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What behaviors do boys least appreciate from girls?
I saw a topic on Zhihu the other day: "What behaviors do boys least appreciate from girls?" .

After opening it, I saw this well-received answer:

Don't put off till tomorrow what you can do today.

If you don't like reading and studying, you love gossip and drama.

People don't listen, it's all bullshit.

His views are informative and full of famous sayings and golden sentences.

The three views are mainly based on brushing chicken soup, and it seems that they are eating hard after reading it.

I just lay there watching Korean dramas before I finished bleeding.

I know that I am as fat as a tiger, but I don't exercise or exercise.

Refuse to pay for growth, parents and boyfriends come to help.

I have no face and no connotation, but I think others are stupid.

Beauty is all about green tea, but simplicity is all about acting.

Obviously not a princess, but she has princess disease.

On weekdays, there are three treasures at home, games and dramas, and variety shows.

I love fresh meat and ouba best, and my heart is as sweet as honey.

I don't earn much and my life skills are not good.

Be tolerant of yourself and critical of others.

My dream is to marry Gao Fushuai, rich, beautiful and interesting.

It's delicious at night, but lazy to cook all year round.

Write so much for the time being, please don't spray me too hard.

Some words may be a little extreme, but when you think about it, most of them can still cause * * *.

For these characteristics, most of us girls may not like them, let alone boys.

To sum up, it is "pseudo-feminism", "self-righteousness", "lack of connotation and quality" and "all talk and no action".

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Pseudofeminism

Such girls flaunt themselves as feminists, but in fact they are just under the banner of feminism.

While they talk about their independence, they also say that they are vulnerable groups and strive for more benefits for themselves.

Speaking of making money, it is natural for boys to earn more than girls, and it is also natural for boys to buy a house and a car, as long as they are beautiful.

When it comes to spending money, the most beautiful love story is to buy it for yourself in buy buy.

Speaking of doing things, I think boys have great strength and have to do everything.

When it comes to receiving rewards, I feel that girls are inherently weak and they should get more benefits.

In short, men and women are considered equal in terms of rights; When it comes to obligations, they think that girls are a vulnerable group and should be borne by boys.

stuffy

Such a girl is not good at herself, but she is not pleasing to the eye and requires high standards from everyone.

For example, my height 155, average face value, graduated from junior high school.

However, the future boyfriend is required to have a car, a house and money, a bachelor degree or above, a height of 180 or above, a good appearance and not too old.

I am often unkempt, but I look down on those girls who make up.

I feel that I should be a princess when I know that my capital is not so good.

Without connotation and quality.

They may not have any serious problems, or they may not have three incorrect views, but they can't be appreciated and liked when they pose.

For example, use dirty words to talk, take chicken soup as the motto of life, and only gossip, stars and TV plays when chatting.

Chatting in the library, smoking a cigarette in a public place, leaning against the handrail when taking the subway.

In real life, most boys appreciate girls with connotation and quality.

You don't need to be like a lady, but you still need basic standards of behavior, otherwise it's really low.

In short, don't trust "my savage girlfriend" and "Shanghai sweetheart". After all, it is a film and television drama that will only appear on the screen.

only talk and not to act

There are two kinds of "all talk and no action" girls:

One is that if something goes wrong, it will only blame others, rather than looking for a solution.

For example, if you don't get a raise or promotion at work, complain that those who get a raise or promotion are using the back door.

See who has basked in luxury goods or other valuable things, and dislike that her boyfriend is not rich enough and her family is not rich enough.

The other is to sing high-profile songs for yourself instead of acting.

For example, in the circle of friends, I often shout to lose weight. As a result, after three years, my weight has only increased.

If you want to set up a banner for yourself, you must study hard and work hard. As a result, in less than an hour, you were lying on the bed watching Korean dramas.

For these two kinds of girls, in the eyes of boys, it is not impossible to "say".

But you can't always complain like a little cynic, hanging the flag on your lips every day but always hitting your face.

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In addition to the above situation, there will be some girls who will enter some extreme misunderstandings without paying attention.

For example, people teach you to love yourself, but don't say that you only love yourself.

Girls are naturally sensitive and won't let you use this as an excuse to force.

Girls need to spend money on makeup, so you won't spend more than you can afford.

In life, in fact, every girl will have some small shortcomings, which is inevitable and normal.

However, if these small shortcomings continue to deteriorate to the extreme, just like the "short board effect", people may not appreciate you.

Finally, regarding the above "boys don't appreciate girls' behavior the most", don't get angry when you get shot.

"Change what you have and encourage what you have" is an important attitude, and "stop loss in time" is also an effective method.