1. What are the poems that express the hope that one’s son will become a dragon?

1. "Encouragement to Learn"

Tang Dynasty: Yan Zhenqing

The lights are on at three o'clock It's time to watch the chicken, when the man is studying.

Black-haired people don’t know how to study diligently early, and white-haired people regret studying late.

Interpretation:

The best time for boys to study is from midnight to the time when the rooster crows.

When I was young, I only knew how to play and didn’t know how to study hard. When I get older, I regret why I didn’t know how to study hard when I was young.

2. "Poems to Encourage Learning/Occasionally"

Song Dynasty: Zhu Xi

It is easy for a young man to learn, but it is difficult for an old man to succeed, so one inch of time should not be taken lightly.

Before I realized the dream of spring grass in the pond, the phoenix leaves in front of the steps already sounded the sound of autumn.

Definition:

It is very easy to pass away the days of youth, but it is difficult to achieve success in learning, so you must cherish every inch of time and not let it go easily.

Before I woke up from the dream of spring grass growing in the pond, the leaves of the sycamore tree in front of the steps were already rustling in the autumn wind.

3. "Encouragement to Learn"

Tang Dynasty: Meng Jiao

When a stone is struck, there is fire; if it is not struck, there is no smoke.

People only know when they learn, but it is unnatural if they do not learn.

Everything has its own destiny, and it is not me who is the best.

Youth must be born early, how can one grow into a young man?

Definition:

Only when the stone is hit, there will be sparks; if not hit, not even a little smoke will come out.

The same is true for people. Only through learning can we master knowledge; if we don’t learn, knowledge will not fall from the sky.

Everything must be practiced by yourself. The knowledge gained by others cannot replace your own talents.

You should work hard as early as possible during your youth. Can a person remain a "youngster" forever?

4. "Revelation to Ziyu on a Winter Night"

Song Dynasty: Lu You

The ancients left no stone unturned in their knowledge, and their skills were only accomplished when they were young and old.

I only know that this matter needs to be carried out in detail.

Interpretation:

The ancients spared no effort in learning, and often did not achieve success until old age.

The knowledge obtained from books is not perfect after all. If you want to deeply understand the truth, you must practice it yourself.

5. "Poem to Encourage Learning"

Song Dynasty: Zhao Heng

A rich family does not need to buy fertile land, there are thousands of millet in the book.

There is no need to build a high hall to live peacefully, there is a golden house in the book.

Don’t regret not being accompanied by anyone when you go out. There are so many carriages and horses in the book.

Don’t hate an unscrupulous matchmaker when marrying a wife, there is beauty in the book.

If a man follows his life's ambition, he should read the Six Classics diligently in front of the window.

Definition:

Wealthy families do not need to buy good land, but they have thousands of millets in their books.

There is no need to build a tall house, but there is a golden house inside.

No one hates going out, books and horses are more like clusters. Wives don’t hate bad matchmakers.

If a person wants to live and work in peace and contentment, he needs to study hard. 2. What are the poems that hope that your son will become a dragon?

The Wandering Son's Song

Tang Dynasty: Meng Jiao

The thread in the hands of a loving mother, the clothes on the body of a wandering boy.

Before leaving, I am afraid of returning late.

Whoever speaks an inch of grass will be rewarded with three rays of spring.

Nine Poems on the Waves on the Sand

Tang Dynasty: Liu Yuxi

The Yellow River has thousands of miles of sand, and the waves and winds blow it from the end of the world.

Now we go straight up the Milky Way to the home of the Morning Glory and the Weaver Girl.

The spring sun is slanting beside the Luoshui Bridge, and the green sand can be seen lightly in the blue stream.

A strong wind gusts on the road for no reason, startling the mandarin ducks to fly out of the waves.

The Bianshui River flows eastward with the eyes of a tiger, and the clear Huaihe River is full of color at dawn.

Look at the place where the ferry is washing sand, how many people are crossing the world.

The waves are blowing in the sand at the head of Parrot Island, and the sun is setting in spring at the brothel.

Swallows holding mud in their mouths fight to return to their homes, and a mad man alone does not remember his home.

There are flowers on both sides of the Zhuojin River, and the spring breeze is blowing the waves washing the sand.

The girl cuts off the mandarin duck brocade, and the sunset will flow into the middle.

The fog opens on the Chengzhou River in Rizhao, and the gold-mining girls are all over the river.

The beauties’ jewelry and royal seals all come from the bottom of the waves in the sand.

In August, the waves roared to the ground, and their heads were several feet high, touching the mountains.

After a while, he entered the sea gate, rolling up piles of sand like snowdrifts.

