When we lose our way, do we feel helpless and confused, not knowing what our goals are? We can refer to other people’s opinions. The following is a letter to a lost child that I shared with you. You are welcome to read and learn~

Chapter 1

Lovely child:

Are you okay? ?

In this complicated society, you have shouldered the burden of the future too early. You, who should have been innocent and lively, have suffered from the pain of losing the direction of your soul for a long time. The broad road ahead is full of dangers, the sun cannot be seen, the ferocious appearance of the salute wrapped in thick sugar coating cannot be distinguished, and I don’t know where to go with my raised feet... My increasingly dry soul is lost.

You are not far behind when you are lost. It is time for you to go back. Do not let yourself continue to wander on the lost road. It is human nature to forget to be grateful, but at this time, you should know how to have a grateful heart. With it, you can find the direction of exit.

I remember there is a song "Thank You", I wonder if you have heard it before. "Thank you to the bright moon for illuminating the night sky, thank you to the morning glow for holding out the dawn, thank you to the spring light for melting the ice and snow, thank you to the earth for nurturing all living beings, thank you to my mother for giving me life, thank you to life for friendship and love, thank you to the sky for containing ideals and dreams, thank you for the time that stays forever. Justice...Thank you for the harvest, thank you for the peace, thank you for everything."

This song conveys a feeling of gratitude.

When you lost your way and gave up on yourself, did you ever think of your kind mother? It was she who gave you a life of enjoying the sunshine, rain and dew. From the tenth month of pregnancy to the birth, she walked through many days and nights full of excitement, anticipation and anxiety. Silent tears soaked through more than three hundred sleepless days. They were her tears of happiness as a woman, and also the tears of how much bitterness and pain she had endured. As your life grows up day by day under her care, her life will also grow old day by day. Selfless maternal love turns into sweet milk that allows you to grow healthily, but it also deeply carves wrinkles of the years on her forehead. Spring water is the clearest and maternal love is the truest. It is said that maternal love is the greatest love in the world. So, your most kind mother, go and look at her calloused hands. At first glance, you might think they are fallen bark, but the vertical and horizontal cracks tell the story. Marking your growth. Feel the greatest love she has given you again and again in your heart. Then, you can forget all the tears and scars along the way and enjoy the sunshine and rain quietly again.

When your weak legs cross the threshold of success and failure; when your faint footprints pass through the inn that no one cares about; when your efforts are turned into the midnight scenery; when you bleed Your heart is falling into the abyss of confusion... What are your eyes looking forward to? How is your heart surging? How do you search for the magnificent scenery and listen to the footsteps in the wilderness? How you wish someone would help you, Encourage me, at this time, do you still remember your teacher?

When you enter the school, the teacher who "passes on to teach and resolve doubts" works hard to correct the coordinates of your life and provide you with every step of progress. , I am either excited or regretful about your childhood. How many mornings and midnights, how many drops of sweat and tears, how much care and expectation, their lives bloom on that three-foot podium, like burning their own red candles, "weeping for others until dawn", do you care about them? Should we have a grateful heart?

A drop of kindness should be repaid by a spring. When the sun shines on the earth in spring, it repays the small river with warmth, allowing the ice on the small river to disappear, allowing it to flow happily; when the sun is scorching in summer, the dew repays the earth with tears, making the flowers bloom more brightly and allowing the lotus to be watered. Afterwards, the blooming blossoms are scorching and refreshing; "Luohua is not a heartless thing, it turns into spring mud to protect the flowers." After experiencing the spring wind and summer rain, Luohua used his body to repay the mother earth who raised him; in winter, the wind is cold, snowflakes fall, and everything All are hibernating, only the plum blossoms stand proudly in the snow, repaying people with their fragrance...

All nature is like this, how can we be human?

Thanks to the prosperity of our motherland, we are The yellow panel removes the gold-like luster; gratitude to the greatness of the party makes our ideals chase the sun; gratitude to nature brings a slight throbbing to the soul. If you know how to be grateful, you will understand the true taste of life; if you know how to be grateful, your life will become extremely happy.

My lovely child, your caring words, a sweet smile, a caring hug, and a grateful look are all your compass on your lost journey. The feeling of gratitude can rejuvenate the tired body and mind with the confidence and strength to travel, clearing the fog in front of us and heading towards a smooth road to the future.

