After Minglan outsmarted several Meidochan in the room, he found that Minglan really followed the old lady and inherited her wisdom. Later, I gave advice to help Shulan and Li, only to find that I was braver than the old lady and calm and brave in the face of right and wrong.
Shulan was bullied by her husband's family, and the whole family was overwhelmed. Ming Lan ignored grandma's objection and stepped forward and said, "Since you are in a poor lane, you should turn around in time and commit suicide. It's too late to regret it. " This is also Ming Lan's attitude towards people and things.
Ming Lan understands that the nature of Sun Xiucai and Lan Shu's mother-in-law cannot be changed. Lan Shu can only get rid of that family, otherwise he can't live a comfortable life for the rest of his life. This is her attitude towards marriage.
And Xiao, two of a kind, but Xiao's family background is too high, and he is the only child in the family, and he has a cold mother, so he knows that they are not a very suitable couple. It's just that Xiaoye Gong is too infatuated. In order to fight against Ming Lan and his mother, he can eat or drink, so Ming Lan is willing to take the risk of getting married. In the end, it was the little grandfather who couldn't get rid of the responsibility of the family and made her angry.
Ming Lan was very sad, so she had to close the door and cry at her grandmother. Go on living after crying. When Uncle Gu showed her the little man's doll, she decisively took out her own and gave it back to the little man. It was over.
Ming Lan is lovelorn. She didn't cry or complain. She knew that since she was sure they couldn't be together, she should cut the gordian knot. This is her attitude towards love.
Life is to live well. Stop when you know you are wrong, and don't waste time on this matter.
Whether it is love or marriage, who can guarantee that you won't meet a few scum? Maybe he is like Sun Xiucai, eating like a fool, really eating like a fool, not taking responsibility, just trying to get drunk and domestic violence ... If you are like Lan Shu, you only know how to give in and make up, and you want to get back his conscience, I'm afraid you will only get aggravated by the other side. The only way is to stop loss quickly.
The same is true in the workplace.
A friend, who has been a full-time mother for three years, joined a company in September after her children went to school. At the interview, the boss was right. Children can ask for leave when they have a parent-teacher meeting or have other things. Just tell the leader.
My friend is very happy to hear that this job is close to home and does not delay picking up the children. Besides, the boss is very nice, and the most important thing is to make money.
The company stipulates that last month's salary will not be paid until the end of the month. My friend hasn't been paid after working for two months. Have you ever asked your former colleagues for a salary? Colleagues say it will be held every month, which means it will be a few days late this month. Although my colleagues were a little puzzled, they believed me. Half a month later, they still didn't pay their wages and began to ask for accounts from their families. My friend felt that something was wrong and asked again. Colleagues said that they would not open for two months.
It's almost March when I came to the company. If the contract signed by the company is less than March, give me 50% monthly salary. My friend thinks it's unfair for me to leave my job. The Chinese New Year is only two months away, so I say get through it.
This delay, I didn't expect the Chinese New Year is really coming, and I still didn't get my salary. It turned out that my colleagues just told the truth. They didn't pay for a year, and the company owed a lot of money outside.
At this time, my friend really regretted it. He felt something was wrong. Why didn't he quit? Compared with her original fears, the loss now is the biggest: first, the loss of money. A few months later, I didn't get paid. If I leave, I will find another job, at least I can make money in the next two months. The second is: mental loss, not paying wages, definitely upset, but also bring this emotion to family. Once a friend reprimanded the child for being in a bad mood and had a quarrel with her husband. These are all extra mental losses. Even if you can get your salary back, you have to make some efforts in the middle, and the mental loss to yourself and your family is irreparable.
Many times, we always see only a little immediate benefit, but we don't understand the extra mental damage caused by things, which is often more tormenting.
Therefore, once you enter the poor lane, you must turn around in time and stop loss in time.