This pride reminds me of Song Xiaobao's famous saying: There are many people who hate me. Who are you?
When it comes to Song Xiaobao, some people may hate him even more now because of "playing big cards" and "cheating fans", but in fact, he was also a persistent grassroots. You know, from dropping out of school to being a dishwasher, and then taking Zhao Benshan as a teacher, it's not easy for Song Xiaobao to have today's achievements.
Song Xiaobao was born in the countryside, and his family was poor and couldn't afford to go to school. He dropped out of school in the second day of junior high school. At the age of 16, he left his hometown alone to work in Harbin. No one wants to hire him because he is thin and has no skills. There is no way, he had to hang a plastic sign on his body, which says 32 yuan/Month.
Song Xiaobao later said: "Because the asking prices of others are all 34 yuan and 36 yuan/month, I have no advantage, and I am afraid that others will lower the price, so I will simply press 32 yuan, even if it is 1 yuan cheaper, as long as I can find a job." Finally, an employer saw such a low asking price and went to him. And this first job was to wash dishes.
At that time, because the boss didn't care to stay and he had to save money, he could only stay in a hotel for 3 yuan a night, and he was crowded with a lot of people every day, not to mention the smell.
In one year, Song Xiaobao traveled all over the city as a dishwasher, and the longest one was one or two months, and the shortest one was only one day, which was the most unforgettable one for him. A burly man took him to a roadside shop in the suburbs, pushed open the door, pointed to the dirty dishes piled up inside and shouted to him, "What are you doing? Wash them all quickly!" Since then, he finally couldn't stand it and returned to his hometown in Jilin alone.
Later, he went into the business by mistake and became an actor. Later, he became Zhao Benshan's apprentice. Later, he appeared in the sketch "Blind Date" and became an instant hit. As the saying goes, "there are many people who are red", and there are also many criticisms along with reputation. Some netizens said that he was just trying his best to entertain himself, or that Song Xiaobao had satisfied most people's bad taste of "fools" and was vulgar and uneducated.
Whether he is an excellent duet actor in the eyes of his peers, "Brother Bao Er" in the eyes of the Northeast, or "vulgar and uneducated rural people" in some populations, whether you like it or hate it, he has always had a clear position for himself: the grass growing bit by bit in the cracks.
Do you remember the brand of 32 yuan/Month? Yes, Song Xiaobao now carries this brand on his body every day and puts it in his bag to remind himself at any time: "No matter how hard it is, can you be sad at that time?" . He said that every time he saw this card, he would understand and return to zero. In the face of all the troubles, I returned to zero and started over, still a hero.
From a dish washer who entered 32 yuan every month, he has become the hottest comedian with a daily salary of 8,. Only Song Xiaobao knows the hardships he has experienced along the way. As Elizabeth George said: There is never an easy answer in life, only to overcome many problems.
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When I was in college, I had a classmate named A Jian, who was also poor-looking and unpopular with everyone. In the dormitory shared by six people, he also belongs to the kind of maverick. It is often the earliest to get up, take a book and run out to read in the morning, and then go back to the dormitory to rest after self-study at night.
despite his hard work, he was regarded as an disgusting fly by his roommates because he was unsociable. On one occasion, the matron had a conflict with a person in the opposite dormitory. In a rage, the matron incited the whole dormitory to fight with the opposite dormitory. At that time, the roommates were all excited, and if they didn't agree with each other, they really started work. Roars and screams came one after another, and the scene was chaotic. If the teacher hadn't heard the news and stopped it, the consequences would be unimaginable.
Finally, counting the number of people, only A Jian did not participate in the dormitory. As a result, A Jian was exempted from punishment, while other students were recorded. Now he has become the "public enemy" of his roommates. Some roommates were so angry that they began to do some "practical jokes" on him. For example, they sprinkled sand on his bed, put some mouse droppings in his rice bag, and deliberately picked his clothes that were about to dry into the gutter.
Even so, A Jian is still a loner. In the face of these tricks, he always smiles indifferently and suffers silently. After a long time, roommates lost the fun of playing tricks on him, but felt like a child who had made a mistake.
At the graduation party, everyone had a good time and got drunk. Think of four years of dribs and drabs, there are laughter and tears, at this time, once the ups and downs are forgotten, even girls are less reserved, have toasted. It's the girl's turn to propose a toast to A Jian, although everyone kept shouting, "Drink, drink, drink!" " , but Ajian is still very principled. He just took a sip and put it down. It's no use trying to persuade anyone. The girl finally said bitterly, "No wonder everyone hates you."
who would have thought that A Jian, who was hated by everyone in those years, became the most promising student in his class just a few years after graduation. Most of the others are not satisfied, only he runs a business, drives a BMW, marries a beautiful woman, and lives happily.
that day, I ran into him in the street. I wanted to avoid him, but I didn't expect to be stopped by him. He invited me to a nearby Starbucks for a cup of coffee and said something that I will never forget: "I know that when I was in college, my classmates hated me. In fact, I didn't mean to make everyone hate me, but I was very clear about my goals and directions. I had my own principles and reasons for persistence. College time seems beautiful, but it is fleeting. What if our time is just wasted on endless catering, even if people like it? The scenery on the surface is useless. After closing the door, the pain and grievances can only be borne by yourself. "
He finally patted me on the shoulder and said meaningfully, "The best way to silence people who hate you is to be better than these people and live better than them!"
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Actually, being hated is sometimes not a bad thing. No one is born to be liked and loved. The growth of life always involves cold eyes and ridicule, being hated and being attacked. When you can face these things calmly, it means that you are mature and grown up.
There are many people who hate me. Who are you? I think the real meaning of this sentence is: when I am strong enough to be proud of my independence, the outside world's views can't change my will, and whether you hate me or not is even more irrelevant! Will a strong man become weak because of the dislike of the weak? No, on the contrary, he will become more powerful, so powerful that your hate looks so humble and powerless!
you are the real strong one if you step on others' hate and live your true self! !