Sit still and always think about yourself, and don't criticize others in small talk.
1. A kind heart equals gold. -Shakespeare
2. Goodness is not a kind of learning, but an act. -romain rolland
3. If you can't forgive others, you will tear down the bridge you want to cross. -g.h.
4. The human heart is not conquered by force, but by love and tolerance. -Spinoza
5. People who offend others never forgive others. -Herbart
6. Forgive yourself, and everything will be born of it. -Socrates
7. I can forgive anyone's mistakes, except my own. -Cato
8. A person who refuses to forgive others just doesn't leave room for himself. -Foley
9. A great man has two hearts, one is bleeding and the other is tolerant. -Ji Bolun
1. Only the width can accommodate people, but the thickness can carry things. -Xue Xuan 2. An ancient poem of self-discipline
People also have words, and it is not stupid to be stupid to be stupid
Source: The Book of Songs is elegant and restrained
Interpretation: It has been said that no one is extremely clever without being stupid. Explain that no one is perfect, don't be too hard on yourself. Mi (mǐ): No. Zhe: A brilliant man.
punish him, but avoid future troubles
Source: The Book of Songs Zhou Song Xiao Ya
Interpretation: I will take my past mistakes as a warning, so that I will be cautious in the future, so as not to bring disaster.
I've heard of calling myself, and I'm never going to change my mind.
Source: Tang Meng Jiao's
Interpretation: A person can think about it just after listening to criticism, and what mistakes can't be corrected? Weigh: degree, thinking. Chongqing: change.
A wise man takes a step forward because of danger, and a wise man makes a mistake and becomes a virtue
Source: Tang Lu Zhi's "Offering Heaven, Asking Qionglin, Daying Two Reservoirs"
Interpretation: A wise man can turn the corner; A wise man corrects his mistakes and develops good character. Build: create. Correction: correct.
Anyone in the world who is willing to know himself needs to identify Yan Ya with every skill
Source: Tang Zheng Gu's
Interpretation: Who in the world is willing to admit his shortcomings? Therefore, we must use a good mirror to compare whether we are beautiful or ugly.
husbands should reflect on their own lives, and know that misfortune is like a shadow.
Source: Tang Fanzhu's Ten Poems of Ode to Things in Houdu Academy
Interpretation: One should always check one's own weaknesses when living in the world, and should know that misfortune and happiness are as closely linked as form and shadow.
It is thought-provoking to smell the morning bell
Source: Youlong Gate Fengxian Temple by Tang Du Fu
Interpretation: As soon as you hear the morning bell, you should check yourself how you are doing every day.
Cultivation and cutting require hard work, and flowers are easy to wither and grass is easy to grow
Source: Song Su Shunqin's "The Temple Wall of Tihuashan"
Interpretation: It is necessary to cultivate fragrant flowers with hard work, because fragrant flowers are easy to wither and weeds are easy to spread. Now it is used to describe that people should strive to overcome their shortcomings in order to cultivate good moral character. 3. the sentence about being strict with yourself and being lenient with others in the Analects of Confucius
The Analects of Confucius is based on cultivating gentlemen, advocating moral education, and there are many contents of being strict with yourself. For example, Confucius put forward that "a gentleman can't eat enough, and he can't live in peace."
if you are sensitive to things and cautious about what you say, you will have a proper way and a correct way. " He also put forward that "self-denial and courtesy are benevolence."
a day of self-denial and self-denial, the world will return to benevolence. For the sake of benevolence, it is by oneself, but by people. "
Yan Yuan asked him to be more specific, and Confucius replied, "see no evil, don't listen if you are indecent, don't speak if you are indecent, and don't move if you are indecent." However, although Confucius demanded strict self-discipline, he was not always lenient with others. When someone asked "How to repay evil with good", Confucius replied rudely "How to repay good? Complain straight, repay good with good. "
to put it bluntly, you are good to me, and I am good to you. If you mess with me, I'm fucking welcome. 4. About strict verses
The ancients did their best to learn, and their youth and hard work began to grow. What they got from the paper was shallow, and they knew nothing about it.
They are ignorant of human nature, and their words are endless. When they see the sages and Si Qi, they reflect on themselves.
Be strict with themselves, and make up for their shortcomings.
Deal with people. How can you be right?
You'd rather admit your mistake than tell a lie.
Compassion is the foundation, and convenience is the door.
Money is not squandered, and meritorious deeds are not boasted.
The sky is not boastful, and the earth is not boastful.
A full pot is silent, and a half pot is tinkling.
The mountains and Gao Quan are clear, but the roots of trees must be deep. < A good beginning is not as good as a good ending.
Once a good deed is done to the end, a bad deed should never be done once.
It rains in the sky and slips on the ground, and you climb when you fall.
The sea doesn't laugh at water droplets, and the mountains don't laugh at pebbles.
You should be backward when you shake your head at a horse race, and the hero will be proud to fall.
You are open-minded and eager to learn, and you are praised, and pretentious and annoying.
A sage