Some people say: The fundamental need in everyone’s heart is the desire to be seen. When you can be seen, your true self will be illuminated, and you will naturally live a better life. Good yourself.

We are so eager to be seen, perhaps because for this world, we are just passers-by. And human life is just a passing by.

Just like Leslie Cheung sang in "Passing Dragonfly": "Let me just be a passing dragonfly, leaving a process that can be missed, and wasting my cheap life."

There is also a movie with a particularly interesting title called "Passing Through Your World". The most impressive thing in it is the love story performed by Yue Yunpeng and Liu Yan.

The pig head played by Yue Yunpeng fell in love with the swallow played by Liu Yan, and they fell in love for 8 years. When Yanzi was abandoned by the whole world, he and his children stayed by Yanzi's side. In order to earn money to marry Yanzi, Zhutou did any hard work. Eight years later, Zhutou waited for Yanzi who had returned from abroad, and at the same time, he also waited for Yanzi to break up at the engagement party.

The pig head is still the pig head, and the swallow is no longer the swallow. The hardships she experienced abroad and the world she saw were something that a pig head could not see, let alone enter.

Later, the pig head disappeared, on the night when the swallow left. Everyone saw Pig Tou in the news reports. He was pushing a snack cart, making things that Yan Zi liked to eat, and re-walked every place she had walked, even if the war was raging.

What Zhutou did was to allow himself to truly see the world of Yanzi; passing by your world, he understood your feelings and choices.

The so-called "love" is actually seeing! It is not an understatement: "I understand you." But I let go of myself, walked to your place, saw your world, experienced your feelings, and understood your joy, sadness, pain and desire.

As we go through life, we keep passing by, occasionally seeing or being seen. Love only leaves some fleeting moments.

Pu Shu sang in his "Journey": "We pass by happiness, we pass by pain, we pass by a woman's warmth and tears, we pass by the endless cold and loneliness in life." Life is left to us. The final gift is loneliness.

The writer Qingshan has a passage that has healed many people:

“Maybe it doesn’t matter whether the other person loves you more, or whether you love the other person more. It doesn't matter whether you spend the rest of your life in love or get married. What's important is that you have met one or several people. Because of each other's existence, they reflect each other, penetrate and influence each other, and bring joy, experience, and energy. and growth, which is important for the integrity of our lives.”

This is the meaning of seeing.