Be proud but not forgetful, be frustrated but not lose one's ambition
Confident but not proud, humble but not inferior
Be content but not complacent, be kind without seeking repayment
Expect without being demanding, contemplate without being confused
Be brave without being reckless, be decisive without being hasty
Be persistent without being rigid, be gentle without being cowardly
Strong Not domineering, arrogant but not overbearing
Don't panic in times of crisis, prudent and not hesitant
Traditional but not conservative. There are many etiquette but not cliché.
Harvard’s 25 Success Quotations
Believe
Believe that you can do it, and you will definitely do it.
Keep telling yourself something, even if it is not true, you will eventually make yourself believe it.
Be alert
Be alert to those who frighten dogs and children.
Excessive vigilance is like being under-vigilant, making people suspicious.
Don’t envy your neighbor’s fence for being greener, perhaps for having more thorns than grass.
As for a person who keeps saying "Everyone else says -----", if you ask him who the "other people" are, you will see his speechless embarrassment.
When a stranger is overly enthusiastic about helping you, be careful because he has ulterior motives.
Challenge
If you want to reach the next level, provide more and better service to others than expected.
Strive to do better than your last performance every time, and soon you will surpass those around you.
Henry Ford offered a reward of $25,000 to anyone who could help him save one screw or bolt in each of his cars.
You let me save 10 cents in every link of the factory, and I will help you rise to the top.
What will happen in 10 years if you keep the status quo?
Don't break anything until you're sure you can do it better.
Main Goal
What do you want in life? What can you give in return?
Successful people only want what they want - not what they don’t want.
Don’t worry about what you did in the past, what matters is what will you do in the future?
If you don’t know what you want in your life, what else do you want?
In addition to doing something, a wise man can also do something not to do.
Be busy with what you want, so you don’t have time to worry about what you don’t want.
Don’t be afraid to set your goals too high; you may need to settle for the next best thing.
If you don’t know what you want, don’t say you don’t have a chance.
Correct thinking
You must first judge yourself correctly before you can judge others.
Have you deceived others, or yourself? Think clearly before answering.
People who think before they act rarely make mistakes.
It is futile to try to persuade people who do not use their brains.
Those who think the whole world is wrong are most likely at fault themselves.
Action
Observe the person walking in front of you, see why he is ahead, and learn from his approach.
Only busy people can get things done, while dull people can only take advantage of opportunities.
An indecisive person cannot follow through even if he makes a decision.
Goodwill requires appropriate expression of action.
Cooperation
Requests yield better results than commands.
Those who are good at giving orders will be able to obey them and execute them.
Being willing to cooperate creates the power of support, while forcing obedience leads to failure.
Tell your boss what you want and see if he is willing to help you remove obstacles.
Friendly cooperation is more popular than incitement.
Cooperation must start with department leaders, and so does efficiency.
Working together is definitely not cooperation.
No one can hurt you unless you are willing to be hurt by others.
Speak meaningfully
Remember, others will know how much you know from every word you say.
How you say it is just as important as what you say.
When people ask for something, their tone of voice is particularly different.
It is easier for others to listen if your tone is tactful.
Indiscriminate remarks often lead to embarrassing situations.
Hard words hurt the most.
You can think as you wish, but you must be careful when expressing your thoughts.
Enthusiasm
When enthusiasm becomes a habit, fear and worry have no place.
People who lack enthusiasm also have no clear goals.
Enthusiasm makes the wheels of imagination turn.
A person lacking enthusiasm is like a car without gasoline.
The happiest people are those who are good at arranging play and work and remain enthusiastic about both.
Enthusiasm makes ordinary topics come alive.
Do more
Every time you do more, others owe you more.
Let others do better while increasing your own value.
Those who are good at fishing should choose bait that fish likes.
You can't make everyone like you, but you can reduce the reasons why others hate you.
Negotiating with people without causing friction is a major subject to be learned.
Do more and opportunities will follow.
He who serves others the most is the richest.
The road of service leads to a happy city.
Courage
Only by having the courage to admit what you don’t know can you learn and make progress.