Don’t say that slanderous words are as deep as the waves, and don’t say that moving away is like the sinking sand.

Although it is hard work to search for thousands of pounds, you will only get gold after blowing all the sand.

The flowing water washes out the sand without pausing, and the previous wave is not extinguished and the next wave arises.

It makes people suddenly recall Xiaoxiangzhu, and sing back and forth to welcome the gods.

Even though you have endured countless blows, you are still strong, regardless of the winds from east to west, north and south.

"Bamboo and Stone"

Qing Dynasty Zheng Xie

He insisted on not letting go of the green mountains, and his roots were in the broken rocks.

Even though you have endured countless blows, you are still strong, regardless of the winds from east to west, north and south.

Beiguo Xiansi

Tang Dynasty: Cao Ye

There is green grass in front of the mountain and behind the mountain, and the door is kept closed even if you go out all day long.

Every time I think about my flesh and blood, I come to see the wild man pity his descendants.

Shi'er

Song Dynasty: Lu You

After death, I know that everything is in vain, but I am not as sad as Jiuzhou.

Wang Shibei fixed the day of the Central Plains, and he did not forget to tell Nai Weng about the family sacrifices. 3. Ancient poems that hope for a successful son

1. "Tell your children how to make sure your grandson is the best"

Chen Chun

Your husband should aspire to be wise, and do not follow the humble worldly sentiments.

From the previous flat road, one can pass through the Sanctuary of Thousands of Saints.

Vernacular interpretation:

A man should advocate outstanding ambitions and not imitate humble worldly emotions. From then on, I embarked on a smooth road, a road traveled by thousands of sages.

2. "The lucky birthday of the eldest son is indicated by forty crosses"

Written by Chen

My year is fifty-five, and you were born in the ninth year.

Although I knew I had a son late, I still planned to pass it on to the family.

Self-establishment must be dignified, with no impetuous or biased intentions.

Everyone can go up, but he will never return to heaven.

Vernacular interpretation:

I am fifty-five this year and you are just nine years old. Although I had a child late, I still have some words to pass on to you. I hope you will be serious about yourself and not be impetuous or extreme. People must always maintain an upward attitude, otherwise they will not be able to see God when they pass away.

3. "Encouragement to Learn"

Meng Jiao

When a stone is struck, there is fire; if it is not struck, there is no smoke.

People only know when they learn, but it is unnatural if they do not learn.

Everything has its own destiny, and it is not me who is the best.

Youth must be born early, how can one grow into a young man?

Vernacular interpretation:

Only when the stone is hit, there will be sparks; if not hit, not even a little smoke will come out. The same is true for people. Only through learning can we master knowledge; if we don't learn, knowledge will not fall from the sky.

Everything must be practiced by yourself. The knowledge gained by others cannot replace your own talents. You should work hard as early as possible during your youth. Can a person remain a "youngster" forever?

4. "Occasionally"

Zhu Xi

It is easier for a young person to learn than for an old person to succeed, so one inch of time cannot be taken lightly.

Before I realized the dream of spring grass in the pond, the phoenix leaves in front of the steps already sounded the sound of autumn.

Vernacular interpretation:

It is very easy to pass away the days of youth, but it is difficult to achieve success in learning, so you must cherish every inch of time and not let it go easily.

Before I woke up from the dream of spring grass growing in the pond, the leaves of the sycamore tree in front of the steps were already rustling in the autumn wind.

5. "Revelation to Ziyu on Reading on a Winter Night"

Lu You

The ancients spared no effort in learning, and only when they were young and old did they achieve success.

I only know that this matter needs to be carried out in detail.

Vernacular interpretation:

The ancients spared no effort in learning, and often did not achieve success until old age. After all, the knowledge gained from books is not perfect. If you want to deeply understand the truth, you must practice it yourself. 4. What are some famous sayings that parents express their hope that their sons will succeed and their daughters will succeed?

1 During the meal, my son asked me about some things about our work unit. Suddenly he said to me: "Mom, I think you are smart, capable, and love to learn. You should have better development."

I asked him with a smile, how to develop? He said, be a leader! Go compete for deputy director! I was completely surprised, not knowing that he still had such a thing in his heart. He is still young, so of course he doesn't know that in the adult world, unlike students, you can get a good ranking if you study well.

You don’t have to be good at work, you can become a leader by being smart and capable. I had to smile and say to him: "It's not like you think, you can't reach the sky in one step. Besides, do you think I'm not good now?" He said, it's good now, but wouldn't it be better if I could be better? "Well, we can't get to the top in one fell swoop. You can spend three years trying to become a deputy director!" His expression was quite sincere and determined.

