Life is like playing cards. No matter what kind of cards are dealt to you, you can play them well. That's ability!

A writer summed up that there are three things you can't choose in life. First, you can't choose what kind of parents you have.

Second, you can't choose your own gender and appearance.

Third, you can't choose your own background.

A good birth can make people struggle less for ten years. Some people stand at the top of the pyramid as soon as they are born.

Some people struggle all their lives at the bottom of society; Some people struggle to move forward in the middle of society; Some people in the upper class of society can sit back and enjoy the success.

It's all because of different origins. We can't choose our origins, but we can choose different lives!

1 poor life

children from poor families can live a wonderful life through hard work. Although the prince and princess were born with a golden spoon, they may not be able to create a shining life like gold!

getting a good card and playing better is a wonderful life!

Zhao Liying was born in the countryside of Langfang, and had a dream of being an actress, but the ordinary family had no background, just a girl's dream. I became an ordinary salesman as an adult.

By chance, I participated in Yahoo Search for Stars and won the championship. With pure and beautiful appearance, good figure and simple and down-to-earth temperament, I was favored by directors. Since then, she has played all the leading roles in the supporting role. No matter how hard and tired she is, she gritted her teeth and persisted. After 1 years of tempering, she finally got the audience's love and recognition.

Many TV series starring her, such as Hua Qiangu, Do you know if it should be green, fat, red and thin, won the top three ratings, were nominated by the Magnolia Award, and ranked 49th in Forbes. Honors poured in one after another, and that Cinderella finally carved herself into a princess.

Children born in poverty have no money, no resources and no background. As long as they seize the opportunity and make as much effort as ordinary people, they can succeed in counterattack! As long as you persist in studying hard and practicing hard, you can make the bad cards assigned by fate into a gold medal life!

Liu Yuanyuan, the founder of Yuanchuang Reading Club, is a rural girl in Handan. She can be admitted to Peking University as a graduate student in law, and has already set a record of being born in a poor family.

She went on and participated in Super Speaker. At first, when she was not favored by the judges, she didn't give up easily. With an indomitable spirit, she resolutely persisted until she became the national champion.

However, her struggle didn't stop there. After graduating from Peking University, she chose to start a business and became an elite figure of Forbes U3 in just three years.

Liu Yuanyuan's three life counterattacks have injected confidence into many poor students and provided a successful model! A son born in poverty can succeed by trying to change his destiny!

2 disordered life

There are many cases in which children from well-to-do families personally ruin their future.

Li Shuangjiang, a famous singer, and Li Tianyi, the son of Dream Pigeon, whose parents are celebrities in the art world, are tall, good-looking, good at guitar playing and singing, and could have made a difference in the art world. However, the first "fame" was because the other party didn't drive away in time when parking in the community, which blocked his way. He beat the driver and his wife so that the other party was injured and hospitalized. It was only after Li Shuangjiang and his wife visited the hospital in person that the incident was resolved. The second time it became the focus of the media, it was revealed that the girl was drunk with her classmates and brought to the hotel for gang rape, and she was finally sentenced to 1 years in prison for rape.

Parents are well-known artists, with sufficient background resources, appearance conditions and voice conditions, which should be the dream of many ordinary children! And he turned himself into a prisoner himself! Beat a good hand to pieces!

In this way, it is not uncommon to get good cards but break them. Jackie Chan's son Fang Zuming and Zhang Guoli's son Zhang Mo were all famous for some negative news in the early years.

? 3? Diamond life

can certainly get good cards, and there are many people who play better.

Li Zekai, the youngest son of Li Ka-shing, the richest man in Hong Kong, decided to start his own business because of his limited work in the family business. He "borrowed" 4 million dollars from Li Ka-shing to establish Start V. In just a few years, Li Zekai developed the company and earned HK$ 5 billion for the company.

in p>1993, he sold StarTV to media mogul Murdoch, earning $1 billion (then equivalent to more than 7 billion yuan) and accumulating the first bucket of gold in his life.

With this money, Li Zekai left the family business and set up his own company "Pacific Century Digital". After years of development, PCG has grown bigger and bigger.

Li Zekai used Li Ka-shing's capital and background resources, but his profits increased exponentially, and he was known as the Hongkong business superman. Although his private life was continuously exposed, as a son of a rich family, he did not enjoy the success, but made use of his parents' resources and worked hard by himself to be better than his parents in his career.

There is also Gu Ailing, who has been hotly discussed and concerned in the Winter Olympics recently. Gu Ma graduated from Peking University and then went to Stanford University for further study. She worked on Wall Street and was a ski instructor.

Dad Gu graduated from Harvard University, received his Ph.D. in Mathematics and Computer Science from Massachusetts Institute of Technology, worked as a Google programmer, and owned his own real estate company.

Grandpa Gu is high flyers of Stanford University, Grandma Gu is a famous women's basketball player of Shanghai Jiaotong University, and Grandpa Gu Zhenguang is the main football player of famous schools in China.

The high starting point and high IQ of Xueba family and sports family have taken a big step. She was enlightened by skiing since childhood, fell in love with skiing, and became an excellent athlete after professional training. She got into Stanford University with a score of 158, close to 16. Won 2 gold and 1 silver in Beijing Winter Olympics.

Gu Ailing's success can't be copied by ordinary people. She was born with a golden key and finally made herself a dazzling diamond life.

Life is only a few decades. In this fleeting time, is it to forge ahead and write a beautiful chapter? It's still a mediocre interpretation, or it's obvious that you can choose the smooth road of life to shine, but you turn to a narrow path and get stuck. Whether you are an angel or a devil depends on your choice.

As a young man, we should know more about the successful footprints of our fathers and learn their spiritual character of being down-to-earth and carrying forward with heavy burdens. Learn from the high-spirited fighting spirit of peers and bravely climb the peak on the road of life.

As parents, we should teach our children by example, and tell them by our own actions that we should always stick to our duties as human beings, whether we are in an ordinary post or moving towards a well-informed life.