present, stay true and work hard.
Fifth, be alone properly. No matter how busy you are at work and how much you socialize, you should leave some space for yourself. Being alone is not doing nothing, but thinking, reflecting and talking to yourself. Know yourself better and know what you want. Learn to be alone so that you won't lose yourself in time.
6. Don't let yourself be too idle. Many people have a doubt, cloud is so rich, why it is so difficult to do things. Actually, doing things is what you need. Whether you are rich or not, you must find your own thing to do. When people are idle, they are easy to think and be decadent. When people are busy, life will be more fulfilling, so that bad emotions will be reduced and life will develop in a good direction.
Seven, help others feel depressed, life is meaningless, then to help people who are not strong enough, help others, will make their mentality more sunny and stronger. Others' affirmation of you will enhance your sense of self-worth and put you in a better state.