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In many families, parents are sincere.

My father is a farmer. He studied in a private school for several years, so he is knowledgeable. He worked as a teacher in my hometown for several years. Every new year, in the village

The villagers in the village asked my father to write Spring Festival couplets for them.

Whose child in the village is married,

Ask my father to write happy words for them,

Invitation letter,

Happy list, dad is also willing and responsive. My father taught me: honesty, integrity, self-reliance, pragmatism and helpfulness, and so did my mother.

I have studied for several years, even if I have a junior high school education at most, my mother with a low education,

What impressed me most about my education was doing.

People should be honest and thrifty. For decades, my father used to say:

"Home and everything, affection, friendship, love.

Both are indispensable. "

Every family has a simple family style, and every parent will educate their children in their own way of life.

Son. Home is the first space for children to grow up.

Children will be branded with family style everywhere. It can be said that family style is culture.

And moral words and deeds are the subtle influence of wisdom and strategy.

I remember when I was a child, I missed my family more often during festivals, especially the Spring Festival and New Year's Eve. The whole family watched the Spring Festival party and had dinner together.

Father began to tell us about his childhood: his father (my grandfather) is a big family.

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Many people are eating.

Sometimes,

My grandfather served my grandfather a meal first.

Grandpa moved chopsticks,

They dare to eat,

My great-grandfather gave my father delicious food.

Mouth, this reflects our family style of "respecting the old and loving the young, respecting the old and loving the young". Every holiday and slack season, some people in the village

Just get together and gamble,

My father warned me not to gamble,

Gambling will lead to the separation of wife and children,

Family destruction,

No smoking:

Smoking is harmful, but useless. Drinking less wine will make you happy, and drinking too much will hurt your health. So I got into the habit of not smoking, gambling and drinking less. mother

Parents say every day: form a good habit of paying attention to hygiene; When eating, you can't say that you don't eat anything or don't want to eat anything, no leftovers, no waste; Respect the old and love the young, don't contradict your parents, and cultivate polite children from an early age; Don't tell lies, don't like to take advantage of petty advantages, be an honest child ... When I was a child, I always told me a few words before going to school: "Son, don't fight with my classmates at school." I'm afraid of conflicts with my classmates at school. Nothing will always give me a "political lesson", tell some classic stories, educate me to be frank when things go wrong, get along with teachers and classmates at school, and don't always have conflicts with others. Under her inculcation, I basically have no contradiction with my teachers and classmates. Parents' inculcation teaches us that "harmony is the most important thing, filial piety is the first thing, diligence is the treasure, and frugality is the virtue", and that "the contented are always happy and people are kind" ... These wise sayings are appearing in our lives in the form of "family training" today.

Family style is made, not spoken. A good family style comes from words and deeds. You are filial to your parents, and your children will be filial to you in the future. We often say that the environment educates people, and all the people near Zhu Zhechi are black. What kind of environment makes what kind of people, and children grow up in a good family environment, then children will inevitably achieve something in the future. Zhou Enlai's niece, Ms. Zhou Bingde, said, "My uncle asked us to live a simple life like the whole country." The family styles of these great men all have a common feature, that is, they should be low-key, clean, ordinary, law-abiding, self-reliant, honest and upright ... Reading the family styles of ancient celebrities makes people feel deeply. Perhaps we can get a revelation from these different and immortal celebrity "family styles"-the characteristics of "family styles" can be found completely, that is, the essence of "family styles" must be "healthy and positive"

The Chinese nation is known as the "state of etiquette" and has always attached importance to family education. It is not uncommon to see family instructions in ancient books in history, and there are many praises for future generations. Family style is the sum of a family's stable moral norms, traditional habits, life style, lifestyle and lifestyle, which first embodies the power of morality. Attaching importance to the construction of family style is the foundation of many people with lofty ideals in the history of China. From ancient times to the present, Yan Zhitui's Family Instructions of Yan Family, Zhuge Liang's Commandments, Zhouyi's Mianyu Descendants, Zhu's Family Instructions and Fu Lei's Family Letters have been widely circulated among the people, flashing the ideological light of good family style. In history, "Meng Mu's Three Movements" and "Mother-in-law's Tattoo" also showed a good family style. "No.

Indifferent is unclear, and not quiet is not far away. You often think about it every day, and you will always think about it. Don't covet unexpected wealth.

Don't drink too much wine. "

Long Zi's ancient teachings have been respected by the world so far.

A good family style is not only beneficial to oneself,

For children and families.

It is beneficial, but it also gradually affects the public's moral level and social atmosphere.

The second article

The family is the nursery and the children are the seedlings. The family wind is like raindrops, which sneak into the night with the wind and moisten things silently. Only under the moisture of rain and dew can the seedlings grow healthily. Only under the influence of good family style can children stand out. Recently, with the popularity of the word "family style", I can't help seeing photos of my grandparents educating me. When I was a child, my grandmother always told me a few words before going to school: "Son, don't grind your teeth with your classmates at school (Bozhou proverb means quarreling or fighting). If someone bullies you, come back and tell me, and I will go to your teacher. " ! Grandma is afraid that I will have conflicts with my classmates at school. She always gives me a "political lesson" when I'm free, tells some classic stories, and teaches me to be frank when things go wrong, to get along well with teachers and classmates at school, and not to always have conflicts with others. Under grandma's inculcation, I basically have no contradiction with my teachers and classmates. Grandpa loves to tell me a lot about his experiences in military service, and warns me: "Few young people nowadays can bear hardships and stand hard work. You must learn to bear hardships from an early age, otherwise you can't do great things! " Grandpa also taught me: "Only by suffering can you become a master." Only after experiencing an unbearable environment can we cultivate real talents and excel in our future work and life. Perhaps this is the "heaven's great responsibility, people must first suffer their minds, work their bones and muscles, and starve their bodies and skins ...". Now, I have entered junior high school and become a junior high school student. I have developed a good habit of being helpful, hard-working and simple. Come to think of it carefully, these are closely related to our family style. Grandma still gives me a "political lesson" before going to school every time, and grandpa still tells me the traditional virtues of the Chinese nation from time to time before and after meals, such as thrift and hard work. I'm happy to listen to them, because that's a good family style in our family. I have been thinking that it is a national culture worth promoting to establish a correct family style and inherit excellent family rules and family instructions. Nowadays, some bad habits in society have gradually withdrawn from people's sight, and "positive energy" has been passed down. If we add a good family style to the construction, the atmosphere of our society will be purer, the people's life will be better and the country's future will be more prosperous!