On that day, our family will visit our grandparents. Mom called my cousin and we drove to the country together. As soon as we arrived, my grandparents enthusiastically took out the peaches they planted in the yard and entertained us. Looking at the wrinkled peaches, I can't help thinking: grandparents are reluctant to eat peaches, but they leave us the good ones.
So, I took a peach and ate it all. I keep saying the word "delicious". Grandparents watched me eat and smiled. My cousin saw how delicious I ate, so he picked up a peach, but he only took a bite and said, "Ah! This peach tastes terrible. Cousin, you are really a liar! " With that, he turned and walked into the room. Suddenly it was much quieter. Grandparents showed disappointment. I coaxed my grandparents, but they were still a little sad.
Why on earth is this? I lied, and my grandparents were so happy. My cousin told the truth, but my grandparents were disappointed. It turns out that "politeness warms people's hearts and rudeness is annoying"! Besides life, the most important thing at any time is "ceremony". The ancients once said: "A gentleman does not hide his eyes and ears, but does not lose his mouth." Therefore, we must be polite, not rude.
"Courtesy and courtesy." Finally, I send you a sentence like this: "Don't be arrogant, arrogance means rudeness, rudeness means people walk, and people walk is rebellion."
Politeness warms people's hearts. There is an old saying in China that "a gentleman is not concealed by others, but does not lose his oral English". But few people can do these two things. Take one of my personal experiences as an example.
Once I just walked out of the school gate after school, an old woman came up to me and asked me, "Hey, do you know if class 1 (3) has come out?" I didn't want to answer at first, but seeing her age, I said out of courtesy, "Sorry, I don't know." The old lady gave me a white look and said, "I don't know, don't waste my time here." I can't leave without saying. I feel terrible. At this time, an aunt came over and asked me politely, "Is Class 3 (4) out?" I respectfully replied, "Sorry, I don't know." Aunt was a little disappointed, but she said politely, "thank you!" " My original mood was dispelled by this ordinary thank you.
Politeness warms people's hearts, but rudeness is annoying. This sentence is really good!
Politeness warms people's hearts. Confucius said, "If you don't know your fate, you don't think of a gentleman, you don't know your manners, and you can't stand." Politeness is the traditional virtue of the Chinese nation.
In today's society, we should treat people with courtesy. When we treat our elders and friends, we should treat them first, which is the minimum principle of being a man. On the bus, take the initiative to give up your seat to the elderly; Orderly when queuing, do not cut in line; Look at the traffic lights when crossing the road; Civilized travel, no littering. ...
Once, when I came home from school, I hurried upstairs by elevator. Just entering the elevator door, I heard a trembling voice behind me say "wait". I quickly pressed the door key and looked out. It turned out that an old man was pushing a wheelchair, his hands were tilted, his legs and feet were not working well, and his hands were still shaking. It is very difficult to take every step. When he entered the elevator door, who knew that his wheelchair was stuck by the elevator door. Suddenly, my heart warmed up.
In life, each of us is polite, and a smile, a lift a finger and a thank you will be as warm as sunshine!
Politeness warms people's hearts. 4 "Courtesy warms people's hearts, rudeness is annoying". Many things in life are confirmed by this sentence.
Grandma and I went to the hospital by bus, and it took us a long time to get on the bus. After closing the car door, only a childish voice said, "Uncle, this is my seat for grandma." When we looked there, we saw a middle-aged man sitting in his seat, next to a little boy who looked three or four years old, talking to the middle-aged man. The middle-aged man said impatiently, "Go away, where do you care where I sit?" At this time, a young man in his twenties suddenly stood up and said, "You should know how to respect the old and love the young." Listen to that guy. "What's the matter, want to fight?" The middle-aged man waved his fist. "Did you grab the seat, Richard? The last person to like you! " Everyone started talking loudly. Middle-aged people turned red and white after seeing it. When the bus arrived at the station, he got off in a hurry and ran away without looking back.
At this time, the little boy helped an old lady to sit in her seat, while her calf trembling with fatigue was still standing. The young man who just spoke stood up and let the little boy sit in the seat. Then there was a scene of concession.
"Politeness is enthusiasm and rudeness." This old saying proves life and human civilization.
Politeness warms the heart. On this day in summer, the weather is surprisingly hot. Willow, which used to love dancing, also bowed its head. Willow leaves listlessly stick to willow branches, and annoying cicadas are always "hot!" Hot! Hot! " Yes, I sat lazily on the bus, leaning against the window, and didn't want to move. The car was crowded with people, jostling with each other, and the air conditioner, which was supposed to blow out comfortable cool air, also went on strike, which didn't work at all.
