"Those who don't kill you will eventually make you strong" is a controversy in itself. Those who don't kill you will make you feel tingling and palpitations. I don't know how many people in this world can be invincible and resist everything, but as far as I know, there has never been one. And when those stings and palpitations accumulate and cannot be solved, loneliness begins to thrive until it destroys a person. So when Nietzsche couldn't restrain his loneliness any longer, he hid his will and abandoned it. That is, he was tired enough, so let him be quiet for a while.
If you look at the world like chess, you will be criticized by the world. After a hundred years of clearing the source, he walked with his own will. With the determination of "I will go even if the world is blocked", Wang Anshi embarked on a road of only one person. Once a person is in a high position, he will begin to doubt everything and not believe in many things. Therefore, when something happens, he can't allow himself to open his mouth and can only bear it silently, and then tell himself that I am the only one, and I will never be wrong.
Just like Jin Yong's lonely pursuit of defeat, his epitaph has spent his whole life: "For more than 3 years, he has killed enemies and traitors, defeated heroes and heroes, and the world is helpless, but he lives in seclusion in the deep valley and takes carving as his friend. Alas, it is lonely and embarrassing to seek an opponent in your life and not get it.
I don't know when, when I inadvertently look up at the familiar surroundings, I suddenly have the illusion that I know these people. Then I went to see each of them carefully, but I couldn't see them clearly. I don't like loneliness, and I don't think that "your loneliness, although defeated, is glorious". Failure is failure, and it is nothing more than a complete failure and silence. It is very important to have a true friend. You can talk about your troubles and share your happiness. At least you will have a sense of satisfaction in your heart, that is, barefoot people should be afraid of wearing shoes, and you should also have someone to support you. So, try to express yourself.
Bacon said that those who have always been alone have great animality, and those who lack true friends, the world is just a wasteland. Friendship is like grass on the vast grassland. It is because of that that a deserted place breeds all kinds of animals and plants and stories. And I have always felt that people who are lonely are often doing things that others can't accept but are firm, so they don't want to stay among the people around them. But when a person carries out his words and deeds, those like-minded people who are close to him will start to look for them. So, before that, I don't recommend narcissism. You should at least show your talents and let those who should see you see you, so that you can move on.
Of course, I don't advocate blindly following the crowd. As we all know, people will become helpless and stupid when they get together, so at least you should have your own judgment and know if this is what you are looking for. And a person, if he can't believe in himself and love himself, how can he love others! This requires an unbreakable blx, pure, bright and strong. Still the same sentence: be yourself, but do what you think, show yourself, and then look for those who are looking for you.