A. Comfort

B. wordless

C.it's a bit funny

D. how astringent! I want to fuck him now!

Uh huh? What's with option d?

I'm not kidding. Someone's XP really grew up in tears. When they see each other crying, they can't help but get excited and feel that each other is extremely sexy and charming at that moment.

This is the addiction to tears-X pleasure is awakened by seeing tears or hearing crying.

Some people are very emotional when watching others cry; And some people cry by themselves.

The film "A Little Sex in Love" records a couple who have been doing routine work to get pregnant, but their wife has never really enjoyed it.

When her husband's father died, he cried bitterly. Ben is in this sad moment, but his wife is at the wrong time ... supporting the edge? Haw's crying husband is so miserable and sexy!

Since then, the wife found the traffic password, either deliberately throwing the dog or lying that she might have cancer, so that her husband who was in the dark suffered a "critical attack" every day and cried sadly.

Oh, but a wife won't let go of a particularly energetic husband because of tears.

As a result, the husband suffered the grief of inexplicably falling from the sky, and his family was ruined, and at the same time he was madly used by his wife.

Husband: Why are you fat?

Tears fetishism, the best XP that conflicts between sadness and excitement, is destined to produce a very dramatic life adventure.

02

As more and more people disclose their experiences, researchers slowly begin to better understand this preference.

Speaking of tear fetishism, many people's DNA can't help but move! (Most girls)

Tear fetishism and the letter Smoot circle are highly bound.

Some tearful people are very emotional when they dominate or control other people's emotions or bodies. For example, many DOM/S like to watch their partners cry. (But the person who is bullied and crying is voluntary. )

I have seen a girl's contribution to me more than once saying, "I saw the dog being played with by my palm until it cried helplessly and hung with humiliating tears." This is as refreshing and satisfying as the entrance of prey.

And I also like to cry, but I was bullied and wronged to cry. My tearful eyes will have a sense of accomplishment, and it will also prove my weakness and helplessness, and my sense of substitution will be strong.

Another addiction with a stronger "audience" attribute can indulge in emotional stories as long as you watch literary films or others cry, even if the reasons and emotions of crying have nothing to do with the "audience".

For players in the letter Smoot circle, the premise of "being played and crying during the game" is very important, and the sense of role and the interaction between two people are very important, otherwise there is no sense of accomplishment; For spectators, it doesn't matter what the reason is, but the tears themselves are priceless in their hearts.

03

Why is crying exciting?

There is even scientific research on the mysterious problem of this minority.

The Key Case Study of Tears Fear: Expression, Psychology and Pathology of Sexual Interest is a case study of Angela's 25-year-old girl.

Angela said that she likes fictional characters who shed tears in the atmosphere of stories and fantasies. I especially like to watch elegant and fashionable "charming" male characters who have been raised by men since childhood and do not cry. At some point, the character needs to get in touch with his feminine side through loss or embarrassment. By crying, he got there and felt more complete and free.

"He endured the moment when he didn't cry and poked me the deepest. He struggled, suppressed and denied his feelings at that time. This is a kind of detail catharsis when his eyes are red and full of tears. For example, Heathcliff in Wuthering Heights, when his sweetheart died, and Mr. Rochester in Jane Eyre. "

According to the author's analysis, Angela can cite so many examples of literary figures, which shows that her emotions are more about "performers" and she is the audience of this plot and story.

For people in the real world, Angela will repeatedly recall that as a bystander, she saw the boy crying alone, or crying while talking to others. She is like a shadow, silently listening and observing, but not participating in each other's emotions.

The author regards Angela as an "observer" and thinks that her rich and delicate inner reaction is actually based on her intellectual experience of elegant intellectual culture. Angela enjoys a cultural exchange and carefully analyzes the dark side of other people's feelings.

Angela's strong sense of story and role reminds the author of Butler's performance view related to gender identity in 1999. For Angela, tear fetishism seems to be an identity, which allows her to interpret herself in a series of repeated fantasies.

In fact, the tragic beauty of Crying itself is also beautiful and sexy to watch.

For the "tearful lover", tears roll down the face to the neck, a deep pool accumulates in the eyes, and tears pour down from the eyelashes, all of which are gorgeous scenes like cherry blossoms falling petals. The subtle changes of the pursed lips when sobbing also look appetizing.

Psychologically, "tears lover" may have strong sympathy and empathy. Tears awaken their inner softness and feel the "fragility" of emotions is very sexy.

Sometimes, vigorous love itself will make people cry inexplicably, and then make one party suddenly want it more.

04

Although there are more and more related studies, the underlying causes of tears phobia are still unclear.

But don't worry, as long as it doesn't hurt others, tear fetishism is not a disease that needs treatment (for example, the heroine of the movie makes bad news every day, making the man repeatedly collapse and cry).

Even for LSP, there is an inexplicable reason for people to stand up, which sounds like a very happy pleasure.

However, if you have this hobby and want to try to make the other person cry, you must ask the other person's permission in advance.

For example, "Can I make you cry? Because I like watching you cry very much. "

"If you want to cry, just cry. I will have a sense of accomplishment and I will like it very much. If you don't want to cry and feel uncomfortable, just shout a safe word. "

In order to satisfy their hobbies, it is not advisable for a "tearful lover" to deliberately add more weight, so that the other person can't bear to cry, or to make the other person feel unbearable and unwilling to understand by emotional abuse.

For example, the M hit by SP50 reached the limit, but the "tearful lover" insisted on watching the other person cry, and even coaxed it to 100 until the other person was satisfied. This is abuse! Definitely not desirable!

Tears love is actually a romantic and fragile, warm and a little touching (? ) hobbies.

Imagine a soft-hearted host holding the face of a small bag of tears with developed lacrimal glands, gently wiping away tears, suppressing inappropriate ecstasy, and holding it to the crib alone to "take good care of it."

Ow! Who can refuse this kind of play! Even if there is no pear flower to bring rain, we can still hold up the mirror and enjoy the tears of being single ~

References:

Greenhill, R. _ nd _ RIFFITHS, MD, 20 16. _ Sexual interest, intelligence and pathology: critical disease research. _ sychologySexuality, 7(4), pp. 265-278. _SSN 194 1-9899

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