Reading time: March 24-March 25, 2020
First, the golden sentence:
1. On the road of life, we always have to endure the stinging pain to hold the rose tightly. Only after experiencing the pain can we know the splendor and preciousness of the rose.
2. Rejection is a way to keep one's bottom line and a kind of respect for others.
Looking back at the original choice, I found that the choice is not for all the choices right or wrong, but to prepare for the next choice.
Mr Jiang Yang also compared reading to "visiting". Books are the precipitation of the author's life for more than ten years or even decades. The moment you open the book, it's like an old man or an old woman sitting by the fire, telling you that you are here, and then telling you page by page about his or her life over the years.
As far as we use silence to resist time, we bury stories and dust into their blood bit by bit.
6. The so-called love, good, does not lie in how glamorous the show is. After all, the person you love is not the whole world, only one person knows. Love is not just floating in life, that kind of love is as fleeting as wind and clouds. True love should still live as it is now, and it will always be affectionate.
7. The reason why life is interesting is that it paves the way for pain and sadness, which makes happiness jump higher. However, the landing of happiness will give birth to some troubles and solve these troubles, and all the troubles will make happiness jump higher.
8. The so-called deep affection is not to treat you as always after repeated disappointments, but to decide from the beginning that you are mine and I am yours. From two strange individuals to one in their hearts, all emotions have lost their objects. Hello, hello, hello, like rolling waves being accepted by the coast.
9. Everyone is like a beautiful balloon. He always tries to blow himself up when living in front of thousands of people. The small gaps in those balloons kept leaking, but no one noticed. Everyone just paid attention to how beautiful the balloon was, and no one noticed that the balloon was also very tired until someone sewed up the shortcomings of the balloon bit by bit. The balloon is not that big or even ugly, but he doesn't care. He just wanted to.
10. People who study think a lot, but live a simple life. A bowl of soup and a book can splash and make a sound.
1 1. When a person is still alive, all the memories are hung by a cable, because everything is still going on. Once the man died, the cable broke, and all the memories were unbound and turned into a huge meteorite. People who fall on their hearts are heartbroken and cracked.
12. China has always been home-oriented, which is both a warm harbor and a shackle of freedom.
13. But at that time, in occupied Shanghai, the people under the Japanese aggressors' iron hoof were hello, hello, hello and unyielding, and they were not depressed even if they resisted, even if they were strong.
14. "People in the city want to escape, while people outside the city want to rush in. This is the wish of life, whether it is marriage or career. " This sentence written by Jiang Yang has become a metaphor for many people to describe marriage. Marriage is a besieged city. Perhaps times have changed, and people in the torrent of information pay more attention to themselves, thus making marriage a wall or even a grave.
15. The love between two people, if you must use an appropriate word to describe it, is not persistence, dedication, doting, but integration.
16. The fragility of the body lies in its inability to resist swords and heavy hammers. Therefore, there are many broad ways. Where are so many sharp swords and heavy hammers in the world? The heart walks a tightrope in the rough sea. Everyone's words and deeds and emotional ups and downs may turn into storms. If you are not careful, your heart will be broken. But the heart is the lamp heart of life. When the lights go out, life will be broken.
17. Jiang Yang has always believed that man is an animal with spirituality and conscience. In life, they know themselves and reform themselves, but they must be voluntary and conscious.
18. The storm of the times never stops. Some people are blown away by the wind, some people ride the wind, and some people keep their hearts against the wind.
19. People are looking for all kinds of novel and exciting things in their lives, but they just want to fill their empty hearts. It doesn't matter what a person does if he can fill his heart at once. The important thing is that that person or those people are around.
20. The most important thing about love is not passion, but being deep enough to make promises and be together.
2 1. Life should have unremitting pursuit and know the value of life and death.
22. God will not concentrate all happiness on one person. Getting love doesn't necessarily mean having money, having money doesn't necessarily mean having happiness, having happiness doesn't necessarily mean having health, and having health doesn't necessarily mean that everything will get what you want. Keeping a contented heart is the best way to refine and purify the soul.
Second, an overview of the directory:
Jiang Yang's life is based on time.
Born with parents since childhood, deeply influenced by parents' education. He went to junior high school in Zhenhua, went to university in Soochow, and went to Tsinghua to study in senior three. He and Qian Zhongshu met, knew each other and fell in love. After that, I went abroad for further study with him. She gave birth to her daughter Yang Yuan in Oxford and returned to China during the war. I lost my parents during this period. After the founding of New China, he was criticized for going to the countryside and came back in his 60s. My daughter and husband were seriously ill and passed away one after another. Before meeting them, Mr. Jiang Yang missed 18 years alone in the world. /kloc-during 0/8 years, I sorted out Qian Zhongshu's manuscript and wrote several books. 20 16 In the early morning of May 25th, the bright star that burned 105 went out.
Third, reflection.
1. What have I learned from this book?
One's life should have one's own principles, one's own personality and one's own pursuit.
Whether it's love or affection, only you and those memories will accompany you in the end.
Live a rich life, or you won't have the courage to live in space.
2. What knowledge have you never heard of?
China has been home-oriented since ancient times, which is not only a warm harbor, but also a shackle of freedom.
? 3. How does this book help you?
A person's life is ups and downs, so we should keep our original heart and do things according to principles.