At this time, waiting for the bus stood by. As soon as the door opened, an aunt with a baby came up. The baby should have felt the sultry heat in the carriage and burst into tears in an instant. The baby's mother quickly patted him and said, "Baby, don't cry!" " Seeing this, I immediately stood up and said, "Aunt, I think it's inconvenient for you to hold the baby in your arms all sweaty. I'll give you my seat. " Aunt quickly said, "Thank you!" I smiled and said, "Nothing, this is what a young pioneer should do." I looked at my bright red team logo, which shone like a torch, and the beating flame seemed to say approvingly, "You are so polite." Suddenly I thought of a sentence that Guan Zhong said in the Spring and Autumn Period: "Courtesy, righteousness, honesty and shame, the four dimensions of the country, the four dimensions can not be opened, and the country dies." A great country and a rejuvenated nation are inseparable from the strong inheritance and support of excellent traditions, so I want to be a good boy who inherits the traditional virtues of the Chinese nation.
Politeness warms people's hearts. There are always many warm-hearted moments in life, which moisten our lives. I have encountered many such things.
I remember once, I just finished my extracurricular class and was on my way home. When I was just about to enter the gate of the community, I heard a little noise behind me, but I didn't care too much. I walked on.
Then I heard a voice from behind: "Little girl, you dropped your book." I turned around and saw an old woman calling me. When I looked, I found my exercise paper in her hand.
It turns out that I didn't take the paper well when I left, and I dropped it on the ground. Grandma just saw it and picked it up for me. Also reminded me to take good things in the future, otherwise valuable things are dropped and may not be picked up.
I am very grateful to my grandmother. If she hadn't reminded me, I might not have finished my homework.
Because of this, I experienced the opposite thing. In a unit exam, I got 100 in Chinese and returned to my mother happily. As a result, my paper fell on the road and no one called me. When I got home, I found my paper missing. So I hurried back to look for it, only to find the paper lying flat on the road. I feel that if I hadn't come back faster, I might have been run over without blinking.
So this little thing touched me and warmed my heart. May all good people in the world get good results.
Politeness warms people's hearts. Etiquette may be a smile to strangers, giving up your seat to the old man and picking up a piece of garbage on the ground, or it may be a kind of tolerance to others!
Etiquette is everywhere in life, on the bus, on the roadside, at school ... Sometimes etiquette can not only show your elegance, reflect your quality, but also resolve many contradictions.
Once we went to the big recess after class, I accidentally stepped on my classmate's foot while waiting in line, so I quickly and carefully said, "I'm sorry, I'm sorry!" " I stepped on your foot, okay? "The classmate squatted down and gently stroked the injured foot, and smiled:" Nothing, nothing! " "My guilty heart suddenly spread, and we smiled at each other and walked side by side to our respective positions, feeling warm in our hearts.
Not long ago, the same thing happened in our class. A classmate accidentally stepped on another classmate. He didn't apologize, but pretended as if nothing had happened. Of course, the other students did not show weakness. As a result, the two men fought and finally got black and blue. "Be calm for a while and take a step back!" Don't they understand?
In our life, to be a person who understands etiquette can not only resolve unnecessary contradictions, but also give people warmth!
Politeness warms people's hearts. In our Chinese nation, etiquette has always been the most important. I have learned manners since I was a child, so I am loved by many people.
As the saying goes, "it's not surprising to be polite to many people." In the club, I often take the initiative to say hello to others, so others like me very much. Some are my children, some are my good friends, and some are my neighbors. I will take the initiative to say hello to them. Especially when I greet people my parents know, people will praise me and think that I am a very polite child, unlike other children who speak rashly and say some dirty words.
A new neighbor moved in last year. Since my father introduced me, I always call them when I see them. They care about me. My father told me several times: "My uncle on the first floor praised you again, saying that you are so polite. I like you very much. " I am glad to hear that.
In daily life, we need to master good manners and establish good relations with people. My neighbors and upstairs and downstairs have grandmothers or uncles, and I never forget to say hello when I see them. They will smile and say "good boy" to me. I am very happy to hear that, because I have not lost anything, but gained praise. They also think my tutor is very good.
The etiquette of China people should be passed down all the time. All of us should learn from childhood and try to be polite and good children. Politeness warms people's hearts. I understand this truth and will stick to it.
I must learn more etiquette knowledge and be a more polite child in the future.
