Women with temperament also have many good qualities; there are also many types of women with temperament. Maybe, she is by your side. Someone once said that when evaluating an unattractive woman, if she is still well-educated, she can be called a "woman of temperament." Fortunately or unfortunately, I get compliments like this all the time. However, I am confident that I have temperament. A classy woman never has a high fever for fashion. Fashion always puts women in the clothes of petty bourgeoisie, bobo, middle class, etc. to win the hearts of women, but the temperature of a temperamental woman towards these rich and grand names is always 36`C - neither cold nor hot, nor tepid nor hot. It will never be whittled down enough to suit it or pursued with fanaticism. Don't think that she doesn't understand style. A woman with temperament will calmly discover the factors that suit her from fashion. Or abandon fashion and advocate yourself. Who says this is not a fashion? A classy woman knows how to dress herself up. It may seem ordinary, but if you don't pay attention, it will drift past your eyes, but when you stop paying attention, there are always some seemingly inadvertent carvings that will make you savor it carefully. Looking at the clothes of elegant women is like reading Japanese literature - a bowl of crystal clear water, only after tasting it do you realize that salt is added to it. Gentle women love music. It's not about making yourself look like a certain type of person. Listening to music is as natural and indispensable as breathing air. When most people are rushing to rush into the "Secret Garden", when there is Matthew Lane's crooning on every street, a woman with temperament will always smile. It seems to remind me of the rice soaked in water that I used to eat when I was a child - I no longer use it to satisfy my hunger. She knows how to boost her nutrition. If listening to music is compared to eating, the dinner is usually solemn: the main meal is "Turandot", with opera excerpts sung by Callas or Botticelli as the background music. If you want to have wine, it would be "Madama Butterfly" - the strong taste is like a glass of absinthe. Although it makes you unable to hold back your tears, it makes people feel it willingly. For dessert after dinner, you might as well try some of Grieg's piano pieces. The soft and lyrical keys strike throughout the body, imprinting quiet notes everywhere. So, I - a graceful piece of music - played fantasy when the lanterns first came on. Like a flower blooming. Gentle women love books. It is precisely because of the influence of books that gentle and elegant women exist. The woman's movements and moves all convey the charm of the book. Books and women complement each other beautifully. You are wise, and you can always feel which woman in the Book of Songs she resembles, or whose butterfly is reborn in her confusing eyes. Filled with subtle fragrance, she is lighter than Tang poetry and deeper than legend. A woman with temperament is a scenery that you can only watch from a distance but not play with. If you have outstanding talents and like-minded interests, you will be lucky enough to become a close friend. Having sex with a woman of temperament is like entering a house of orchid - not smelling its fragrance for a long time. I only feel that my heart and spleen are cool and quiet, and all the evil turbidity cannot invade and can only drift away from the sky. A woman of temperament is a good book. She won't let anyone read it, and not everyone can read it. A woman with temperament knows how to live. No one's life is perfect. Troubles, anxiety, disappointment... always run out of Pandora's box silently, waiting for an opportunity to invade our happy hearts. Are you disturbed in this mortal world? A temperamental woman will put them away first and "live elsewhere" for the time being. When you are calm and clear-headed, kill a beautiful retaliate. "Living poetically" is the rule she abides by. Therefore, she always lives a poetic life. When you wake up in the morning, pick a white cloud and put it in your pocket, and your mood will be light and graceful throughout the day. Even if she is busy at work, she can still take a break and relax her mood at the right time: the grass under the window finally comes out; the ink dripping on the paper shows a puppy; the colors of the sunset are unpredictable, and I can’t think of any colors to reconcile them. ; There is no order at all when the snowflakes fall, changing directions at will... It is precisely because of these small bright spots that the days are not gloomy. A woman with temperament is not a fairy who can't eat the fireworks of the world. She manages her life in an orderly and interesting way. If time permits, I'll cook a nice dinner. Frying in the kitchen while listening to the opera arias of a coloratura soprano. After everything was put away, an oil painting of beautiful color and fragrance appeared on the table: the candlelight flickered, and the elegant tones reflected by the plaid tablecloth and blue printed disks alternated between thick and light. The drinks are mixed together, and the subtle fragrance floats. It’s not just the food that’s important to savor, but also the mood – eating is no longer a simple matter. A woman of temperament keeps her heart warm at all times. At ten o'clock in the night, she would quietly get up after her husband beside her pillow was breathing evenly, turn on the lamp in the study, and read a passage from Duras or Li Yu's "Idle Love", or just meditate. Looking out the window at the watery moonlit night, I let my thoughts dance in time and space. Maybe I remembered a certain fragrant past, and a smile bloomed on my lips, as crystal clear as the new moon in the sky. A woman with real temperament can afford, afford, afford, spend and show off. Beauty can be born, but temperament is acquired. I will teach you a few tricks based on my summary. 1. First of all, pay attention to the following points as a whole: 1. Make yourself confident. In this competitive society, the kind of self-pitying, weak and helpless women have gradually lost their market. Men are no longer the masters of women, and women are no longer men’s vassals. The famous saying "The ultimate pursuit of men is success, and the ultimate pursuit of women is happiness" is increasingly eclipsed. It is always most important for women to learn to save themselves and improve themselves. It is always passive and unsafe to long for a man to give you happiness. Men appreciate optimistic and confident women.
