In the spring enrollment of 2018, dozens of new babies were recruited, adding fresh blood to the kindergarten. There are a few places allocated to our class.

This semester is the next semester. There were ten old students last semester, and one student took a leave of absence. This semester is here. One of them went to the small class. Last semester, I took care of eight children by myself. The eight toddlers ranged from over two weeks to three and a half weeks old. According to the age distribution, there are three children who are suitable for small classes because their parents are familiar with them and asked me to take care of them.

At the beginning of this semester, I am taking care of seventeen children by myself. Almost all the new students are more than two weeks old, and they do not have any conventional knowledge, or they cry endlessly: they want their mother, grandma, or grandma; Or it is the kind of living treasure that can fight one against a hundred, non-stop, and has super strong combat power (destructive power). I tried my best, but I couldn't keep more than a dozen babies safe and sound. I was really powerless.

After much consideration, I talked to the leader. Taking into account my hard work, the leader moved three children who were particularly sensible and easy to take care of to the small class and the middle class. These three babies were already suitable for small classes last semester.

Currently we have fourteen children, some of whom are suitable for small classes, because two teachers and twenty-six children are a bit too busy. So there are no such strict requirements.

When they first entered kindergarten, most of the children cried. This is normal separation anxiety. After two months, this transition period is over and it will be fine.

However, many parents' separation anxiety is more serious than their children's. They don't want their children to cry. Once their children say they don't want to go to kindergarten, some parents don't send them. This is not good.

Some parents keep sending messages asking for photos and videos of their children in kindergarten. I was really busy, the soles of my feet were hurting and I couldn’t stand, my back was sore, my legs were cramping, and my head was really big. It’s not that I don’t know how to take care of children, it’s that I was troubled by some parents’ excessive demands.

My WeChat conversations with some parents. As follows:

01.

Mother Hu: Teacher Chen, do you need a water cup ready?

Me: No, there is a uniform stainless steel water cup.

Mother Hu: Well, okay, does each child have a label?

Me: Yes, everyone uses their own equipment, and they are disinfected at high temperature every day.

Mother Hu: OK, thank you. Haha, uh-huh, okay. It seems that many parents ask this question.

Me: I always ask this question when I first enter the kindergarten. I have been used to it for many years.

Mother Hu: Well, thank you for your hard work.

Me: Water is the foundation of good health, a normal problem. It's okay, it's understandable. I am also a mother of children. I will love and accompany you as much as I would my own child.

Mama Hu: Well, thank you.

Me: Don’t worry. You are the mother at home, and I am the mother and teacher in the kindergarten. They are all my children.

Mother Hu: Yeah, thank you very much. Your baby has worked hard in the kindergarten.

Me: Happy cooperation! Thank you for your trust and support.

Hu’s mother: Teacher Chen, how is Hu Shuchang’s performance today?

Me: Teacher Zhang is taking care of it, and we need a teacher to take care of it full-time.

Mother Hu: Well, are you crying?

Me: Very clingy.

Mother Hu: Well, her personality is just too clingy.

Please teacher, please pay more attention and exercise her more.

Sorry, teacher.

Teacher Chen, doesn’t Hu Shuchang play with the children?

Me: The principal took me to visit.

Mother Hu: Yeah, I really need to trouble you.

I took pictures and sent them to Hu’s mother: Dance here.

Mama Hu: Yeah.

Teacher Chen, did Hu Shuchang cry today?

I sent the photo of another child to Mrs. Hu, and I was really busy and dizzy. Every day, many parents from one family ask questions privately, and they are really stunned by the replies. Keep asking.

I want to know how my child is doing at all times. This bothers me. When my daughter was sent to kindergarten, I never sent her a private message asking her if she would cry. When a baby has just entered kindergarten, it would be abnormal if he does not cry. If the baby cries, it is a very naughty and troublesome baby. There are only two types of babies.

Kindness without a bottom line is a disaster. A brother said this is a wise saying. I also hate my own kindness without a bottom line. So tired! Physical and mental exhaustion.

Mama Hu: Hey, I just told grandma not to let her go at home, what should I do? Dear, my baby is Hu Baobao.

Hu Baobao is Miaomiao. I am Hu’s mother.

Teacher Chen, Baby Hu can play according to the prescribed game rules very well, but she is a little timid and dare not speak loudly outside. Please pay more attention to exercise and let her speak out loud. She will always She will say that she is afraid, so please guide her to say it out loud, don’t be afraid, thank you.

