This sentence makes sense and I agree with it. Children are the shadow of their parents, and their parents’ words and deeds affect their children all the time, especially when they are young. Those who are close to vermilion are red, and those who are close to ink are black. This is the truth.

In the beginning, human beings are inherently good. Their natures are similar, but their habits are far apart. Before a child comes into contact with society, his mind is like a blank piece of paper. How to draw beautiful pictures on it depends entirely on the ability and level of the parents. As the saying goes, dragons and phoenixes are born, and mice are born to burrow. Heredity is one aspect, it is mainly a matter of hearing, seeing, and getting used to it. Parents are their children's first teachers. Therefore, if you want to educate your children well, you must educate yourself well. Both in thought and action, we must lead and set an example.

"If I want to educate my children well, I must first educate myself well." This is a wise saying summed up by many people who understand family education.

Parents are their children's first teachers. Your words and deeds, behavioral habits, and even the way you talk and walk are all imitated by your children. Your attitude towards life and your views on the world play a subtle role in your children. Teaching by example is more important than teaching by words. If you want your children to develop good habits from an early age, you must first take care of yourself in terms of behavior, because the power of example is infinite.

Family education is the foundation of school education and social education. "Can't lose at the starting line", many people one-sidedly understand it as preschool investment, but it is actually the cultivation of various good habits in preschool. The cultivation of good habits depends on parents. What kind of parents will have what kind of children? If education is about parents, then it is about the quality of parents.

If you want your children to love learning, then you must read often; if you want your children to be diligent, then you must not be lazy; if you want your children to learn to be serious, then you must not be careless; if you want your children to learn to be serious, you must not be careless; If you want your children to be positive and optimistic, then you cannot be negative and contented; if you want your children to be happy in the group, then you must maintain family harmony; if you want your children to be generous to others, then you must be tolerant and understanding...

< p> Parents are their children's first teachers, and their quality and role models will have an important impact on their children's education. The influence of the family environment

Every child hopes that his family will be harmonious and warm. It is like the warm sunshine of spring, making people full of vitality. However, many parents are not strict with themselves when their children are growing up and do not shoulder the important task of educating their children. Serving as a "bad example" mainly manifests itself in several aspects: Be a good example for children

The power of role models is infinite. If you want to educate your children well, parents must practice it. Educate your children carefully. The education and upbringing of your parents determines the level of education and teaching for your children. If you want to educate your children well and be a parent, you must improve your own quality, be your children's friends, and give your children enough respect.

Liuzhou Lao Yang replied: I agree very much, correct others first, correct yourself first, and follow the example. Parents are their children's first teachers. To educate their children well, parents must first learn and continuously improve themselves. If you ask your children to do something, you should first do it yourself; if you ask your children not to do something, you should first not do it yourself. More than 30 years ago, when I first discovered that my son smoked, I resolutely quit smoking. Until now, I have never touched cigarettes again. Although my son has tried many times, he saw that I never touched cigarettes, so he never smokes again. Smoking.

Hello, I am a college teacher and I am happy to answer your questions. "If I want to educate my children well, I must first educate myself well." I think this sentence is very reasonable. I understand that this sentence should be interpreted from at least the following aspects. 01. Parents are their children’s first teachers, and family education is very important

Some parents are busy at work and have no time to take care of their children; some parents think that they do not understand education and cannot take care of their children; and some parents think that education Children are mainly the business of schools and teachers. These ideas are absolutely unacceptable. Children's education is not only a matter of schools and teachers, but also a matter of parents, and parents should pay attention to it. Parents are their children's first teachers, and family education is very important. For many children who do not develop well later, their parents may have neglected their education and the development of good habits from the beginning. 02. Actions speak louder than words, and the power of example is infinite

If parents want their children to develop the habit of reading, they can’t just watch TV or play on their mobile phones as soon as they get home from work. They must also develop reading themselves. If parents want their children to get up early, they can't sleep at home until midnight on their own during the holidays. In short, if parents ask their children to do something, they must first do it themselves, so that they have the qualifications and confidence to ask their children. Actions speak louder than words. The power of words is pale compared to actual actions. You must practice it yourself. The power of examples is infinite. 03. The process of parents accompanying and educating their children also keeps them growing.

No one will be a parent when they are born. The process of parents accompanying and educating their children is also a process of their own continuous growth. Accompany your children and grow up with them.

Conclusion

"If I want to educate my children well, I must first educate myself well." This sentence is very philosophical and it has also brought us a lot of inspiration, including: Parents are the first priority for their children As a teacher, family education is very important; actions speak louder than words, and the power of role models is infinite; parents themselves continue to grow in the process of accompanying and educating their children. Educating children well will be the greatest achievement in a parent's life.

I very much agree with this statement. Teaching by example is better than teaching by words

Parents are adults and elders to their children. Most of the words or experiences you tell them will be verified to be correct. Therefore, when you were young, your children believed your words and were very obedient. Later, why do some parents always feel that as their children get older, they no longer listen to what you say? Because, as she grows older, she comes into contact with more people and things. She has ideas, knowledge, the influence of the external environment, and her own judgments and ideas. She can tell whether you do what you say, or whether you only say what you say and ask others to do things you can't do yourself. The dwarf of action, the giant of mouth. Then the weight of your words will be greatly reduced.

Therefore, it is better to be down-to-earth than to talk too much.

