Let people know that they are not a piece of tofu, and let others feel that they have to pay a certain price for attacking themselves. At the same time, try not to intensify contradictions, and you can choose a half-joking and half-serious way. If the other party doesn't know whether it is good or bad, it is necessary to make it clear in time.
There used to be a famous saying that if someone shoots you in the back, I still choose to believe that the gun went off.
But next time we are together, we will be prepared. As the saying goes, there is no need to harm people, and there is no need to prevent people. After all, people have ulterior motives.
Many things between human nature lie in one thought: one thought becomes Buddha, the other becomes demon.
Try to learn to control the overall situation, grasp the direction of things, and prevent things from developing in an irreversible direction, because "peace will benefit both sides, and fighting will lose both sides", and try to move forward to a win-win state of cooperation.