"I didn't kill Boren, but Boren died because of me" is a proverb, which means that I didn't intend to kill Boren, but I hated him very much. As a result, Boren was killed because of my resentment, and Boren's death was inseparable from myself.

this proverb comes from the book of Jin? Biography of 39 ","Boren "refers to Zhou E (yǐ)," I "refers to Wang Dao.

During the Eastern Jin Dynasty, the Wang family was a famous family, and Wang Dun was the secretariat of Jingzhou. He thought he was great, and he was both civil and military, and no one could beat him. Therefore, he was arrogant and didn't even pay attention to the court. At the same time, his grievances accumulated for a long time. At that time, Emperor Jin favored Liu Kui, and Wang Dun rebelled in Wuchang in the name of the Qing Dynasty, leading 2, chosen men to Nanjing, threatening to kill treacherous court official Liu. This is the Wang Dun Rebellion in history.

Wang Dao, Wang Dun's younger brother, was afraid of being implicated after hearing the news that his brother had risen to revolt, so he led clan members to kneel outside the palace gate all day to show his loyalty to Emperor Jin and Yuan, and at the same time disowned Wang Dun.

One day, Zhou E and Zhou Boren wanted to meet Emperor Jin Yuan. Wang Dao begged his friend Boren to put in a good word for himself. Boren ignored him on the surface, but Boren was kind-hearted and tried his best to excuse Wang Dao after he entered the palace. Zhou Boren was drunk in the palace. When he came out, he joked with Wang Dun, "Cut off your head later and wear a gold seal."

Wang Dao was very angry when he heard this. He thought Boren was hurting him instead of helping him.

Wang Dun did have the strength, and led 2, troops to beat Liu Kui out of the water. When Emperor Jin learned of it, he was very scared, so he had to use a high official and generous salary to woo Wang Dun. Wang Dun immediately took power in the ruling and opposition, so he began to retaliate against people who disagreed with him on weekdays.

Regarding the handling of Zhou Boren, Wang Dun asked Wang Dao that Boren seems to be with you, should he be promoted?

Wang Dao was silent.

Wang Dun saw Wang Dao behave like this. Oh, I see. If you two don't deal with it, you should kill him.

Wang Dao remained silent.

Wang Dun understood. As a result, Boren's head soon fell to the ground.

Later, Wang Dao found Boren's letter to the emperor pleading for him, and regretted it, but it was too late. I can only lament:

"I didn't kill Boren, but Boren died because of me!"

After listening to the story of Boren and Wang Dao, we can't help sighing that we can't be too Boren or too Wang Dao.

Boren is a great man, ready to help others, and at the same time, he is also a very stubborn person. It is this shortcoming that ruined his life. Boren has his own nature, doing good deeds without leaving a name, being very low-key and unwilling to make public, and he did not plead with Wang Dao when he died.

In Boren's view, friendship is far greater than life, and it is more appropriate to describe him as "giving up one's life for righteousness". However, Boren can't express his feelings well, giving people a sense of dignity that conflicts everywhere, which makes people unable to have a good impression on him. At the same time, he is addicted to alcohol and drinks too much, so he likes to talk nonsense. No wonder Wang Dao hates him.

It was Wang Dao's silence that made Wang Dun think Boren deserved to die. If Wang Dao had spoken his true thoughts at this moment, Boren would not have died miserably.

Wang Dao and Boren have always had a good relationship, which can be considered as a pair of good friends. Once, they drank a little wine, and Wang Dao put his head on Zhou Boren's lap with the strength of the wine, touching Boren's belly and asking Boren, what's in such a fat belly?

Zhou Boren smiled: There's nothing in it, but people like you can hold hundreds of them so-so.

is this an idiom? Empty? The source.

In life, we should express our emotions reasonably and learn to deal with interpersonal relationships. As long as we are careful, the relationship between Boren and Wang Dao will not be so bad.