The ancients advised others not to ask about other people’s family affairs, right? That is to say, there are many sayings. One often heard saying is that the state has national laws, and families have family rules, right? This sentence means that the state has its own laws. Well, families also have family rules, which are to prevent outsiders from interrogating you. There is also a saying that every family has its own sutras that are difficult to recite. This sentence also illustrates from the side that every family has some things in every family that outsiders cannot understand. Then there is another very common saying, it is difficult for an upright official to deal with household affairs, right, Lian Qing He can't even stop doing household chores, let alone an outsider.