I sent Hu’s little video and photos to Mother Hu. And expressed his own opinion: My voice is dumb, and I am tired and sick. I cook herbal medicine every day, and the cost of traditional Chinese medicine is more than 1,000 yuan a month. The salary is not enough for me to take medicine. I love my children, so I chose this career. Please feel free to leave your child to me.

This is my essential job. I will do whatever I can do. But introversion is a personal trait. It's not up to me to decide. Personality has a lot to do with family living environment and heredity. I will guide, mainly parents should also provide guidance.

Mother Hu: Yes, I know you have worked hard. Please pay more attention to your health. You should also take a rest when the baby takes a break at noon. You must pay more attention to your health. I also guide her at home and tell her every time not to be afraid, your mother will protect you, it doesn’t matter. Now that she is in school, I just hope to cooperate with the teacher to let her speak out loud.

Me: I already take very special care of your baby. My throat is sore and hoarse, and I can hear it. Teacher’s summary: excessive use of the voice. The child care teacher talks a lot and always guides the baby not to cry and to learn to be disciplined and polite.

Teachers treat students the same, but their personal personalities vary between extroverts and introverts. It's not up to me to decide. Don’t be too obsessed with wanting your children to be who you want to be. Life is wonderful because of differences. If they are all the same, they are all the same. It's boring, right? It doesn’t matter if the child is introverted. Don't label your children. The child is fine.

Mother Hu: Yeah, okay, thank you teacher, maybe because of family reasons, I am always particularly sensitive to her, maybe this is also my problem, thank you very much.

Me: No one is willing to take care of the childcare class, and the child started crying again after fifteen minutes of nap at noon. Only a few can sleep quietly. But I was also woken up by crying. This is a transitional period. It will be fine after two months. It will be better after the last semester.

Mother Hu: Yeah, okay, thank you for your hard work. You must pay more attention to rest.

Me: I am a straightforward person. Say what you have to say without beating around the bush. It's you who are too sensitive. Let everything take its course. Being too forceful will be counterproductive. Learn to appreciate your child's ladylike temperament.

Mother Hu: Yeah, okay. Haha, yes, I was really overly sensitive in my dealings with her.

Me: Don’t do this again. You are tired, your children are tired, and I am tired too. Let everything take its course. Don't be too nervous.

Mama Hu: Okay, thank you.

Me: What a great performance today.

Mother Hu: Well, thank you, Teacher Chen, for your hard work. There are not many children today, so you should take a break.

Me: No way! The one who doesn't cry or make trouble is singing.

Mama Hu: The one who doesn’t cry or make trouble is singing. Oh, it’s really hard. Haha, the children are getting more and more adapted to the new environment.

02.

Mother Guo: I am Baby Guo’s mother.

Me: Warm reminder: Happy New Year to all the big and little babies! Welcome home baby. Parents, please prepare the following items for your baby:

1. Two sweat towels.

2. A bottle of fragrance.

3. Clean clothes (underwear, warm clothes, jackets and pants), socks, and shoes.

4. Waterproof gown.

5. One five-inch or seven-inch family photo.

6. Four one-inch photos of the baby and one one-inch photo of the parents (parents who often pick up and drop off the baby).

7. Draw paper and roll paper.

8. Bedding.

9. Spring is here, and the flowers are blooming. Please take your little ones for an outing, breathe fresh air, and experience the fun of parent-child play. Take photos, develop them, bring them to the kindergarten, and make a "Spring is Coming" themed wall. Please write down your true feelings: What did you see when you were playing in the wild? Did you find any interesting people or things? How do you feel? Please write it down and post it on the theme wall together with the photo.

Mother Guo: Got it, but our baby must wear diapers when sleeping, otherwise he will definitely wet the bed.

Me: Okay, I understand. School has just started, so take it with you. If it gets warmer, let's train the baby to get up and go to the toilet so that he can no longer rely on diapers. Regardless of whether the baby is a boy or a girl, wearing diapers for a long time will have more or less impact on the physical development. Dear, please prepare a change of clean clothes. If the baby wets, I will help the baby change. Under normal circumstances, I will pay more attention to the baby and remind the baby many times to use the toilet.

Mother Guo: OK, thank you!

03.

