Accept your imperfect self.
Just like there is no perfect thing and no perfect person in the world. However, many people are still used to pursuing perfection, demanding perfection and blaming others, demanding themselves in everything and often measuring others comprehensively.
People can know themselves and manipulate themselves. People's self-confidence is not only to believe that they are capable and valuable, but also to believe that they have shortcomings. When we give up perfection, we will understand that the duality of each of us cannot be changed. Therefore, we should keep such a mentality and feeling: I know my strengths and weaknesses, my potential and aspirations, my difficulties and limitations. I will always have the duality of spirit and flesh, good and bad, truth and falsehood, friendship and loneliness, firmness and flexibility.
Everyone has shortcomings and weaknesses, and everyone is ignorant and incompetent, just in different things. Therefore, everyone is all thumbs when communicating. Because some people can't look at their shortcomings realistically, and dare not take the courage to innovate and break through themselves. So they would rather do nothing, not talk, not socialize, and not expose their weaknesses in front of others. For example, in the banquet hall with gorgeous lights and melodious music, they really want to stand up and dance, but they are afraid of being laughed at for being clumsy, and would rather be an audience all night. The better the dancer, the less courageous she is.
Clear-headed people never pretend to be perfect. He knows that there are many shortcomings that need to be improved, and criticism from others can expose these shortcomings that he doesn't know. We shouldn't be too thin-skinned. We get nervous when we are criticized for your shortcomings. This is a disadvantage. But if you are too thick-skinned, indifferent, do not accept criticism from others, and do not improve your own shortcomings, it is also wrong.
Most people always think that those who criticize themselves are enemies and those who flatter themselves are friends. Cowardly people will be bent by the power of ridicule. People with strong personality will regard others' ridicule as a force to promote self-improvement.
Whenever, we should fully understand ourselves and tell ourselves: "I am the best!" " "Because everyone is unique. Only by encouraging and accepting ourselves in this way can we have the courage and strength to face all kinds of things in life, and we will respond modestly and calmly.
Let's not forget a sentence that Mr. Lu Xun warned: "Don't treat yourself as someone else's sinus, and don't treat others as your sinus!" Fully confident, treat people equally.
Believe in yourself and like yourself.
Learn to love yourself, make your body stronger and your soul nobler, so that you can better care for others and accept their care.
You are your own god, and your destiny is in your own hands. Many times it is not others who hit you, but you who hit yourself first.
A person's success does not depend on God's face and God's grace, it is displayed at a wonderful moment. Before that, we have to create a path for ourselves by our own hands, and then we will see the invisible power flow.
When you abandon your weaknesses and face yourself with a correct vision and mentality, then I believe you will be able to put yourself in a correct position in the workplace, even in society, and be confident in all aspects of life. Then you will start to like yourself and really know how to create your own world with your own hands. Don't be surprised at this time, because you are trying to do your own trilogy, and then your life will be more brilliant.
Leave the light of hope in life.
Some people say that if you look for hope from despair, life will eventually be brilliant. In a person's life, a positive attitude is an effective psychological tool and an essential quality to master one's own destiny. If you think you can develop your potential, then a positive attitude will give you strength and courage to get what you want.
Don't imagine things so bad, maybe there will be a turn for the better tomorrow morning. This is the advice left by all successful people. Great people must be able to stimulate their positive attitude when they are depressed, so as to achieve happiness. Therefore, happiness needs a correct attitude to achieve.
One should never give up faith and hope. Faith and hope are the sustenance of life. As long as there is breath, we must pursue and struggle. In fact, nature has always inspired people-in the dancing and elegant falling of spring flowers and autumn leaves, there is faith and hope; The grass drilled in the crack of the huge rock shows faith and hope; The pine trees on the edge of the cliff, whose images are constantly decorated by the mountain wind, show us faith and hope. My friend, at any time, no matter what situation you are in, please don't give up hope and faith. If your heart hasn't been surging for a long time, please gently activate it and make it glow with healthy and bright colors.
What exactly is hope? It is the fuse to detonate the potential of life and the catalyst to stimulate the passion of life. As long as there is faith, there will always be miracles. Although the hope is slim, it will last forever.
American writer O Henry told a story in his novel The Last Leaf: In the ward, a dying patient saw a tree outside the window from his room, and the leaves fell one by one in the autumn wind. The patient looked at the rustling leaves in front of him and his health went from bad to worse. She said, "When all the leaves are gone, I will die." When an old painter learned about it, he drew a leaf with green veins with a colored pen and hung it on a branch.
The last leaf never fell. Because of the green color in life, the patient miraculously survived.
Therefore, life can be without many things, but only without hope. Hope has great value in human life. Where there is hope, life is full of encouragement and endless!
Give yourself an incentive every day, that is, give yourself a goal and a little confidence. Give yourself a hope every day, and we will live a vibrant and passionate life. There is no time to sigh and grieve and waste our lives on some boring little things.
Life is limited, but hope is infinite. As long as we don't forget to give ourselves a hope every day, we can have a colorful life.