As we all know, China is known as a country of etiquette. Since ancient times, people have paid special attention to the importance of etiquette, such as taking a few steps back and then turning away; When you accept others' help, you should bow to show your gratitude. In fact, in daily life, there are many subtle behaviors, but they are not found.
Once, on the way back from school, I walked home casually, thinking about the interesting things that happened at school today and staring at the sky from time to time. Unconsciously, I walked to the building where I lived. I put my schoolbag on my chest from behind, ready to take out the key to the outermost layer of my schoolbag.
Suddenly, a small voice came: Sister, can you help me carry my bike upstairs? Thank you very much if you can! The child looked at me timidly. Looking closely, it turned out to be a little boy two or three years younger than me. He broke up with his companion on a bicycle and rode over. By this time, I had taken out my key and was ready to open the door. There is no slope for bicycles to go up and down in the corridor of the community, so it can only be pulled up by manpower. Obviously, the child can't move. Originally, I didn't want to promise, but I thought of what the teacher said in today's moral class: it is the obligation of every young pioneer to be polite, helpful and not expecting anything in return! This sentence lingered in my mind, and finally I decided to set an example for my brother in need, and I readily agreed.
I opened the door with the key first, and then asked my younger brother to hold the door for me. I put down my schoolbag and lifted my bike hard. I took a deep breath and prepared to take it to the second floor again. Seeing my behavior, my brother quickly said, no, no, my family lives on the first floor. Thank you. My sister is so kind to me. You are my role model. I want to learn from you! Then he bowed deeply, opened the door and went home. Hearing his words, I felt that what I had done was not in vain, and the feeling of being tired just now suddenly disappeared. This may be the power of civility and politeness.
I remember taking a bus to the new library and seeing this scene. An old woman looks sixty or seventy years old. When she got on the bus, the bus was very crowded and there was no room left, so she had to stand in the crowd. Suddenly, a silvery voice said, Grandma, sit here! I looked for the voice and saw a little girl about my age stand up. Grandma nodded gratefully to the little girl and said, thank you, little girl! Everyone in the car gave the little girl a favorable look. But I felt irritable on my face and bowed my head shyly, and kept criticizing myself in my heart: Why can't I give my seat to my grandmother? I'm really ashamed of what I just did.
You see, the virtue of etiquette is around us, not without it, but because we lack the eyes to find it.
New Year's Eve (10) is the time for all families to get together. Our family of three also came to grandma's house early, and mom and dad also carefully prepared a big table of rich dishes, which really made people salivate.
Dad asked me to set the chopsticks and bowls first, and we didn't have dinner until the whole family sat at the table. At this moment, my little cousin rarity can't wait. He is like a greedy cat, and his mouth is watering. Look, he wants to grab the small meatballs on the plate with his chubby little hands. When my dad saw it, he quickly came over and touched his head and said, "Rare, my grandparents haven't come and sit yet. Let's wait."
It's time for dinner. We juniors picked up drinks and toasted our grandparents, wishing them a long and healthy life. Grandparents laughed from ear to ear and kept saying that the children were grown up and sensible, and we didn't start eating until grandparents moved chopsticks. My cousin and I share this delicious food from time to time. Look, how happy we are!
Etiquette can reflect many aspects, such as walking etiquette or speaking etiquette, so no matter what we do, we must know its etiquette and be polite to others, so that we can be treated with courtesy and benefit for life.
Politeness warms people's hearts 1 1 In people's lives, polite people will be respected by everyone, while rude people will only be disgusted by everyone. As the saying goes, "Politeness warms people's hearts, but rudeness is annoying."
One sunny afternoon, I went to the park to play. I finally got on the bus. Oh, there are so many people! I had to stand aside and grab the handrail. More and more people get on the bus. At this moment, a sister in school uniform, ponytail and white sneakers came and stood beside me. At this time, the car started, swaying all the way, and the speed was very fast. When we reached a traffic light, who knows, the driver suddenly stopped. I fell backwards before grabbing the handrail and accidentally stepped on my sister's white sneakers. I immediately raised my feet. There are black marks on those spotless shoes. I immediately smiled and said, "Sorry, sister, I took you." I am ashamed, I think, what will that sister say about me? But she actually smiled and said, "Never mind, just wipe it. Your soles are quite clean! " "This makes me deeply moved.
The tolerant and amiable language not only communicates people's hearts, but also reflects a person's cultural accomplishment. This elder sister has a tolerant and broad mind. It's great to say that it's warm in three winters!
