1. People who think their talents are underappreciated often cannot see the excellence of others; cynical people often cannot see the beauty of the world; only those who dare to bow their heads and constantly deny themselves can continue to learn lessons. , only then will you be happy for the success of others, be proud of your own understanding of others, and only then will you feel at ease in the face of setbacks. If you want to stand between heaven and earth, you must know how to bow your head.
2. The process of growth is long but fulfilling, the process of self-destruction is short but leaves a lifetime of pain. Life can be said to be a test, and where you go depends on yourself. If the years are quiet, then take care of your body and mind; if the years are dark, then practice more. The most confusing thing in life is not that no one understands you, but that you don’t understand yourself.
3. We are busy in the same way every day. Maybe one day, we will be surprised to find that someone has achieved great results. Just like we all walk in the same way, lift the left foot, put it down, then lift the right foot, put it down again, and keep doing this. On the surface, we work and get off work every day. There is no difference in our actions, but in reality they are very different.
4. A person must clearly know his role and position, just like he knows his own face. If you know your role, you will not mistake your identity and status for everything in life; if you know your position, you will not be arrogant or belittle yourself. Some people have lived among flowers and applause for a long time, and gradually they no longer know who they are. For a person who has lost himself, by the time he wakes up, the years have long gone.
5. In our life, we have to walk many roads, some are straight and smooth, some are winding; some are prosperous, and some are desolate. In any case, you have to walk the road by yourself, you have to endure the hardships by yourself, and no one can fully rely on you. There is no such thing as no road to go. Even if you are trekking alone, as long as you are willing to walk, then everything you have walked on is the road.
6. Don’t use other people’s standards as your goals. Only you know what is best for you. Don't take the people who care the most for granted, cherish them as if they were your own life. Don’t let time slip through your fingers because you dwell on the past or long for the future; live today well and seize the moment, and you will make every day of your life wonderful.
7. Time is silent. As the seasons pass, there will always be a little coolness. Everything has passed, everything has passed, everything has survived. In the background of life, there is more Toughness and softness. Then the life that has calmed down at this time is so calm that it cannot be disturbed, it is so stable that it cannot be shaken, and it is so calm that it cannot be shaken by the wind.
8. Sometimes, you have to have confidence: you don’t rely on others and you earn every penny yourself. Don't blame others, decide everything yourself. If you don't panic, you will naturally have strength. Sometimes, there is a common misunderstanding: because we are close, we turn a blind eye; because we understand it too well, we turn a deaf ear. Sometimes, you have to understand: if you rely on others for everything, no one will look down upon you; if you blame others for everything, no one will listen to you.
9. For those who are confused, a touching word can change their life's destiny; for those who are persistent, a good idea can accomplish a career. A kind act can save a person who is about to take a detour. There are many such examples in life. There is a saying: Reading thousands of books is not as good as traveling thousands of miles; traveling thousands of miles is not as good as reading countless people; reading countless people is not as good as enlightenment from experts.
10. When others feel embarrassed, give them more face and less embarrassment. When others are psychologically unhappy, give them more advice and less firepower. When others have opinions about you, share your thoughts more and avoid misunderstandings. When others praise you, be more humble and less proud. When others criticize you, reflect more and be less resentful.
11. Happiness does not depend on wealth, it comes from feeling; happiness does not depend on success or failure, it comes from contentment. The taste of life is the strongest, and the prosperity of the world is the most true. True love and healthy living are a kind of wealth. No matter how beautiful a person lives, there will still be troubles, no matter how smooth the road is, there will also be confusion. What life wants is a kind of weight; what life wants is a kind of abundance; what life wants is a mood.
12. When your heart is between mountains and rivers, you must let nature take its course, and know how to adjust yourself. Use one feeling to discover another kind of happiness, and use your tired heart to find a way to relieve yourself. Situation, if this can be the case, the pattern of life may be different from now on. The heart is between mountains and rivers, which is a state of mind. No matter what kind of person you are, the state of mind is your life. Even if the reality is helpless and unbearable, if you are in the state of mind, happiness will always be there.
13. When a person is facing the wrong path and is surrounded by cold words, a word of care, care and encouragement is like a burning fire. It warms people and ignites them. A fire of confidence and self-esteem deep within. A word of encouragement, comfort and appreciation is like a guiding light, allowing people to see the light of the way forward in the darkness, thereby breaking through the haze and fog and getting out of trouble.