Mother Chen: Hello, Teacher Chen, I am the baby’s mother. Our family has been raised to be too squeamish, but we know what we are doing. Please be patient and talk to the baby. , when he wants to go to kindergarten, he should not be in a hurry. He will wet his pants or vomit if he is anxious. If you wet yourself, please help me change my clothes. If I vomited, please help me clean up. Thank you!

Me: Okay, it’s really a blessing to meet a parent like you who speaks out.

Mother Chen: Thank you. Because I am also a people's teacher. I know it is not easy to be a teacher.

Me: Let’s go together! Hello, teacher!

04.

Mother Xu: Teacher, why does our baby come to kindergarten?

Just started school. It's normal for babies who don't want to go to kindergarten. They especially like to cuddle up with their family members. My child is in the second grade of elementary school, but he still doesn't want to go to school. Whenever he sees me for something, he will hug me and cry. This is an expression of our children’s love for us. When the child meets his mother, he cries three times for no reason.

Mother Xu: My baby didn’t want to go, so I took her to play. I can’t take leave.

Me: Mom, actually, the baby doesn’t want to come to the kindergarten. The crying is just for you. You insist on sending the baby to the kindergarten, regardless of whether the baby cries or not. After a month or two it will get better and better. The less I give him, the more he cries.

05.

Mother Ma: Our baby doesn’t want to come to the kindergarten to sleep because the baby wet the bed in the kindergarten last time. Before going to bed, let your baby pee once. My children have a shadow in their hearts.

Me: I’m sorry about the baby wetting the bed. But before taking a nap, all the babies must go to the bathroom to relieve themselves. They call out once every hour or so. When they wake up, they put on small slippers. I help them take off their pants. After peeing, I help the babies lift and tuck their pants. If some babies don't wake up, I will pick them up and urinate. After finishing, I will put them back in the bed and cover them with the quilt.

There are many reasons for bedwetting. Some are because babies who have just entered kindergarten are overly nervous and urinate more; some are because they drink too much soup and boiled water and are afraid to ask the teacher to urinate. In the future, I will call the baby to urinate and defecate a few more times, and you will also guide the baby more at home. If there is a urination or defecation or other things, please tell the teacher as soon as possible, okay? We do everything for the good of our children.

Mother Ma: Okay. Our baby is introverted, please take more photos and videos and send them to us.

Me: Got it, I understand my feelings, but I need to take care of more than a dozen babies by myself, so it’s impossible to send you pictures or short videos all the time. All I can say is that I will take pictures for you whenever I have time.

Every baby is my child, regardless of distance. I won't favor one over the other. It's getting late. Let's have some rest. Good night!

Mama Ma: By the way, the baby said he doesn’t even pee in the kindergarten. Please tell him to pee.

Me: Some babies pee twice, some pee three times, some pee six times, and some 17 or 18 times. Babies have different physiques. The number of exclusions also varies. No baby said that he did not urinate in the kindergarten. Don't just take your child's word for it. When you take your baby out and urinate when you go out, it is because you drank too much water and soup. Not urinating, said not urinating anymore, peeing, said in kindergarten, not urinating water. Dear friends, please don’t be overly nervous. Children are not as nervous as adults.

Mother Ma: Trouble.

Me: No matter how hard or tiring it is, I’m not afraid, it’s all for our children. I'm just afraid that my dear family members will be worried, so I only believe my words, not mine!

Mama Ma: How can I not believe what the teacher says. Teacher, thank you for your hard work.

Fang’s mother: Is the teacher here? Did my baby fight with the children today?

Me: No, what’s wrong? Why do you ask this? If you have any questions or if you have anything to say, please just say it.

Fang’s mother: After the child came home, he kept saying that Teacher Zhang slapped him in the face. I asked him to recognize the photos of you two.

Me: Impossible, absolutely non-existent. Because you just sent your baby to the kindergarten, you told me that the baby is easily agitated and has been bitten by a dog. He must be careful and be supervised alone. I have always kept your words in mind. Since the beginning of school, I have been paying special attention to my baby, and I have never left the classroom or the children. One of my teachers, Teacher Zhang is the accountant and Teacher Xu is the principal. They took the time to help me. Our three teachers also often praise the baby for his love of learning and his ability to learn quickly. Even if I hit someone, it was the child's fault for hitting the teacher. The child hit me twice and slapped the teacher once, all because the child didn't eat. When we called the child to eat, the child lost his temper, threw the bowl, and knocked the food all over the floor. If he couldn't get rid of his anger, he would beat and kick the teacher if he caught him. Our three teachers all laughed and thought the baby was very cute. Coax the baby to eat one meal. Sometimes the baby is in a good mood and even eats two meals. The baby cannot eat onions, ginger, garlic, aniseed, etc. All the children in our kindergarten do not eat them, even when cooking. Really paying attention to the baby. Please don't just take your baby's word for it.