It was like a decision was made and a blueprint was drawn for me. For a moment, I was speechless.

Actually, what he said was somewhat familiar. Didn’t I say it to him more than once? Give you as much time as you need to improve your score to the top! It would be great if your grades were better! If only you were more sensible! If only you were more outstanding! I always thought that as a mother, I was the only one who had expectations for him all the time, and hated iron for not being able to become steel. But I never thought that my child also had high expectations for me.

2 This reminds me of another thing.

About last year, a very good literary friend of mine published a book and sent me a copy.

Because I have a very good relationship with this literary friend and often mention it at home, my son is no stranger to it. That day, my son and I went to pick up the courier and got the book. Looking at the beautiful cover, my son said to me with envy: "Mom, why don't you publish a book?" I said, my ambition is not to publish a book. In the book, I can do whatever others are not allowed to do! I have my own plans.

He said to me again: "It would be great if you published a book, so that I can show off in front of my classmates and let them see how awesome my mother is. !” At that time, I also criticized him, saying that children should not be too vain and should find ways to improve themselves, instead of thinking about using their parents’ achievements to increase their own worth. Now, thinking about it, in his little heart, publishing a book is a very powerful thing, and he feels that his mother, who can write, should publish a book if she works hard enough.

It turns out that he is also looking forward to his mother becoming a phoenix! 3 It was probably more than ten years ago. At that time, I was a writer in a Sina forum. Another writer who was also a forum writer wrote an article. I can’t remember the title clearly. The general idea is that every mother should work hard to improve herself and become excellent, so that her children can be proud of their mother in front of others.

My child was still very young at the time. Although I did not object to her statement, I was secretly thinking that as women, we improve ourselves solely to make ourselves more attractive. What does this have to do with our children? ? Aren’t children supposed to love their parents unconditionally no matter how miserable their parents are? Isn’t the old saying told a long time ago? "A dog doesn't think the family is poor, and a son doesn't think the mother is ugly!" It wasn't until my children grew up that I gradually understood that every improvement we make is not just for ourselves. Also for parents, for lovers, and of course, for children.

Every parent hopes that in the eyes of their children, they are a perfect person, an omnipotent person, their pride, their dependence, their mountain, and tolerance. Their sea. However, we calm down and ask ourselves, how many people have done it? 4 A friend once told me such a thing.

A teenage boy is not studying very well, which makes his parents very anxious, especially his mother. In addition to criticizing the education, she also nags him endlessly every day. What the mother often said is this: Why don't you know how to study hard? Look at the children of our neighbor Lao Lin’s family. They rank first in every exam! Look, your classmate Xiaofei has been outstanding since childhood.

Let’s talk about the child of a colleague in our workplace. He gets an award every year and goes home. When the holidays come, my colleague will post his award certificate in WeChat Moments. At work, I talk about how good my child is every day and how much he loves to learn.

Look at you again. You are not good at studying. You have never received a certificate. When you mention your achievements in front of others, I can’t hold my head up! Can't you try your best and make your mother proud in front of others like others? My mother said it so sincerely. As a parent, I hate that iron cannot become steel, but I hope that my son will become a dragon and my daughter will become a phoenix.

I understand this feeling very well. But guess what the son said? The adolescent child was annoyed by his mother's scolding and asked his mother loudly: Why do you only talk about me, why don't you look at yourself? Among my classmates, some have mothers who are university teachers, some have mothers who are engineers, and some whose mothers are general managers. They are all so good! And you? Aren't you just an ordinary employee? Why don't you work hard and try your best? I think the position of director of your hospital is very good.

If you have what it takes, try your best to be a dean and show me! The child's quarrel clearly made the mother very angry, but she was speechless! Of course, I have always opposed any disrespectful behavior by children towards their parents. However, the child is right! It is the wish of every parent to hope that their son will become a dragon and their daughter will become a phoenix.

We expect our children to be obedient, polite, confident, have good grades, be admitted to prestigious universities, and find good jobs. If you ask from your heart, how many of us are asking our children for this and that all day long, not under the guise of education?

I hate comparing them with other people’s children even more. I hope they are better than others, I hope they will become the pride of their parents, and I hope that wherever we go, when we talk about our children, we can attract Praise from others. 5 However, have we ever thought that in the hearts of children, just like their parents compare their children, they are also secretly comparing themselves to their parents.

They also hope that their parents are beautiful and capable, and they also hope that their parents are their pride. I also hope that other students will be envious of him when they see his parents.

I once read a survey online: Are you the parent your children expect? The results show that there is.