If you want to live happily with your parents, you should consider how to get along with them. Sometimes, there will always be big and small contradictions between children and parents, but only because they don't know how to live in harmony. Basically, whether parents are right or not, children should not contradict their parents when they speak. Keep an eye on your parents and concentrate. This is respect for everyone. You will find the benefits of doing so.
Are we amiable, cheerful and respectful when talking to our parents? If you give your parents a cold face, how uncomfortable their parents will be. People feel that "it is better to adopt an unfilial son"? If you are satisfied, you can't blame your parents for nagging. Do you really know what your parents think? If a person doesn't even let his parents finish, can he still be considered a dutiful son? Satisfied, but also consider things that can't worry parents. Parents should help solve problems in time, and seek medical advice in time if they have diseases. We must show sympathy for the suffering of all beings, not to mention our parents. If we are not merciful to our parents, then our compassion for all beings is false and purely for personal merits. Our filial piety is not for seeking merit. Filial piety is true love from the heart, and it is a deep gratitude to our parents for being pregnant in October and nursing for three years. Be sure to make parents feel happy and happy. Like Lao Laizi in "Twenty-four Filial Pieties", in his eighties, he sang and danced in colorful clothes to amuse his parents, and sometimes he deliberately fell down slowly and pretended that the baby was crying to amuse his parents. How nice this is. But even this would not be enough Every day, it is not filial to consider raising a dear relative, but also to cherish the spirit and dare not hurt casually (to put it bluntly, don't stay up late often, don't have excessive sex life, etc. , alas. If you don't break the law, you should repay your kindness, do all kinds of bad things, do all kinds of good things, and do your best to preserve your health and cultivate your morality. If you don't behave well, people will think your parents are bad. Isn't this a disgrace to parents? Some people say that my parents are not good to me, and it is difficult for me to be filial. It is not difficult for parents to be kind to themselves. If you are not good to yourself, filial piety is true. If you have to ask your parents to be kind to you in order to be filial, then you are doing business. Besides, is there anything more difficult than Dashun? Dashun's parents and brothers set him on fire when he went home to repair the roof, and covered him with stones when he went down to dig a well. But he didn't regret it, just blaming himself for not touching his parents. Some people say that I am poor and can't be filial. But filial piety is not limited to material things. In the past, some dutiful sons did not avoid being punished by knives and axes on behalf of their fathers, and some Wan Li risked their lives to find relatives. Even in the most bitter state, filial piety can be done. It's really admirable. If you always think about whether to embarrass your parents or not, it is called filial piety. But that's not all.
We usually talk to your parents about whether, if so, we respect their behavior. How hard it will be for your parents if you give them a cold face. People feel that "adopting a son is unfilial"? Well, you can't be nagged by your parents. Do you really know what parents think? Can a person be considered a filial son even if he refuses to let his parents finish? Well, consider not letting your parents have any worries. Parents have difficulties to help solve in time, and seek medical advice if they have diseases. We all have a heart. What about our parents?
If our parents have no pity for you, then our pity for all beings is false and purely for personal merits. Our life is about merit. Filial piety is a sincere love for parents, and it is a deep gratitude for being pregnant in October, breastfeeding for three years and hard parenting. Make sure your parents mind and are happy. For example, "an old man who is over 80 years old also wears colorful clothes to sing and dance to amuse his parents, and sometimes he deliberately drops a baby cry slowly to make them laugh." Very good. But it's not enough.
It's not cruel to have a close relative every day, but I also cherish my spirit and dare not be seriously injured (that is, I don't often stay up late and have excessive sexual intercourse, alas. ) if you don't break the law, you should repay your relatives with kindness, don't do evil, and be filial to all good deeds. If you behave well, people will think your parents are bad. This is not for parents?
Some people say that my parents are not good to me, and it is difficult for me to be filial. It is not difficult for parents to be filial for themselves. If you are not good to yourself, filial piety is true. Be sure to be filial to your parents, that's in business. Besides, is there anything harder? Dashun's parents and brother set fire to him when he was repairing the roof of his house, and took his stones from the well next to his house. But he didn't regret it, just blaming himself for not being moved by his parents.
Some people say that I am poor and unfilial. But filial piety is not limited to material things. Before a child, some prisoners didn't avoid axes, etc. Some miles to find my life. In the most bitter realm, filial piety can also be achieved. Admirable.
If everything you say and do is about whether to give it to your parents or not, it is called filial piety.
But it's nothing.