Fang’s mother: How could a child lie? I just believe in my children.

Me: I can guarantee that this thing does not exist. Even if the baby makes mistakes and gets into trouble one after another, we have not beaten or scolded the baby. We just guide the baby not to do this again next time. Do this. The teacher's mother was unhappy. Please rest assured, dear.

Fang’s mother: I sent my child to your big kindergarten just to see it. But the child said that the teacher slapped him in the face, and I was very angry.

Me: Okay, calm down, honey, this is definitely not a real thing, the baby is just too dependent on you. I just want to find a reason not to come to kindergarten. Tomorrow there will be a parent-teacher meeting and activities for March 8th Goddess Day. I will pick up the children at 4:30. I will be busy until I get home at about 6:40, cook and finish the meal with the children. It is now after 8 o'clock, and I am busy tomorrow. PPT, there is still a lot of work to be done, dear, no more chatting.

Fang’s mother: Okay, then you are busy. I still believe what my kids say. I also know that my child is naughty, but I hope that if he makes a mistake again in the future, teachers, please don’t slap him in the face, spank his hands or spank him.

Me: Don’t worry, you won’t be slapped in the face. No matter how big the mistake is, I will communicate with you. I will guide you in the kindergarten and you will guide you at home. Please waste more time and the baby will not be confused when he grows up. That’s it. Don't be too nervous. Good night.

Fang’s mother: Good night.

The above is a conversation between me and the students’ parents at a certain time. Don’t have too many similar conversations just after school started. I really understand what the principal said to me when I first entered this industry. If you want to be a good kindergarten teacher, don’t be afraid of being misunderstood. It’s really a profound experience. Misunderstandings happen all the time.

I am also a mother and a kindergarten teacher. Perhaps it is because I am engaged in the profession of kindergarten teacher that I have never asked my daughter’s teacher how she performed in kindergarten. Want to eat? How much to eat? Drink? How much to drink? I wet my pants, how can I wet my pants? What does the teacher do for food? My daughter was pushed down by a child and her mouth was bleeding and cracked. I didn't find or ask the teacher, and I didn't go to the hospital at that time. But now why are my students so troubled? Is it because I don’t care enough about my child? Or do I trust the teacher too much?

My child also told me that the teacher hit her. After I asked about the reason, as long as it was not a sexual assault, academic education was okay. Small punishments such as clapping the hands and being forced to stand should be legal. As parents, when our children are particularly disobedient, we will also get very angry and give them a beating to make them remember. What's more, teachers in kindergartens have to take care of a dozen or dozens of children by themselves.

Put yourself in each other’s shoes. The teacher and the child are not related by blood, but the teacher will be happy for every little progress of the child. If the child is sick or bumps into each other, the teacher will be inexplicably worried. , I am not just afraid that parents will cause trouble, but I really feel sorry for the children. People are advanced animals with feelings, and students are the children of teachers.

Although the children we have taken care of have grown up and left the kindergarten, the beautiful memories they left behind are still sealed in our memories and will never be erased. Maybe one day, the children will not remember that we helped them poop and pee, wash their faces and hands, feed them food and medicine, undress and dress them, and be teachers and mothers at the same time. But we still love them and wish them happiness and health. growing up! Because they were once our children and will always be our children in our hearts.

As a front-line kindergarten teacher, my enthusiasm has increased since I just entered the industry, and now I just try my best. No one understands the sad history of these five years. I take care of my children as my own. I keep playing games for the children every day, drinking warm boiled water, and feeding them rice and soup. Sometimes the children don’t say that they peed or pooped their pants. I help the children change into clean clothes. The only hard work involved is for the children in day care. Only teachers can understand it, others cannot.