There are more self-reliant women in this world, and the mental pressure on men will be less. Moreover, if a man can live his life with a woman who is not only satisfied with food and clothing, life will never become stale, nor will life deteriorate. 2. Make yourself look noble. 3. Learn to be kind and understanding. The kindness mentioned here is nothing more than a woman’s tenderness. But here it is better to change tenderness to kindness. Of course men like women's tenderness, because women's tenderness can warm a man's soul. However, tenderness sometimes seems to be a kind of unprincipled love. A woman's love for a man who is not worthy of her tenderness is, to a certain extent, fulfilling the man's sin. Love should be moderate and be kind. Therefore, a good woman only needs to be kind to a man. Women love too much, but men don't know how to cherish them. In this era, men are no longer accustomed to being fixed in a small room, so women should learn to adjust themselves and not be trapped by love blindly, so that feelings replace all of life. Smart and optimistic women can often try to make their hearts understandable and let love move towards solidity and eternity in a kind of plainness. Sometimes when you look at feelings in a relaxed way, it is actually the best way to grasp it. Some women put themselves in a position of begging for affection from the beginning. The root of the tragedy is often here: If you are not confident in yourself, how can others value you? Men are often like this: if you value him too much, it means that he can easily dominate your feelings and happiness! At this point you lose first. Therefore, relationships are most concerned with respect and equality... Needless to say, men will naturally feel cute about a woman who is insightful and thoughtful. Because when a man falls in love with a woman, he does not want to lose his own world under the constraints of love. Men care about the tacit understanding, tolerance and understanding of love. Because this kind of love does not prevent men from venturing into life with physical and mental release - after all, in the eyes of men, love does not represent the whole of life. 4. Learn to be assertive in doing things. Psychologists analyze that women often have emotions that trump reason, and the same applies to friendships, careers, and marriages. This is a fatal weakness that hinders women's development. It seems that it is not an easy task for a woman to fully achieve the above points. However, as long as you do one of these things, you will become a lovely woman in the eyes of men. Second, pay attention to the following points in specific behaviors: 1. Stand: You must stand straight, raise your head, lift your chest, and draw in your abdomen. Don’t raise your head to the sky, don’t push your chest out, and everything must be flat. This is the minimum standing posture. And no matter where you are or what the occasion is, you must maintain this form as long as you stand, and it will become a habit over time. If you say no, I can't stand up to that effect, then go home, put your heels, buttocks, shoulders, and back of your head against the wall, put your hands vertically down, and stand at attention with your legs together for an hour and a half. Do this every day, no matter what I believe you can't stand that effect. 2. Sit. The sitting posture must be elegant, the upper body should be upright, and the buttocks should only sit on one-third of the chair. The legs can be placed together to the left or right, or one leg can be placed on the other leg, with the legs hanging naturally. . But be sure not to spread your legs or tilt your legs on a chair. If you are not used to it yet, use your breaks at work to exercise yourself. 3. Walk: When walking, use the word "stand" first. Hold your head up, chest out, and belly in. Don't always lower your head and count your toes. When walking on the road, treat the road as your home, your T-shaped stage, but it does not mean that you walk in a domineering manner. You need to walk as if there is no one around, look straight, and show your own momentum. Don't walk in a hurry, and don't walk in fear. I stepped on the ants on the road, neither fast nor slow, just steady. The rest is walking posture. You can crouch. The crotch movement of the hips will show your waist posture, but don’t move the whole upper body with it, which will make people look frivolous. Keep your hands vertical and sway gently back and forth. Don’t walk in a military posture. , it’s not about going straight, it’s about being natural. 4. Another thing to pay attention to in terms of appearance is clothing. It does not have to be a famous brand, but it must be suitable for your age and body shape. You must wear it to reflect your own personality. A good piece of clothing looks good on others. But it doesn’t necessarily mean it’s suitable for you to wear. 6. When it comes to face, let’s talk about facial expressions. Smile, remember to smile, don’t be dumbfounded, and don’t smile so wildly. If you can't smile without showing your teeth, then slightly raise the corners of your mouth. The most important thing is your eyes. When listening to others or talking to others, you must look directly at them and don't look around. Remember there is a book that says that a woman's eyes are a gate to her heart, so make good use of them. Gate, show your confidence. 7. The most important thing is to be well-educated and have connotation. Don't be talked about behind your back. That person looks very elegant, but he talks dirty words. Remember, whether you are a beautiful woman or a person with temperament, you will not be criticized. Never curse, it will ruin your entire image. Temperament comes from the heart, keep your pure and kind heart! That’s it. As long as you pay attention, no matter you are tall, short, beautiful or ugly, give yourself some confidence and believe that you are the most temperamental woman.