A bystander

Chapter 2

Hello, kid:

Today, I am not talking to you as a class teacher. I want to talk to you like an uncle. I often tell you that in my eyes, you are just a child, a child who can be forgiven no matter what mistakes you make. I think you must have encountered some difficulties in life, or you have been in love with a favorite thing for a long time. Maybe it's because you feel that your demands are beyond your parents' financial ability, or you feel that your parents are working too hard and you can't bear to ask them for excessive demands.

So, in your nervousness and confusion, you took away a full month's living expenses for a classmate who had been with you day and night, who had always regarded you as a brother and sister, and who was never on guard against you! I can imagine your anxiety, You are so anxious all the time that you don't even dare to look at your classmates with your eyes. You have to know that your classmate’s family is not as wealthy as you think, and every penny she gets is earned by her parents’ sweat. It’s just as difficult for them as your parents, not to mention that she also enjoys poverty relief! < /p>

I really don’t want to believe that this person is you! However, this kind of thing has happened several times, and my classmates have already told me their suspicions. We have also observed and paid attention to you for a long time. I can no longer trick myself into believing this fact, and neither can you.

No matter how much money you have, you will eventually spend it all. But did you know that along with the money, your dignity and personality are also lost? We may not care about the twelve or eight hundred yuan that has been lost, but we cannot bear to watch you slip step by step into the quagmire of shame and disgrace, and then lead to an even more terrifying path of no return. How can we, as old as flowers and colorful, tolerate that charcoal black stain? Do you want to press discordant keys to the melody of your youth?

I know, I want you to stand up and say yes It is difficult for you, but this is the last chance to save you and free you. I can't bear to let you leave this class and this school, and I don't want you to be embarrassed and unable to hold your head up due to this incident. Therefore, as an elder who cares and respects the younger generation, let us keep this secret from each other forever. I'll give you three days for us to sit down and talk. You don’t have to worry about whether you can repay the money you have spent, we can work together to find a way to solve and make up for this shortfall. Don't have any ideological pressure or ambition. In my eyes, you are just a temporarily lost lamb, not a bad boy.

Did you know that when I was working in Baishui, there was also such an excellent class, and there was also a student as outstanding as you. Because of family financial difficulties, he repeatedly took away the living expenses and books of his classmates. Later, he couldn't bear the huge pressure and came to me and told me all this. All his classmates forgave him, and no one asked him to return the money or belongings he had taken. Later, he passed the Sichuan Agricultural University's trump card major - tea science with excellent results. After graduation, he was assigned to a scientific research institution in Guangdong, with generous salary and a successful career.

Child, nothing is more important to you than maintaining a pure heart and a relaxed mood. You tell me your difficulties and I will definitely find a way to help you overcome them. If a person is poor, his ambition is not short, and he must stand upright!

Son, I believe you don’t want to see everyone in your class in danger, full of doubts, and fortified at every turn.

Son, I believe you will make a wise choice.

Children, don’t be afraid or worry.

I'm waiting for you.

Your teacher

2011-12-08

Chapter 3

Kaier:

Mom go It’s been so long, how can I not want to come back? To be honest, I am in Caoying but my heart is in Han! Think about it carefully, in the days since I left you, have I ever cared less about you? If you were A child who is rich in thought and understands the deep love between mother and child should know what kind of actions and results to use to relieve his mother from her worries from her mother's distant instructions and nagging every day. However, not only have you failed to do so, you may not even have thought of it this way.

Compared with those who are mothers in the same world, sometimes I really feel a little sad. I feel so painful and helpless about the education and training of my children! My child, in this aspect of educating and training you On the way, I really worked too hard. I almost exhausted all my enthusiasm and strength, but all my efforts and effort were just like a drop of water shaking a tree. But as a mother, no matter what you do, being a mother I must fulfill this responsibility, but I still can't give up my education, care and hope for you! Because you will always be my child! No matter now or in the future, whether you make me bitter or sweet, I must do it for you. Son, go taste it and accompany you throughout my life!