Courage is just one more step beyond fear.
People who complain that they don’t have opportunities probably don’t have the courage to take risks.
Criticism
Only the nobody who achieves anything is immune to criticism.
Don’t be afraid of unfair criticism, but you must know what unfair criticism is.
Don’t criticize people you don’t understand, take the opportunity to learn from them.
Don’t be afraid of criticism. When you come up with new ideas, be prepared to be criticized.
Don’t criticize someone else’s behavior unless you know why they did it. You might be in the same situation.
If you can’t tolerate criticism, you won’t be able to try new things.
If you often criticize others, why not try to praise others?
Before starting to criticize, it is best to give a little praise.
If you want to be more popular, try to praise more and criticize less.
Behavior
A truly great person will be felt by others through his good deeds.
A day without any good deeds is wasted.
Medals and titles cannot get you to heaven, good deeds can increase your weight.
Constructive behavior can convince others, and bragging in words is useless.
Don’t say what you want, express it with actions.
Good deeds are the best way to praise yourself.
If you are smarter than others, others will see it in your behavior.
Responding in kind is the safest way to punish someone who has been unjust to you.
Don’t waste words on people who don’t like you.
Those who spend money to go to heaven must regret not doing more good deeds.
Good deeds can move people's hearts more than eloquent words.
An epitaph is not as memorable as a good deed.
The world will not give you medals for your knowledge, but will give you glory for your good deeds.
Good deeds do not need to be disguised with words.
Clear goals
Clearly understand what you want and devote yourself to pursuing it.
A person without a clear goal is like a ship without a compass.
Wise people have the habit of thinking clearly.
Willpower comes from continuous action, initiative, and clear goals.
Honest and hard work requires clear goals to guide success.
Without a clear goal, your life will be mediocre.
A firm goal is the first principle of success.
Education or Learning
Education is the development of inner strength. All education depends on one's own experience; no one can educate another person.
What you learn from work is more valuable than the reward you get in front of you.
You can learn by listening, talking is useless.
A good teacher must be a good student.
It is not necessary to keep all the knowledge in mind, as long as you can obtain the required knowledge.
It is better to study a person’s good ideas than to find fault with his shortcomings.
Knowledge must be applied to generate power.
Strive to do things better than others, and you will forget about financial worries.
If you don’t work hard to learn from your boss, you will be wasting promotions and better job opportunities.
Philosophers identify human mistakes from those who make them.
Being good at asking questions made Socrates a wise man at the time.
Use knowledge wisely and attract greater knowledge.
The more you learn on the job, the more you earn.
Those who study by themselves are like others paying for their education.
Knowledge must generate benefits through action, otherwise it is useless.
Failure
Edison failed ten thousand times before inventing the light bulb. Don’t worry if you fail once.
The “average person” gives up after failing once. Therefore, there are many "ordinary people", but there is only one Edison.
Aimless and drifting with the crowd is the primary cause of failure.
In the horizontal and reverse situations, you can find opportunities that are not available in the forward and reverse situations.
Let children have a "good time" when they are young, but they will often be "sad" when they grow up.
When criticizing others for their mistakes, you should also add some praise.
There is a huge difference between failure and temporary setbacks. Only by understanding the difference can you succeed.
Those who do not stop trying because of temporary setbacks will never fail.
Many people only need one more minute of support and one more effort to turn defeat into victory.
Successful recruitment is successful, failure is unsuccessful.
People who try to get something for nothing often achieve nothing.
Other people’s mistakes are no excuse for your own mistakes.
There is no shame in failure if you try your best.
Don’t blame the children for their bad behavior, blame the adults who didn’t teach them well.
Mistakes are like weeds in a garden. If they are not eradicated in time, they will spread everywhere.
Self-pity is an addictive narcotic.
Wise men pay attention to their own shortcomings, while ordinary people brag about their own advantages.
Failure is a blessing if it can push a person out of his complacent chair and force him to do something more useful.
Failure is a preparation for greater responsibility.
Failure is an asset if you understand why you failed.
