Famous aphorisms about speaking skills

1. If you are not angry, you will not be enlightened, and if you are not angry, you will not be angry. ——Confucius

2 People who have no faith do not know what to do. ——Confucius

3 You cannot tell lies in front of a real person. ——Feng Menglong

4 People who really understand don’t need to shout loudly. ——Leonardo da Vinci

5 Words are the shadow of action. ——Democritus

6 Books are notes, conversations are songs. —— Chekhov

7. Avoid talking too much in life. Talking too much will lead to mistakes. ——Zhu Bailu

8 A nation can be prospered with just one word. ——"The Analects·Zilu"

9 Words are pictures of the soul. ——"Life Motto"

10 This can be a guide for wise people, but it is difficult for ordinary people to explain it. ——Sima Qian

11 Words from the heart can be deeply rooted in people's hearts. ——Nizami

12. Hearing something and then explaining it is a waste of virtue. ——"The Analects of Confucius·Yang Huo"

13. Abundant but not missing a word, agreement without missing a word. ——Shang Jizong

14. To let your child learn to speak, you must first teach him to shut up.

15 Zi does not talk about strangeness, strength, chaos, and gods. ——"The Analects of Confucius·Shuer"

16. Some words are superficial in meaning, but some meaning is not fully expressed in their words. ——Su Shi

17. The words are clever and the face is thick. ——"The Book of Songs·Xiaoya·Qiaoyan"

18 A gentleman only has no scruples in his words. ——"The Analects of Confucius·Zilu"

19 Good words come from one's own mouth, and bad words come from one's own mouth. ——"The Book of Songs·Xiaoya·First Month"

20Words are the shadow of actions. ——Democritus "Fragments of Writings"

21 There are no words to say, but no words to walk. ——"Zuo Zhuan·Xianggong Twenty-Five Years"

22 Words and deeds lie in beauty, not in excess. ——"Famous Quotes" Emperor Liang Yuan

23. Thoughtful speech is better than eloquence, and appropriate wording is better than flattery. ——Bacon

24 There is a reason for what he holds and what he says makes sense. ——"Xunzi·Fei Twelve Sons"

25 We say no more than three useful sentences in a day. ——Muhammad

26 Lies can become clear over time, and public opinion can stop over time. ——Liu Yuxi

27 A gentleman does not use words to promote others, and does not use people to waste words. ——"The Analects of Confucius·Wei Linggong"

28 He who speaks with intention and stops at the end of his mind is the best word in the world. ——Su Shi

29 Don’t listen to nonsense words, and don’t listen to unreasonable plans. ——"Shang Shu·Dayu Mo"

30 Exaggeration is of no use. ——"Three Kingdoms, Book of Shu, Biography of Ma Liang"

The mouth of 31 is the door of the heart, from which all wisdom and wisdom come. ——Guiguzi "Guiguzi"

32 Words are the most effective prescriptions used by human beings. ——Kipling's "Speech"

33 A dog does not consider a good barking a good thing, and a man does not consider a good speech a good thing. ——"Zhuangzi·Xu Wugui"

34 Language, by its nature, is a public thing. ——Hume's "Meditations"

35 If you speak correctly, you will know; if you speak silently, you will also know. ——"Xunzi·Fei Twelve Sons"

36 A heart-to-heart conversation is a display of the soul. ——Wan Caverin's "Parting Love"

37. Slanderous words are sweet, but virtuous words are straightforward. If it is sweet, it is easy to enjoy, but if it is straight, it is difficult to enter. ——Zhang Jiuling

38 A gentleman’s words are believed and conquered, so the resentment is far beyond his body. ——"Zuo Zhuan: The Eighth Year of Zhao Gong"

39. Thinking is my infinite kingdom, and words are my winged props. ——Schiller's "Essays"

40 Those who don't know what to say have nothing to say; those who know what to say are silent and their meaning has been conveyed. ——Han Yu

41 When a bird is about to die, its song is sad; when a man is about to die, its words are also kind. ——"The Analects of Confucius·Taiber"

42 Language is an extension machine, forever lengthening feelings. ——Flaubert, "Madame Bovary"

43 There is no good or evil in words, and if they speak to my heart, they will be received without asking for them. ——Su Xun

44 Kind words are warmer than cloth; hurtful words are deeper than spears and halberds. ——"Xunzi·Honor and Disgrace"

45 If you say no, the horse will not chase you; if you say something urgently, the horse will not be able to catch up. ——"Deng Xizi Zhuan Ci Chapter"

46 words must be popular to spread far, and the words must be close to the wind to move people. ——"Feng Yumei's Reunion in Jingben's Popular Novel"

47 A great man only makes earth-shattering things in his career, and he often thinks deeply and quietly. ——Krylov

48 To convince people, a word is often more effective than gold. ——Democritus "Fragments of Works"

49 Emotion itself contains huge energy, which can help solve the problem of emotional expression. ——Lu Jiamei

50 If you don’t speak, there won’t be any trouble. If you open your mouth, you must have talent.

——Sadie's "Rose Garden"

51 There is no constant faith in words and no constant chastity in deeds. If you are only interested in profit, you will do anything. If you are so, you can be called a villain. ——Xunzi