As the saying goes, a hedgehog praises his child for being naked, and a weasel praises his child for smelling good. No matter what the child looks like in the eyes of his family, he is the best. However, children are all the same in the eyes of kindergarten teachers. If they make mistakes, they must be guided and pointed out, and shortcomings cannot be excused. Only with correct guidance can children become better and better.

To be honest, I have just entered the kindergarten teacher profession and I am really not used to it. Children may urinate and defecate anytime and anywhere. There are very few people who can take the initiative to speak. They almost always wet their pants while crying. Or I have pooped my pants. I have to get two large basins of hot water to wash the baby's body and put on clean clothes. Then I wash the dirty clothes and dry them. Sometimes when the baby is busy, he forgets and the baby will be burned. , I have to spend money to buy new ones, and I have to be criticized by the leaders, and I have to be misunderstood by some family members for not taking care of their children.

Actually, I really put all my energy into doing work and taking care of my children. Sometimes when I catch up with my meal, the taste is really indescribable, and I will spit out all the food I just ate. If you feel uncomfortable, drink a glass of warm water to relieve stress. Before I knew it, I had already adapted to such a life, and before I knew it, I had been working in the kindergarten teacher industry for several years.

Everyone says durian is smelly, but I have a soft spot for it. Just like these children, they also stink when they poop. I don’t dislike them for being naughty. The smell is overwhelming. I want to They have turned into beautiful little princesses and little princes. I just love being with them. Maybe I am destined to be the king of children.

In fact, children understand right and wrong better than adults. As long as they hit others without protecting their own shortcomings, and work with the teacher to guide the baby, the baby will get better and better! All the progress of a child will be shown in life, and it will be obvious every bit. As long as we are attentive enough to observe, see and feel with our hearts, every baby is unique and every baby is a champion.

Children have a clear mind. They can feel who is really nice to them and who is fake.

A child's smile is the best proof and cannot be faked.

After two weeks of getting along, although the new babies are still a little moody, when their parents really leave, the babies know that I am their support, and they will treat me as their mother. Depend on me, surround me, chat with me, ask me for food, drink, and play, and act coquettishly or mischievously. The babies are getting more and more accustomed to life in kindergarten. very nice!

When some parents find out that their baby wets or defecates his pants, the first reaction is not to thank the teacher for his hard work, not to feel that he is causing trouble to the teacher, not to feel that the clothes are stained with urine and urine, and the teacher is dirty. Instead of using his hands, he blamed us very angrily, why did our child wet his pants?

Based on my five years of experience in daycare, some parents are really lying. In fact, their children often wear diapers at home, so they don’t pee or poop their pants. Some babies urinate more than twenty times a day and defecate three times; some babies urinate three times a day and defecate zero times. Every baby has a different physique, so he eats, drinks, poops, and sleeps differently. This is understandable and acceptable.

As a conscientious kindergarten teacher, I can only do it. When the baby wets his body and puts on his clothes, I help him wash his body with slightly warmer water, wipe it clean, and then change into something clean. Sometimes I will wash and dry your dirty clothes for you to keep as a spare. If you really don’t have time, just take them home and wash them.

But there are those parents who don’t follow common sense. When their children pee their pants, they blame the teacher for not supervising them well and say some unpleasant words. Well, don’t you want to see your children pee their pants? In order not to be blamed by you, I dried the wet clothes for you. The whole room was filled with the smell of urine, and the children in the whole classroom suffered from it. Let the children wear clothes with urine. This It’s all about not being blamed by you.

Who is the culprit? This is obviously all your fault. As the saying goes, you have policies and I have countermeasures. You treat me with sincerity, I treat you with sincerity, exchange hearts with hearts, you are true and I am true, you are false, and I am false. This is the teacher's helpless move. No matter how hard or tired you are, you have to persevere. You can’t explain it to your parents yet.

I have never done this, but I have been advised countless times, but I still don’t listen. I still adhere to my personal principles. I think I am not wrong, no matter what my colleagues or parents say about me. .

If the children forget to take their coats or bedding home to wash and dry them during the weekend, I will take them home, wash them and bask them in the sun, and then take them back to the kindergarten on Monday. I insist on my own ideas. Some people say I am stupid, others say I am looking for trouble, but I still treat my students as my children. I believe that if we treat each other sincerely, one day the other person will feel warm.

I often see a saying that I will use now:

When flowers bloom, butterflies will come. l

Wherever sincerity comes, gold and stone will open.