Disability
A blind student at Northwest University in China copied lecture notes in shorthand and sold them to his sighted classmates to complete his studies.
If you feel discouraged, think about Helen Keller, who was blind, blind, and deaf, lived a full and happy life, and wrote books to encourage more people.
He who starts at the top is extremely unfortunate, because he can only slide down.
Happiness
Some people accumulate money in exchange for wealth, but wise people accumulate happiness and share it with others, which is still inexhaustible.
Happiness lies in action, not just possession.
You cannot make yourself happy by depriving others of their happiness.
Smiling makes people more beautiful and happy, and it costs nothing.
Enthusiasm is more popular than resentment.
Give happiness generously and you will be happier.
Harmony
Harmony keeps the universe moving.
The friction of machines consumes costs, and the friction between people consumes souls.
If you disagree with someone else, at least don't argue with them.
Those who promote peace are admired by others, and those who stir up friction are disliked.
Remember, it takes at least two people to argue.
When two or more people work together for a clear goal, there will be infinite power.
Mutual trust is the foundation of good interpersonal relationships.
People with good interpersonal relationships will never worry about not having friends.
People who like harmony usually know how to maintain it.
Last-lasting success is built on harmonious relationships.
Try to be the peacemaker and there won’t be too many disputes.
Only those who take advantage of troubled waters will stir up personnel disputes.
Fairness
Don’t ignore the subsection, the universe is made of atoms.
The best way to get help is to start helping others.
Confidence
Confidence grows stronger the more you use it.
No one can destroy your confidence in anything unless you want to.
All great miracles are simply the power of faith.
Misfortune seldom troubles those who have hope and faith.
Confidence needs a foothold, but fear can exist out of thin air.
Confidence comes from clear goals and a positive attitude.
Confidence is an attitude that often makes the "impossible" disappear invisible.
Faith cannot give you what you need, but it can tell you how to get it.
Fear
Bluffing often indicates deep fear.
Don’t hesitate because of fear, moving forward will eliminate fear.
Fear is the devil’s greatest weapon and mankind’s greatest enemy.
A conscious person is rarely afraid of anything.
Confidence can overcome fear.
Keep your fears to yourself, others have other people’s fears.
Bad luck likes people who are afraid of him.
Hope and fear do not go together.
Those who fear poverty will never be rich.
Friends
People who want something will look for friends, and soon they will have no friends.
If you want friends, be someone else’s friend first.
Don’t let down the friends who help you bounce back from depression.
A friend is someone who understands you and respects you.
Friendship needs to be expressed frequently to last forever.
Friendship means recognizing the shortcomings of friends without making them public.
Complain
If you must complain, then keep it quiet so as not to disturb others.
Don’t be too harsh on the person who complains. He has made his life miserable enough.
If you feel sluggish, wait until you are hungry before eating.
You should see a doctor before you get sick.
Eat only eight percent full
If you keep thinking about illness, you will continue to get sick, and the same goes for health.
Fresh fruits and vegetables are healthy foods that you can never have too much of.
Don’t seek medical advice, the fundamental solution is to find out the cause of the disease.
Eating too much is not necessarily healthy.
Pay attention to your eating habits and save the cost of seeing a doctor
There are also 80 life creeds
01. Tell yourself once a day, "I am really good." 』.
02. Being angry is punishing yourself for what others have done wrong.
03. Life without friends is like life without sunshine.
04. The hope of tomorrow makes us forget the pain of today.
05. If life is stripped of ideals, dreams, and fantasies, then life will be just a pile of empty shelves.
06. Luminescence is not exclusive to the sun, you can also shine.
07. A fool uses the body to monitor the soul, and a wise man uses the soul to monitor the body.
08. The only way to achieve happiness is to cherish what you have and forget what you don’t have.
09. Greed is the most real poverty, and satisfaction is the most real wealth.
10. You can gain the whole world with love, and you can lose the whole world with hate.
11. A person’s value is determined at the moment of temptation.
12. Youth is the only time when we have the right to weave dreams.
13. A classic of youth will never be redeemed again.
14. Without the language of love, all words are boring.
15. True love should transcend the length of life, the width of the heart, and the depth of the soul.
16. The power of love is so big that it can make people forget everything, but it is so small that it cannot contain even a grain of jealous sand.
