The previous sentence means that there are many disputes in front of the widow's door. The previous sentence means that there are many disputes in front of the widow's house. This old saying says that there is little smoke on the roof of a widower's house, but there is a lot of disputes in front of a widow's door. It expresses the sadness of widowed men and women. There are many disputes in front of the widow's door, and it contains multiple meanings.

A woman who loses her husband becomes a widow. In feudal society, it was generally impossible for widows to remarry. Women in their prime often stay alone in an empty house, or take care of their children alone, and have to fulfill their filial piety for their deceased husbands. In this kind of living environment, if a man often visits her home, people around him will make various assumptions, which is not good for the man who visits the widow's home, and it is even worse for the widow herself. Over time, it becomes a warning, and then forms people's subconscious mind.

People stay away from women who have lost their husbands and stay away from them, for fear of provoking comments. In the closed patriarchal rural areas, it is nothing more than a kind of harm that adds insult to injury.

In ancient times, when a woman lost her husband, she lost the most important supporter in the Three Obediences and Four Virtues. It is said that if you are not married, you should obey your father, if you are married, you should obey your husband, and if your husband dies, you should obey your son. The road ahead is often to keep the rules and raise your son. If you stay there until you are old, you can be given a chastity memorial. This is the best ending for a chaste woman. During this process, special attention must be paid to a woman's ethics and words. Even if a man comes to harass her, she must dodge. It can be said that there are many right and wrongs in front of the widow's door, like a talisman, tying the women who have lost their husbands in their prime to the less human road of justice and righteousness.

There is less smoke on the widower’s roof? The meaning is relatively simple. A widower is a man who has lost his wife. The lack of smoke on the roof of a widower's house means that he has lost the care of his wife. Sometimes a man is too lazy to cook and often just pays for the meal. Judging from the smoke, eating, dressing and living, the life of a man who has lost his wife is very desolate.

This old saying can be said to be a profound and condensed summary of the lives and situations of men and women who have lost their spouses. It is true and vivid, and its concise words have profound meaning.

There is a lot of trouble at the widow's door. There is no way to check this allusion. However, according to strict couplets, the last sentence of it should be: "There is little smoke on the widower's roof." 1. A widower refers to a man who does not remarry after his wife dies.

In the past, men, especially those living in rural areas, did not like to cook, or did not know how to cook at all. They were accustomed to a life of having a wife to stretch out their hands for clothes and open their mouths for food.

After the death of the wife, if it is almost dusk, it will be even more desolate and depressed, the body will be poor, the energy will be low, the person will become lazier, and he will eat too much. I don’t want to do the next meal.

When I lived in my hometown, there was a widower (guan) not far away who was mentally retarded. I heard from my father that when he was young, he married a wife and gave birth to a baby. However, due to a sudden illness, the beautiful three-year-old baby died. The baby's mother was hit hard and died a year later.

Later, he never had a wife, and he was so dirty that he had no home, let alone cooking. He did hard work and simple farm work in the production team, and the production team took care of him as a household with five guarantees. He doesn't eat for free, he earns it by helping with work. Therefore, there is no smoke at all from the roof of his house, let alone little smoke.

A man who has a family is much happier. In the summer, I took advantage of the cool morning to work in the fields. When I came back, I looked at the smoke from the roof, smelled the aroma of rice after entering the hospital, and looked at the kind faces of my wife and children. The fatigue from the previous work was wiped away, and I felt happy. A smile bloomed on his face.

Life is so unpredictable. Everyone hopes for harmony between husband and wife and a long life, but there is no sequence in life and death, and it cannot be predicted.

For widowers, if the word "lazy" is added to the word, they must be able to eat cold, and they are too lazy to light a fire (in rural areas, a fire is made for every meal, and now the conditions have improved a lot), and they can make do with it. Just fine.

Of course there is less smoke on the roof of his house!

If he has a cheerful personality, leads a regular life, and likes good food, he will love life and will not compromise on the issue of eating, and there will naturally be no shortage of smoke. 2. A widow refers to a woman whose husband has died and has not remarried.

Today, can you still hear the word "widow"? It is no longer heard, no one speaks, and it is almost forgotten.

A woman who has lost her husband lives alone, maybe with children, and doesn’t have much energy to work in the city. She doesn’t find it difficult, and few people bully or harass you. It's different in rural areas.

I still have memories of the movie "Our Cow Is 100 Years Old" that was staged in the 1980s. The heroine Wang Fuli in the play plays a widow who is often harassed by a bachelor, a lazy man, and a slovenly appearance.

If a kind-hearted man helps her with some hard work, word will soon spread about the tongue-tied woman, and maybe the man's wife will come to her door.