Politeness warms people's hearts. 12 Xunzi said: "People who are rude are not born, things that are rude are not successful, and countries that are rude are uneasy." Etiquette is one of the traditional virtues of Chinese nation. If a person is polite, then he will leave a deep good impression on others.
Every time I mention politeness, I think of him-the security uncle in our community. He greeted everyone, saw the adults and said with a smile, "Come back!" " "When we see a child, he will make fun of us. Once, I didn't do well in the exam and was bored. I have never liked anyone, and I don't want to talk. On the way home from school, I happened to meet the security guard, so I tried to bypass him as if he didn't exist. Instead, he came over with a smile and asked me what was bothering me. I told me something that I did badly in the exam, but he told me a big joke. I couldn't help laughing my head off in the middle, and my troubles have long been forgotten by me.
I haven't seen him several times recently. I didn't see him until I went out to play at night But after a week, the uncle didn't know where to go. I didn't know that uncle had been transferred until I asked around. In recent days, I just feel empty. I always feel that there is no such person in the world. I feel that no one has taken the initiative to say hello to me.
If we are all like him, the neighborhood will be very harmonious and the society will be very harmonious.
Politeness is a fine tradition of our Chinese nation, and we should always be polite in our life.
I remember one time our friend went out to play and came back at rush hour. The traffic is heavy, not to mention the people on the bus. My friend and I got on the bus soon. Because I was carsick, I sat in an empty seat and the bus started. At this time, I saw an old woman standing there swaying, thinking that the teacher often taught us manners, and I should give her my seat, but if I give up my seat, I will have more time to get carsick. At this moment, a voice in the car reminds you to give up your seat. Please give your seat to passengers who are old, weak, sick, pregnant and holding children. We thank you. So I got up and said to my grandmother, "Grandma, you are old. Sit down. " Grandma smiled kindly and sat down and said, "Thank you, what a good boy." As he spoke, he took out the bananas he bought from the car for me to eat. Therefore, it is important to be polite to others, and polite language is also important. Compared with my carsickness, it's nothing. Although it is a trivial matter, it is the traditional virtue of our Chinese nation to respect the elderly and love the young.
I learned from it that as long as everyone is polite, the world will become a better place.
Politeness warms people's hearts 14 Let me tell you what "politeness warms people's hearts, and rudeness offends people" means. Politeness warms people's hearts, rudeness makes people feel happy, and rudeness makes people hate it.
Politeness is a virtue of us in China. People in China should be polite. For example, once I was waiting for a bus, a child suddenly "sprayed" me with a water gun. I said to my little brother, "Stop spraying me". The less he listens, the more he is "sprayed". I said to his grandmother, "Grandma told your baby to stop spraying me. Grandma said it was too hot to give you a bath." This is your reward, but you can't "spray" me. I have no money, but your grandmother has money. You can spray your grandmother. Your grandmother has money, and my little brother just "sprayed" it into her bag, wetted the steamed stuffed bun she just bought, and was beaten by her.
When I was on the bus, I saw a child throw a dime in and get on the bus. I brought him here and told the driver that he had to drive away. I felt it was a pity that he had to walk home, so I paid for him.
Being a man must be polite, which is our traditional virtue in China. We should remember the old saying: warm-hearted, rude.
Politeness is a traditional virtue of the Chinese nation, so we should always be polite in our life.
I remember once again on the bus, the bus was so crowded that it was difficult to move a step. I finally found a seat and hurried to sit on it.
The car drove away, and the people standing swayed from side to side. At this time, I saw a white-haired grandmother who was over 70 years old standing in the crowd and thought: Teachers often say, be polite, respect the old and love the young. I think I should give my seat to my grandmother, but I also think that if I give my seat, how uncomfortable it will be to stand by and watch! But respecting the old and loving the young is the traditional virtue of our Chinese nation, and I must do it. So, I got up and said to my grandmother, "Grandma, you are too old to stand still. Please take my seat. " "You are a good boy ..." But at this time, something unexpected happened. Grandma was about to sit down. A young man with yellow hair took the lead in pushing her and almost pushed her down. When I saw this scene, I immediately said to the young man, "Brother, this is still the seat I gave my grandmother. You ... I haven't finished, "let what? I'm sitting in my seat. Go away ... "
At this time, people began to criticize him, but the grandmother was still standing. Soon, someone gave her a seat. Unconsciously, the bus arrived and the young man ran away amid everyone's accusations. ...
This is exactly what the old saying goes: "Politeness warms people's hearts, but rudeness is annoying."