Backtalking with parents is not something that happens overnight, it is a habit that has been developed since childhood. If your mother has been telling you the same thing since you were a child, and talking to you is like giving orders, and you will obey her words, you will not dare to talk back when you grow up. Now that I have grown up and have my own ideas, it is reasonable to express my own opinions. Parents should also respect their children's self-esteem and no longer act like they are in charge of children. They have to listen to them on everything, no matter whether it is right or wrong. Therefore, it is understandable to suggest that you express your thoughts appropriately. Maybe your mother is very strong and cannot accept your refutation. You can exchange opinions with her tactfully.