Because they lack men at home, they are in a vulnerable group in society, and it is inevitable that there will be men with ill intentions who want to take advantage of them. Therefore, she is cautious about what she says and does, for fear of causing trouble. On the contrary, others try to avoid suspicion and rarely chat or interact with each other. The phrase "There are many disputes in front of a widow's door" has virtually become a barrier for them to interact with others.

In the rural areas in the past, there was a lack of cultural life and bored people tended to pay attention to the widow, always wanting to find something about her that could be used as a source of conversation.

?There is a lot of trouble at a widow’s door? This sentence has made many widows dare not talk to men casually, and also made many well-meaning men dare not help even though they want to help.

Some scholars believe:

With the development of society and the progress of the times, cooking over fires has gradually been replaced by natural gas and induction cookers, which are convenient, fast, and environmentally friendly. Therefore, No matter whose house it is, the smoke on the roof will gradually disappear.

Today's information is in an era of rapid development. News from all over the world, both international and domestic, is overwhelming. It's hard to see through it. How can you have time to care about other people's gossip? Therefore, the sentence "There is a lot of trouble at the widow's door" will gradually disappear.

Widow refers to a woman whose husband has died. The words come from "Shi? Xiaoya? Datian": He has a legacy, this has a stagnant ear, which is the benefit of the widow.

Later, women who stayed alone in an empty house after divorce were also called widows.

There are many disputes at the widow’s door? The whole sentence, without detailed source, is a folk saying. The previous sentence means there is little smoke in front of the widower's house, which means that since there is no hostess in the widower's house, cooking is rarely done.

The question is, why is there so much trouble in front of the widow’s door? Why do people say this? Because there are many men in front of widows

In ancient China, it was a patriarchal society. Men, because of their height and strength, were mainly responsible for making money to support the family; while women were weak and were mainly responsible for taking care of children and housework. .

When a woman's husband dies or is divorced, it is like the pillar of the house has fallen. It will be extremely difficult for the woman to take care of the family.

But life must go on, and many things require men to help, so widows can only beg other men. Of course, there are also men who feel sorry for the widow and will take the initiative to help. This will make people see that there are other men in front of the widow's door, and there is more than one man.

In addition to needing help from men in life, widows also need comfort from men because they are in an emotional window. As a result, some men began to try to get close to the widows. Some of these men were single, and the purpose of getting closer was to get closer to see if they could get married; some were married, and they just came to harass them, to see if they could. Is there any chance to take advantage of it?

As a result, there were more men in front of the widow’s door and it became lively.

When there are more men, there will be more stories

When there are more men in front of a widow’s door, someone will inevitably make the widow really fall in love with her, because the widow needs emotions and a strong man. The key to arms is that the widow is single and does not need to bear more responsibility. If you like it, choose it, and if you don't like it, give up.

Many widows, especially the pretty widows, mostly have some stories about a certain man or several men, which attract the attention of the neighbors and gradually become a topic of conversation after dinner. .

With the development of society for thousands of years and the accumulation of various cases, in the public consciousness, it is believed that when a man appears in front of a widow, there must be some circumstances, and the entire group of widows is defined in their consciousness. sex.

At this time, even if the widow lives a clean life and has normal interactions with individual men, the gossiping women will still reason and imagine some vivid stories.

Therefore, most serious men will be careful to stay away from the widow's door, mainly because they are afraid of causing trouble.

Things are different now. In the past, the social status of widows was indeed low and they were easily criticized.

However, divorced or widowed widows no longer have the treatment of being looked down upon or constantly being gossiped about in the past. Except for remote rural areas, there may be some discussion about widowed women in cities, but There is too much missing. Everyone is so busy. How can we have so much time to discuss it?

Respect everyone, respect every woman, do more business and less right and wrong.

This sentence has a long history and is well known to women and children. Its origin cannot be verified.

I think this sentence cannot come from an allusion or legend in history. This is because in both the government and the public, no matter whether they are high-ranking officials or ordinary people, all those who are widowed will have some romantic affairs and cause trouble. Because this is the inherent instinct of human beings and is irresistible. Just imagine, a young woman who has lost her husband is in her youth and is in the stage of being like a mother and a tiger. Can you do it if you let her sleep alone and face the wall? At this time, her heart must be like a mosquito bite and her body like an insect scratching her. Etiquette cannot restrain that innate desire. I would like to ask, how many people have been investigated for having a chastity arch in history?

As for the last sentence of this ancient saying, there is little smoke on the widower's roof. This is true. A widowed person is a widower. Generally, a widower is alone. Since childhood, he has seldom been engaged in the job of serving the stove. He can only live with simple meals, so there is less smoke on the roof.

The question asked by the questioner is very simple. I tried to answer it in two sentences, but I didn’t expect that I could draw so many lines with my fingers. My friends have forgiven me and stopped.