And in the days to come, I hope you can grow up and live normally and happily, and don’t let yourself suffer in the future because of your abnormal behavior. Living in fear, debt disputes, or other more terrifying situations. Don't think these words are exaggerated. On the road of life, thousands of people are inadvertently tempted step by step towards such a situation every day, and eventually become homeless and homeless. And judging from where you are currently spending your money and how you are interacting, it does not mean that you are avoiding such dangers in the future. I only have a son like this, how can I not worry! At fifteen or sixteen years old like you, you should study hard all day long and work hard for your future life, family, responsibilities, achievements and the realization of personal values. . But now you are pursuing excitement, fashion, vanity and enjoyment. In the eyes of Confucius, this is not a gentleman, but a villain. Besides, you don’t have any capital to pursue such a pursuit at the moment, and it is a kind of personal shame and unfilial piety to use your parents’ hard-earned money to show off such extravagant and wasteful vanity. Son, my mother scolded you a little too much, and I didn’t want to be so mean-spirited.

No matter how well outsiders understand, who can be willing to hit the nail on the head? It’s not that your mother wouldn’t encourage you over the years, how you, as a son, have treated your family and your mother. On this issue, apart from being demanding and selfish deep down in your bones, you have never made me feel your noble pursuit and filial piety.

No matter how serious your own behavioral problems are, I am very indulgent and accommodating to you. As for whether you should have desires or not, the first thing you think of is not to judge whether you should have them, or whether they are suitable for you. Regardless of whether you have the conditions and abilities, let alone your mother's burden and feelings, you cannot choose to defeat yourself rationally. You must find ways to achieve it. Everything is done first and then told. In order to achieve all of your goals, regardless of whether your conscience is acceptable or not, you will borrow money when you need to, and lie when you need to lie! This then forms a habit and mindset. The answer to a question is not to speak with the facts themselves, but to consider what you need to say to achieve your goal and not to be criticized! Boy, a lie can be exposed as soon as it is exposed! So there is no need to lie. Such habits and psychology are really dangerous. If everyone in this society knows that you have the habit of being dishonest and lying, then the wolf is really coming. Who else will help you! So my mother is very worried! Honesty is so important in life! My son, you must Take back as soon as possible the most basic virtue that a person has and must always possess! It would be terrible to lose such a thing as honesty!

Kaier, mom is so sad, you haven’t moved forward yet. When we enter the formal starting point of life, we are contaminated with some bad things. The road of life is still so far and long. It is really not easy to be so peaceful, harmonious and beautiful, and let the society treat you well throughout your life. We need to pursue hard but also have the courage to give up. The so-called gains and losses, success and failure actually lie in the constant choices and sacrifices faced in life. Whether to choose or to give up depends on what you have accumulated deep in your bones to judge. When people live, they are always making judgments and making choices. Struggle requires taking, laziness requires giving up; selfishness is a taking that should not be taken, and dedication is a giving that should be given. There is noble taking and despicable taking, and there is also noble giving and despicable giving. When a person is alive, even if he has no achievements, he must not appear despicable. Even if you don't spread the word, at least you won't be reviled!

Son, you haven't grown up yet, and it's normal for you to lack the ability to judge. Although many things that happened in the past were due to you. Your judgment is unwise and has a significant impact on your study and behavior habits, which makes me very sad. But the past has passed after all. Mom doesn’t have to pursue it, but she must summarize and reflect. The best progress and gains can be achieved by summarizing. In addition to diligence, the biggest difference between every successful person and ordinary people is that they are good at making their own plans and summaries every day. Kai'er, ask yourself: Summarize the reasons for your current situation, write it down carefully, and post it in a room where you often go in and out, and look at it every day. This will be good for you!

< p>Since this semester, you have made great progress in terms of living habits, which shows that you have begun to grow up, which makes me very happy. You already know how to pay attention to your own image, but a person's image is not only in the packaging of living habits and appearance. As a student, the packaging of appearance must not be excessive or artificial. Simple, clean, decent, and natural are the most perfect. A kind of beauty! What is more important is the cultivation of the person himself, the temperament shown by the rich and corresponding personality charm. Human temperament cannot be faked. It is often said that the eyes are the windows to the soul, and a person's integrity and evil can naturally be reflected in your words and deeds.