52 If you can talk to someone but don’t talk to them, you will miss someone; if you talk to someone who can’t talk to you, you will lose your words. ——"The Analects of Confucius·Wei Linggong"

53 Language itself contains huge energy and can help solve the problem of emotional expression. ——Jacobsson

54 Before saying something, there are three things to consider: method, place, and time. ——Sadie's "Rose Garden"

55 If you can talk to someone but don't talk to them, you will lose someone. If you can't talk to him, you will make a mistake. ——Confucius's "The Analects of Confucius·Wei Linggong"

56 I hope in words, I believe you can learn this lesson and use your intelligence. ——Liao Jianhua

57 The communicative effect of silent expressions is five times that of spoken words. ——"The Mysterious Human Body Language" Wang Fuxiang

58 How many words do people have to say, just to break the silence. ——Elias Canetti, "The Human State of Mind"

59 Your tongue is like a fast horse. If it runs too fast, it will run out of strength. ——Shakespeare's "Love in vain"

60 The reason why people are human is words. If a person cannot speak, why should he be a human being? ——Gu Liangchi's "The Spring and Autumn Annals of Gu Liang·The Twenty-Two Years of Duke Xi"

61 Convey the emotions you experience to others, so that others can be infected by these emotions and experience these emotions. . ——Tolstoy

62 Language can reveal a person the most. As long as you speak, I can understand you. ——Ben Jonson's "Timber, or the Discovery of People and Things"

63 Giving words to others is more important than gold, stone, and pearls; persuading others to use words is more beautiful than elaborate articles; listening to others' words , happy with bells, drums, harp and harp. ——"Xunzi·Feixiang"

64 Language is just a tool through which our wishes and thoughts are communicated. It is the interpreter of our souls. ——Montaigne's "Collected Essays"

65 There is a kind of person who, in order to get rid of his inner excitement, often needs to talk and listen to others talk. —— Simonov "Twenty Days Without War"

66 Speech is the spiritual part of clothing. Using it and putting it aside is like putting on or taking off a bonnet decorated with feathers. ——Balzac's "The Story of Thirteen People"

67 If we behave politely and speak kindly, we can treat many people roughly and get away with it. ——Schopenhauer, "Appendices and Addendums·Advice and Maxims"

68 The power of words is so powerful that it can wake the dead from their graves, bury the living alive, turn dwarfs into giants, and turn giants into giants. Wu Ba was completely defeated. ——Heine "The Current Situation in France"

69 The eagle stands as if sleeping, and the tiger moves as if sick. This is where he grabs and bites people. Therefore, a gentleman must be smart and not show off his talents, so that he can have the strength to shoulder great responsibilities. ——Hong Yingming's "Cai Gen Tan"

70 Language as a tool is as important to us as a horse is to a knight. The best horse is suitable for the best knight, and the best language is suitable for the best knight. thoughts. ——Dante

71 Only when I can learn to create twenty styles and rhythms in the use of face, posture and voice will I become a truly skilled person. ——Makarenko "On Communist Education"

The reason why the use of 72 tone is meaningful is not just for loud singing and beautiful conversation, but for accurate, vivid and Express your thoughts and feelings forcefully. ——Makarenko

73 Wonderful singing is not about the tongue, but passion is not about the waist. As long as it comes from the heart and comes from nature, any language can achieve good results. The superficial "affectionate style" will only make people feel sick. ——Gong Hua

74 Therefore, it is as fast as the wind, as slow as the forest, as invading and plundering as fire, as motionless as a mountain, as unpredictable as the clouds, and as moving as thunder. Loot the countryside to divide people, expand the territory to divide profits, and act with power in mind. The person who predicts and uses a straightforward strategy will win. This is the method of military warfare. ——Sun Tzu's Art of War

75 Conversation is fun for people of all ages and is a very reasonable pastime; however, the conversation of ignorant people is not a kind of "conversation" and cannot give people any pleasure. ——Count Gistfel's "Two Letters from Home to His Son"

76 In ancient times, the so-called heroic people must have a sense of excellence, and they cannot tolerate human kindness. When a common man sees humiliation, he draws his sword and stands up to fight. This is not brave enough. There are great brave men in the world who are not surprised when they are attacked without any reason, and are not angry when they are attacked for no reason. The person they hold hostage is very big, and their ambition is far-reaching. ——Su Shi

77. In order to be a general, you must first control your mind. If Mount Tai collapses in front of you, your appearance will not change. If the elk thrives on your left, your eyes will not blink. Then you can control your interests and wait for the enemy. All soldiers are righteous, but if they are unjust, do not move them even though they are beneficial. If you don't make one move, you will be unprepared for something in the future. A husband who is just and righteous can anger a soldier, and a soldier who is righteous and angry can fight hundreds of battles. ——Su Xun

78 means: Eagles and tigers are the two most ferocious animals. Once they attack to hunt, they almost never return empty-handed. Interestingly, before preparing to hunt, the eagle stood there as if taking a nap, and the tiger seemed to be sick when walking - this is actually just a cover-up method for them to deliberately show weakness, so as to avoid being overpowered. If exposed and attacked, it can also paralyze the opponent.

Therefore, only when a gentleman is good at concealing his wisdom and talents can he shoulder heavy responsibilities and realize his great ambitions.