Xu Yan and Shen Zichang's breakup ended with infinite regret but also relief. The past injury has planted a thorn, and the two can't be as close as before; The different expectations for the future are irreconcilable contradictions, and together they will be a cycle of mutual dissatisfaction and sacrifice. Both sides are reluctant to give up, but they are unwilling to continue to accommodate. The beginning of love at first sight, the company of long years, and wholeheartedly loved each other at the best age. Xu Yan's "no regrets" gave this love the greatest dignity and completed the transformation of self-growth. I feel sorry for Xu Yan.
When she stumbled in love, she lost not only Shen Zichang, who she deeply loved, but also herself who was confident and flamboyant in love. The past promises are childish, timid, vain and unrealistic; Today's Xu Yan is independent, strong, pragmatic and considerate. Turning a cocoon into a butterfly, she won more praise and respect from people. However, from now on, she will never regard love as the only thing in life. She will never trust her lover without reservation, never ask for too much, and never express her emotions at will.
Behind the maturity is a girl's profound awareness of true human nature. Xu Yan is lucky. She has been weak and presumptuous in love. Ordinary, like you and me, have never even experienced trauma, and have understood the hidden rules of love. Patience is limited, love is conditional, and what you like is my understanding and strength. I was a promise when I grew up from the beginning, so I didn't lose my love. In fact, I envy Xu Yan's lost love.
Selfishly speaking, I don't want them to break up. I think Xu Yan and Shen Zichang are like a couple in our life, noisy, but tolerant and accommodating. Isn't that what life is like? They are so real that they really make me feel that these are my friends, but their names are not Xu Yan or Shen Zichang. They can say goodbye in such a decent way because Shen Zichang realized that he only likes love, but he is far from love. It is also because Xu Yan saw the difference between himself and Shen Zichang. Both "children" have grown. Then I hope that in that parallel world, both Xu Yan and Shen Zichang can live their favorite lives.