17. When a person truly awakens, he gives up pursuing the wealth in the external world and begins to pursue the real wealth in his inner world.
18. As long as you have faith, you will never be frustrated.
19. No matter when you start, the important thing is not to stop once you start.
20. No matter when it ends, the important thing is not to regret it after it is over.
21. If a person is weak, he is his own worst enemy.
22. A brave person is his own best friend.
23. "Impossible" only exists in the dictionary of fools.
24. Have the best hope, make the best effort, and prepare for the worst.
25. Home! Home sweet home! The most beautiful thing in the world is home.
26. Idleness will make people’s minds rusty.
27. Everything must be viewed from multiple perspectives.
28. Where there is an ideal, hell is heaven.
29. Where there is hope, pain also becomes joy.
30. All victories are insignificant compared with the victory of conquering oneself.
31. All failures are insignificant compared with the failure of losing yourself.
32. God never complains about people’s ignorance, but people complain about God’s injustice.
33. A beautiful life should be full of expectations, surprises and gratitude.
34. The most tiring thing in the world is living a hypocritical life.
35. Thinking that you can do it or that you can’t do it is actually just a matter of thought.
36. The first youth is given by God; the second youth is achieved by your own efforts.
37. With fewer preset expectations, the care for others will be more comfortable.
38. Thoughts are like drills. They must be concentrated on one point to gain power.
39. As long as people do not lose their direction, they will not lose themselves.
40. If you once sang the praises of dawn, then please also embrace the night.
41. Greetings do not have to be cautious, but they must be sincere and touching.
42. The important thing in life is not where you stand, but the direction you are facing.
43. Don’t give up flying when you can fly.
44. Don’t give up dreaming when you can dream.
45. Don’t give up love when you can love.
46. Life is too short. If you give up today, you may not get it tomorrow.
47. Genius is one percent inspiration and ninety-nine percent hard work.
48. People always cherish what they don’t get and forget what they have.
49. Only by knowing how to share happiness can you be twice as happy.
50. You must think highly of yourself first, and then others will think highly of you.
51. One today is better than two tomorrows.
52. Keep it in mind; every day is the most beautiful day of the year.
53. Optimists see opportunities in disasters; pessimists see disasters in opportunities.
54. Having courage does not mean that fear does not exist, but it means having the courage to face fear and overcome it.
55. If you are willing to admit your mistakes, half of them have been corrected.
56. Tomorrow is the fastest-growing piece of land in the world because it is full of hope.
57. The ideal road is always prepared for those who have faith.
58. Among all deceptions, self-deception is the most serious.
59. The biggest mistake in life is to constantly worry about making mistakes.
60. Turn your face to the sun, and there will be no shadows.
61. Experience is extracted from pain.
62. Face the past with the least regret.
63. Face the present with the least waste.
64. Face the future with the most dreams.
65. Happiness does not come from having more but from caring less.
66. Your choice is to do it or not to do it, but if you don’t do it, you will never have a chance.
67. If you want to have a perfect friendship, you may not be able to find friends in your life.
68. Don’t dwell on sadness when things go wrong, think about the days when there was laughter.
69. Treat yourself as a fool and ask if you don’t understand. You will learn more.
70. Before correcting others, first reflect on whether you have made a mistake.
71. If you dare not give it a try because you are afraid of failure, you will never succeed.
72. To overcome anxiety and depression in life, you must first learn to be your own master.
73. You can’t control the weather, but you can change your mood.
74. Loneliness and abandonment are the most terrible forms of poverty.
75. Imagination is more important than knowledge.
76. Aimless life is like sailing on the sea without a compass.
77. Play your role well and do what you should do.
78. All great actions and thoughts have a humble beginning.
79. Be kind to others when you are proud, because you will need them when you are frustrated.
80. To learn to do anything, you must do it step by step and don’t rush.