Carnegie’s classic quote

1. Most fatigue phenomena originate from mental or emotional states.

2. Where your interests lie, that is where your abilities lie.

3. Being nice to others is not a responsibility, it is a kind of enjoyment because it can improve your health and happiness. When you are good to others, you are also good to yourself.

4. If you want to gain enemies, be better than your friends. If you want to gain more friends, let your friends be better than you.

5. Fear is mostly caused by ignorance and uncertainty.

6. What you think you are is not who you really are. Instead, what you think will determine who you become.

7. It is human nature to forget to be grateful. If we always expect others to be grateful, we are probably asking for trouble. We complain every day that others don’t repay our kindness. Who should we blame? This is human nature. They long to be loved, but the only way to truly get love in this world is not to ask for it, but to give without asking for anything in return. The joy of giving without expecting anything in return is the greatest joy they can receive. The only way to find happiness is not to expect others to be grateful, but to give is to enjoy the joy of giving.

8. If you are criticized by others, it is because criticizing you can give them a sense of satisfaction. It also shows that you are accomplished and noticeable. Small people are often proud of the shortcomings or mistakes of great people. Unreasonable criticism is often a disguised compliment.

9. People have the habit of judging good or bad based on the first impression. When they think a person is good, they will love the whole house. When they think a person is bad, they will completely deny it.

10. The most important thing is not whether others love us, but whether we are worthy of being loved.

11. The more complacent people are, the more they like to hide it; the more painful things are, the more they like to make a fuss about it.

12. Many of the troubles in life stem from our blind comparison with others and forgetting to enjoy our own life.

13. When you have nothing more to lose, that’s when you start to gain.

14. To succeed, the necessary conditions are to use your desire to enhance your enthusiasm, use your perseverance to smooth the mountains, and at the same time believe that you will succeed.

15. Important signs of mature personality: tolerance, tolerance, and kindness.

16. Treat others how you want others to treat you.

17. Compliments to others are just tactful expressions of praise for oneself.

18. There is a kind of person who only does two things: if you succeed, he will be jealous of you; if you fail, he will laugh at you.

19. One of human nature is that they will not accept criticism from others. They always think that they are always right and like to find various excuses to defend themselves.

20. If you are unhappy, then the only way to become happy is to sit upright happily and talk and act like you are happy. ---It is impossible to remain mentally depressed if your actions radiate happiness. This little basic truth can do wonders in our lives.

21. We can avoid everyone, but we cannot avoid a fly. It's often the little things in life that make us unhappy.

22. Gaining something is low-level happiness, while seeking something is high-level happiness.

23. People who only talk about themselves will always consider problems from their own standpoint.

24. Managing your own strengths can increase the value of your life; managing your shortcomings can devalue your life.

25. People fail not because they have no faith, but because they cannot turn faith into action and persist to the end.