Hua Yanjing once said: "Hanging a mirror, there is no trick of guilty conscience, everything is like a mirror, not elegant." With impermanent meditation, you are as impermanent as usual. " The beauty and greatness of the world are only appearances. If we can correctly treat the advantages and disadvantages of ourselves and others, we can shield the external interference and gain inner peace. Accept yourself and be kind to others.
Things in the world are always colorful, just like there are fragrant flowers and new green grass in the garden. Our five fingers are still different in length. How can we expect everyone to have the same handsome face and happy heart? From this perspective, perfect things hardly exist. In the face of imperfections, there must be tolerance and praise.
A grass, without the majestic body of towering trees, is still a scenery that can not be ignored on the infinite grassland. A small river, with only cliffs and broken walls in front, has made the waterfall magnificent.
A shell, soft body to bear the friction of restless gravel, but one day, there will be a glittering and charming pearl blooming dazzling brilliance.
If you blindly magnify the pain because of your own shortcomings, you will naturally miss the happiness and success of ordinary life. Therefore, there is no need to pursue perfection in everything. In the face of this world, you can treat everyone's advantages and disadvantages calmly, tolerate the imperfections of yourself and others, and sometimes get unexpected results.
During the Spring and Autumn Period, there was a famous musician Shi Kuang in the State of Jin. He was born without eyes, so he called himself a blind minister, also called a parallel minister.
Shi Kuang is not only good at playing the piano, but also familiar with the tunes of folk songs and musical instruments. It is said that when he plays the piano, the horse will stop to eat grass and raise its head to listen; Birds foraging for food will be grounded, get drunk and lose food in their mouths. Seeing that Shi Kuang had such a special talent, Duke Jinping named him Master Zhang Le.
On one occasion, Jin Pinggong specially hired someone to build a special piano for Shi Kuang. The strings on the piano are not only the same length, but also the same thickness. The piano is very beautiful. It is carefully carved with various exquisite patterns and inlaid with stones and beautiful jade.
When Shi Kuang tried the piano, he couldn't play a complete melody, so he carefully groped for the strings and asked, "Are the strings of this piano all the same?"
Jin Pinggong replied: "Yes, such exquisite strings should be unique in the world!" Musician, your eyes are blind, or you will marvel at the perfection of this piano! "
Shi Kuang shook his head and said with a dignified expression, "Your Majesty, you misunderstood. The reason why the piano can play beautiful music is precisely because the strings on it are short and long, thick and thin. The major and minor strings on the piano have different functions. The big strings are the main ones, supplemented by the small ones, and cooperate with each other to play harmonious and wonderful music. "
Shi Kuang asked the waiter to move out his original piano, his fingers crossed, and a string of wonderful notes jumped out instantly, which made people feel very comfortable.
The reason why a piano has high and low music depends on the length and thickness of the strings in order to play high and low wonderful notes. In the eyes of future generations, it is not advisable for Jin Pinggong to seek common ground just to achieve the harmony and perfection of appearance.
Everything has its own strengths and weaknesses, and the key is to apply it in the right place. Scholars and Confucians can serve the king in the crown, but they can't gallop and fight; Red rabbits can travel thousands of miles a day, but if they are kept indoors to catch mice, they can't even compare with a little wild cat; Purple cream is a world-famous sword. If you lend it to a carpenter to work, it may not be as good as an ordinary axe. The thing is not perfection, but whether it plays the correct value.
"The snow in Mei Xu Xun is three-thirds white, but it has lost a piece of plum fragrance." Song Dynasty poet Lu Meipo warned all sentient beings through the dispute between Xue Mei that all sentient beings have advantages and disadvantages. This is a natural principle and does not need to be too persistent. Learn from others' strengths and make up for your own shortcomings. This is talk.an excellent job, and it is very free and easy.
Everyone is different, and there are differences in appearance, so there is a pleasing human landscape; Intellectually, there is a difference between a wise man and a fool, and only in this way can there be an interesting social situation.
Small water droplets in the river have little self-knowledge, so they gather everyone's strength to form a torrent, trying to cross the reef and stir up magnificent waves; The caterpillars in the jungle are ashamed of their appearance, use up all their strength, struggle to break the cocoon into pupae, turn into butterflies, flap their wings and enjoy the gorgeous sunshine. Incompleteness is the essence of life and the various states of the world. We should relax, tolerate, treat and appreciate the disability. Finally, we will find that disability is also a kind of beauty.
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