1. The "Ten Don'ts" principles for dealing with others 1) Don't be defeated by difficulties. 2) Don’t cheat. 3) Don’t blindly compare. 4) Don’t eat chicken intestines. 5) Don’t be self-righteous. 6) Don’t be satisfied with the status quo. 7) Don’t ask for help in everything. 8) Don’t violate your conscience. 9) Don’t burn bridges by crossing rivers. 10) Don’t shirk responsibility.

2. Meeting people depends on a little fate. Getting along with others depends on a little sincerity. Love between people depends on sincerity. Destiny is God's will, part is man-made. Fate is a long-lasting relationship. A close friend is a close tacit understanding. A close friend is a perfect deep friendship. Missing others is a kind of warmth. Being missed by others is a blessing. No one is sorry to anyone in this world. Only those who do not know how to cherish others. Know how to cherish, this is a happy life.

3. In life, there are always too many expectations that are always disappointed, there are always too many dreams that are always disappointed, and there are always too many words that no one can express. Some people, remember deeply, may not be happy; give warmth to those around you on the bumpy road; give yourself a smile in the stormy life. Life is about keeping happiness in your heart and moving forward.

4. Put down the pressure. Whether you are tired or not depends on your mentality. The room of the soul will become filled with dust if not cleaned. Sweeping the floor and removing dust can brighten a gloomy heart; clarifying things can help you say goodbye to troubles; throwing away some unnecessary pain can create more and bigger space for happiness.

5. We in our twenties are like supermen who cannot fly. At this age, we have the best faces and bodies, but we have to struggle hard in the pressure of the city. It's always like this that we don't get to live the life we ??hoped for in our twenties until our thirties, when we start to define youth or romance again; and unfortunately, some of us have forgotten what we once were when we arrived. want. ——Greece's "Looking for Love in the World"

6. Those who are impatient will not have the sense of perseverance, those who are too fearful will not have outstanding views, those who are too lustful will not be generous, and those who talk too much will not be generous. There is no need for literary elegance in many brave people. ——Zeng Guofan

7. All natural things are slow. The sun rises little by little and sets little by little. The flowers bloom one by one and fall one by one, and the rice matures very slowly. Those sudden natural changes are often disasters. Such as volcanic eruptions, hurricanes and heavy rains. A child grows up very slowly. Sleeping alone is also very slow. One can only rest from sunset to sunrise. ——Bi Shumin's "Soul Under the Starlight"

8. A person's temperament is not about his appearance and figure, but the imprint left by the past he has experienced. Elegance is not something you wear, but the accumulation of experience; indifference is not something you pretend to be, but the accumulation of a period of life. Time will make a soul become more and more moving. We can travel through thousands of mountains and rivers, endure the ups and downs of honor and disgrace, and let experience enrich our lives.

9. A very important aspect of the impetuous trend in this era is that some people do not read, lack proper grace, and lack concentration on things. If a person cannot properly sink down and read, your demeanor and education will be compromised. Bookishness is sometimes a derogatory term in China, but I think some bookishness is cute. If there is no bookishness at all, I can only stay away from it. ——Wang Meng

10. Be rigorous in life. A rigorous person will achieve results that others cannot match under the same external conditions.

11. Don’t care what others think about you behind your back, because these words cannot change the facts, but they may disturb your heart. If the mind is in chaos, everything will be in chaos. People who understand you don’t need explanation; people who don’t understand you don’t deserve your explanation. The most valuable thing about people is their atmosphere. You must learn to say to yourself, if you can be satisfied by saying this, I am willing to accept it. And please believe that people who really understand you will never deny you because of what you have or don’t have.

12. Life is not a life-or-death struggle with worries. The quality of life lies in the degree of hard work. Don’t blame fate for neglecting anyone. Life itself requires a wise treatment. If you can afford it, you should let it go. Understand, this simple truth has extraordinary power. Life is not something you can pursue or ask for. Sometimes it’s not that you are unhappy, it’s just that it’s not easy.

13. Allowing some space for others also leaves room for yourself.

The profits cannot be earned, the blessings cannot be enjoyed, and the power cannot be exhausted. This world is not one person’s world, but everyone’s world, so there must be room for everything. "The world is vast in our belly, and there are always boats to ferry people." The more tolerance you have, the more understanding you will have; the more kindness you will have, the more hope you will have. It is convenient for others and convenient for yourself. If others have a way out, you will not be in a desperate situation.