Son, listen to me! In your eyes, none of your classmates, friends, partners, or netizens have a bad influence on you. You underestimate the power of one person, or you can underestimate the power of one moment or one thing, but you cannot underestimate the impact that all kinds of words, deeds, and ideas have on you, and you cannot underestimate the amount of time and energy they consume in total. Energy and its impact on you, not to mention the bad consumption habits you develop with them and the confusion caused by money itself! Since ancient times, there is a lesson that those who are close to red will be red and those who are close to ink will be black. What kind of people you come into contact with and what kind of things you absorb will infect your soul bit by bit. All these infect your environment and thoughts, which will ultimately affect the kind of person you will be. The most important thing in life is achievement, but what is more important than achievement is character. It’s not about how a certain classmate of yours is, nor is it about not letting you make friends. Now is the time for you to concentrate on studying. Think carefully: How much time do you spend with your classmates to calm down and study? Instead of interacting with each other and causing more and more playfulness? If you have less contact, there will naturally be fewer troubles. A lot less consumption and less wasted good time. You can't support yourself at the moment! When you have a job in the future, you will have the capital to socialize. Your ability will determine how much you consume. Then you will naturally know that you have a certain limit, but now you really can't control it. It's better to overcome yourself! Otherwise you will regret it in the future, and you have delayed others. When they become wiser in the future or after the college entrance examination, they will also complain about you. Son! You must wake up! Don’t waste your youth and future with them! If you lose, you will regret it in the end! It is your mother who is sad!

About learning, its importance is natural It's self-evident.

No matter how impatient I am, it won't work if you don't impatient. What to do about the college entrance examination? What about the future? If you fail to pass the college entrance examination, this is a sign of irresponsibility for your own life and society. In the future, you will have to spend your entire life responsible for your lazy behavior and consequences today. This is how society is. Whatever behavior you choose, you are responsible for the consequences of your behavior. As the saying goes, you will reap melons if you sow beans, and you will reap beans if you sow melons! You are no longer young. In the future, as a man, you will not only be responsible for your own personal survival, but also must bear the major responsibilities of a family and the society. Think and consider carefully. Come on! What capital will you have in the future! What skills will you learn!

Also, there are many people in this world who care about you and have paid for you, including grandma, Teacher Xiong, Teacher Zhang, and Liu Yan. , Teacher Wu, Teacher Li, Teacher Peng, etc. When people live, they must know how to be grateful. A person who does not know how to be grateful is not a healthy person. A person who does not know how to be grateful will not become a successful person in the end. Only by knowing how to be grateful can we turn others' hopes and efforts into results, and can we finally be accepted by society. No matter how poor we are, we can't live without a heart that knows how to be grateful and repay! What the teacher wants in return is grades! What mom and all relatives want in return is to see you exchange your best future for your lifelong happiness! Yes! The reward for the family is to take responsibility, create wealth and give happiness! The reward for the society is to use your abilities and values ??to contribute to the creation of value for the entire society!

Son, it is not easy for mom outside, There are also mistakes in judgment. People often say: Don't be afraid of doing the wrong thing, but be afraid of crossing the wrong person! Once you make the wrong mistake, it can bring you irreparable losses in your life, or even misfortune in your life. Such things appear endlessly in newspapers and other media every day! My mother now has a very profound experience. Children, remember: the most dangerous enemy is the friend around you! Remember this famous saying, it is necessary to learn to take precautions! One day in the future, you will eventually understand that friends only exist when there is no interest involved. There are only eternal interests in the world, and there are no eternal friends! You must not have the intention to harm others, and you must have the intention to guard against others! You must know that behind every tragic accident in the world where people are deceived, it is all because of friends, It is caused by acquaintances taking advantage of emotional trust! Only when you trust can you be fooled! But there are also a few noble friends in the world who are truly worthy of association! This must also be tested in practice! As the saying goes: true love is seen in adversity. You can never make real friends at a table of wine and meat! Many old friends in the world are not made at a table of wine! Now is not the time for you to make friends. Real friends can only be met but not sought. There is no need to take it so seriously! According to the way of life management: you can only make friends with the friends you should make, not the friends you want to make! At your age, you have made the right friends. Now it will also affect you in terms of time and energy! Really good people will not focus on dating now. I would like to emphasize to you: You cannot leave anyone at my house overnight. This is discipline! Good children will not agree to stay at other people's houses overnight. You should help guide them home to prevent their parents from worrying. This is responsible for your friends!

Having said so much, my mother is already very tired! Think about what you would do without your mother by your side. Study and live.

In a few years, what kind of study and life will I have when I am independent!

Don’t go and have fun on weekends! It’s almost the final exam, and the stars are on your back, why don’t you jump twice? You should be sensible. You will never be satisfied when you play!

Take good care of yourself!

Sincerely!

I wish you are sensible

Mom Yu Beijing

December 27, 2006