What you can withdraw depends on what you have saved. If you don’t store friendship, you can’t draw on help; if you don’t store knowledge, you can’t draw on ability; if you want inexhaustible happiness, you must store gratitude and give. Tenderness should be present, but not compromise. Life cannot be without pursuit. Without pursuit, the driving force of life will be lost. But don't force it. If you force it, you will make life difficult for yourself.
There are thousands of flavors in life, splendor is always a momentary thing, and loneliness is more common. Time is passing by, and life should be strived to make it beautiful. But don't force it. If you force it, you will make it difficult for yourself and make you feel unsatisfied everywhere. If you pursue things without being demanding or demanding, people will become free, happy, and happy.
Simplicity means being calm and calm in your heart, not demanding too much from life. There will be successes and failures in life, gatherings and separations. No one can be blessed and can cover the sky with one hand. You can't have your cake and eat it too, this is the frustration of life. Mature people can face all imperfections calmly, so they don't force or be persistent, do their best in everything, and just go with the flow. The pursuit of perfection is a beautiful ideal, and accepting imperfections is a beautiful mentality.
Sometimes when I think about it, the greatest sorrow is growing up. From then on, laughter was no longer pure, and crying was no longer thorough. Many things in life are hard to come by. Those who are deliberately forced will not get it, and those who are not expected will often come unexpectedly. Therefore, you must have a free and easy heart, let everything take its course, do not be angry, do not be impatient, do not overdo it, do not force, do not be pessimistic, do not be rigid, do not panic, do not forget the shape, do not take pleasure in things, do not Compassion for oneself.
Bloom yourself into a flower, and you will enter spring; there is nothing to be confused about in life, just walk casually and freely, you can start doing what you want to do at any time, I hope you will not use your age and other things to bind oneself with. Life requires planning, but accidents will always happen. Instead of forcing something or a certain place to achieve a certain goal, it is better to let nature take its course. Of course, I don’t mean to leave it to fate, but to follow the direction of your heart and do your best.
Love is a mystery. When excuses appear in love, excuses are just excuses. Obviously they are just excuses that no longer have passion. They come and go without a trace. If love disappears and one party tries to get it again for any reason, this is as unreasonable as trying to capture water by force.
No need to force it, the best things will always appear inadvertently. Everyone is like this, the more you try to prove yourself, the more you lose yourself. It's enough to go your own way openly and be who you want to be. No one is a fool. It's just that sometimes, we choose to act stupid to feel that little bit of something called happiness.
Never assume, never force, just go with the flow. If it is destined to happen, it will be as you wish. There are some things that I have never had the chance to do, and when I get the chance, I don’t want to do them anymore. Some words have been buried in my heart for a long time without a chance to say them. When I had the chance to say them, I couldn't say them out. Some loves have never had the opportunity to love, and when they have the opportunity, they no longer love them.
It’s not that we don’t pursue it, we just don’t force it. Live your life calmly, don't make a fuss, just seek peace of mind. More happiness, less worries. No matter how much money you have, as long as you are happy every day, eat when you are hungry, sleep when you are tired, and smile when you wake up. Whatever life is like, add your own seasoning and taste the various flavors of life. There are three thousand things in the world, learn to laugh.
Demand less from others and demand more from yourself; impose less on life and devote more sincerity; chase less and be more peaceful; complain less and be more grateful and content. The sun is everywhere and the flowers of happiness are blooming.
Gradually, I finally understood that some things cannot be forced, and some people cannot be relied on, because there is nothing to do and because there is nothing to rely on, so I learn to let nature take its course and learn to be content with the situation.
Only by having a normal heart, not forcing yourself, and not complaining, can you fully enjoy the beauty of life. Since you can't change what has happened, it's better to adjust your mentality and face it calmly. No matter what the environment is, you should be content with the situation. Leave a piece of paradise in your heart, treat everything indifferently, be indifferent to worldly fame and fortune, smile at success and failure, live in the mortal world but your heart is outside the world, behave with a worldly mentality, and do things with a worldly mentality.
There is a time in life that must be there, but there is no time in life, so don’t force it. Don't force things that don't belong to you, and learn to give up at the right time. Maybe when you work hard, you will get something you wanted but didn't get, and you will have unexpected gains. Giving up at the right time is a kind of wisdom. It will allow you to more clearly examine your inner potential and external factors, adjust your tired body and mind, and become a happy and wise person. ?
When a person understands the difficulty of understanding himself, he will not force others to fully understand him, nor will he expect himself to fully understand others. In the innermost spiritual life, everyone is lonely. Love cannot eliminate this loneliness, but precisely because we understand the loneliness of others from ourselves and others, our hearts will be filled with the most sincere love for others. In the darkness, we walked side by side on our own pilgrimage.
The falling flowers are intentional, but the flowing water is ruthless. There is a time in life that you must have, but there is no time in life, so don’t force it. If giving up is a kind of happiness, then I would rather wait. Try to hate you and think only of your good. I believe in fate, not in destiny.