“It’s up to people to plan things, and it’s up to Heaven to make things happen.” Parents who adhere to this view educate their children. Although it is not a "panacea" that can guarantee the success of their children, to a large extent it can be regarded as "good advice" in family education.

"If you are surrounded by hemp, you will not be able to straighten yourself." As a parent, you must be aware of the significant impact that the family education environment has on children.

As the most core factor in the family education environment, it is not difficult for us to imagine how important parents are to their children.

When babies are born, they are completely dependent on their parents, otherwise they will not be able to continue to grow. This high degree of dependence will last at least several years until the end of early childhood. This is still the most conservative statement. Otherwise, there would be no word "minor" in the world.

Of course, as the children's age increases, the degree of dependence on their parents will also show a decreasing trend, but from another aspect it also shows that the earlier the children's growth period, the more dependent they are on their parents. The higher the degree of dependence.

Early children are not only highly dependent on their parents, but also accompanied by a high degree of learning and imitation. This learning and imitation is even subtle, and the process is scientifically extremely complex. , you can hardly notice it.

As long as you understand this, parents will feel "a lot of pressure" on their responsibilities and missions, because the inner reactions of their children are a mirror of their parents' words and deeds.

Therefore, to educate your children well, you must first "be a good yourself."

(1) Pay attention to it ideologically. Don’t simply think that learning is your children’s own business. After providing textbooks, tuition fees, training courses and other hardware resources, you will be a hands-off parent.

(2) Set an example in action. Actions speak louder than words. In front of your children, you can demand and regulate yourself according to the standard of "virtue and excellence". Only how excellent you are will your children be able to follow your lead. It is best not to be very strict with your children all day long and set loose standards for yourself.

(3) Have heart-to-heart conversations with your children and have positive interactions. Although it is said that teaching by example is better than words, children's emotions and psychology also need the care and guidance of their parents. In this process, verbal and non-verbal interaction is indispensable, and this requires parents to "painstakingly" master the skills.

Of course, "a young man is better than a blue man" and "the waves behind the Yangtze River push the waves ahead." You must have your own excellent ambitions, but you do not necessarily have to be better than your children. Being surpassed by your children is a sign of success. Parents are more gratified.

Finally, it needs to be emphasized that the education of children is not limited to book knowledge, nor can it be limited to book knowledge. If individuals have different talents, they must be taught in accordance with their aptitude. Three hundred and sixty lines, the best in every line, as long as parents are willing, their children can become talented!

Parents are their children’s first teachers and the teachers who have the greatest influence on their children. Children are the best and easiest to imitate their parents. Therefore, parents must educate themselves well. For example, if you don’t let your children play with mobile phones and you keep your mobile phones in your hands all day long, how can your children accept it?

I'm happy to answer your questions. "If you want to educate your children well, you must first educate yourself well." I think this sentence is correct. When it comes to educating children, the power of role models is infinite. Children don’t look at what you say, but what you do.

When it comes to educating children, "doing" is always more important than "saying". The relationship between parents and children is the closest, most familiar, and longest-lasting relationship. The reason why some parents are not convincing in educating their children is because they do not do it well.

Family education is a science that pays attention to methods and timing of education. Sometimes it needs to be said, and sometimes it does not need to be said. Seizing the opportunity for education sometimes has the effect of "silence is better than sound at this time." role.

Family tradition can be passed down. The values ??and principles of life and work formed from generation to generation will have an invisible force and will be passed on. The inheritance of family tradition mainly depends on doing, not talking. Zhu Xi’s family motto: “For every porridge and meal, remember that it is hard-earned, and remember the difficulty of material resources.” Yan's family motto: "It is better to accumulate tens of millions of dollars than to possess only a few skills." Through these family mottos, we see the reasons why successful people succeed, and the reason why wealthy families become the spiritual inheritance of wealthy families.

Today, good family traditions, such as respecting the elderly and caring for the young, being diligent and thrifty in running the household, harmonious relations between husband and wife, unity among neighbors, and being generous to others are not just words but actions.

If you honor your parents very much, give them material help, spiritual comfort, and care about the warmth and coldness of life, over time this kind of thinking and behavioral habits will have a profound impact on your parents. Holding his own child.

If you do not have specific behaviors to honor your parents, how can you educate your children to honor their parents? No matter how the teacher teaches children to honor their parents, as a student, honoring his parents is only a "concept". He has no personal experience and no rich "benchmark" of specific practices. It will be difficult for him to become a child who honors his parents in the future.

Another example is "proactive" and the pursuit of improvement. If parents can work conscientiously, have a virtuous personality, be kind to society, and be kind to nature, how can the virtuous personality of parents not have a subtle influence? Where is the child?

If parents are engaged in a profession that involves counterfeiting, cheating, and bending the law for personal gain, wandering on the edge of illegal crimes all day long, violating conscience and professional ethics, how can they let their children practice it? What about social virtues?

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If family education is contrary to the educational philosophy of teachers and schools, it will be difficult for school education to achieve the desired results. As you often say, eight hours of school education is not worth a word of misguided guidance from parents.

For example, we don’t want our children to watch TV, so we don’t watch TV. We don’t want our children to watch mobile phones, but read more, so we read more instead of watching mobile phones. Just like we want our children to exercise more, we should exercise more instead of staying at home.