don't say anything before it's cooked. Some boys have only dated people a few times, and then they propose to establish a further relationship. Nine times out of ten, this will spoil the soup. The beauty of love is that everything is unspoken. Make it clear, make it clear, but it is not beautiful. Originally, people were willing to come out to talk to you alone, which shows that girls have a good impression on you. But sometimes this kind of affection can't even be told by themselves, but you are eager to point it out and destroy this hazy beauty, so don't blame others for staying away from it. Look around at the love that died before it started, many of which were caused by the boy's failure to master the temperature.
put your fist away for a better attack. What should I do if the girl refuses? Some people say that we should pursue hard and persevere. Actually, it is not. Unless you are a person who doesn't care about anything, it is hard for you to bear the girl's dirty eyes and the mocking eyes of your peers. It's better to stop and retreat for a while. This not only protects your dignity, but also leaves a way out, thus creating opportunities for future counterattacks. Let her wander in the crowd. When she hits the wall, go to her again, and she will realize that you are the one who loves her the most. Even if you really can't give up, you should pay attention to the ways and means to find her. Don't let her find you annoying. And this is often difficult to do. Don't be too explicit Learn to care about her quietly and treat her with your honesty and kindness. Only in this way can you attract her attention among a large group of boys screaming around her. Remember, only special you will attract her special attention.
strategically despise ... and tactically attach importance to ... Sometimes the girl you like will have some contact with you, such as talking, chatting, working together and so on. You'd better look at these things with a normal attitude, and don't be burdened and suffer from loss. For example, don't pay too much attention to what she inadvertently said. Some boys are easy to be romantic, which is the reason. However, we should pay enough attention to every such opportunity. For example, we should pay attention to the discretion in the first conversation, and it is best not to involve the scope of love. Let's talk about childhood. If you go straight to the point, it will be bad! Girls have to be as wary of you as wolves.
You can only coax a girl after she becomes your girlfriend. It is a sign that you have not mastered the temperature before you catch up with her.
Don't be male chauvinist, almost no girl will have a good impression on boys who don't respect women, remember! Remember!
Almost every girl has one or two closest girlfriends. When all else is blocked, they are your road to success. You can know whether girls are interested in you or not through them, and you can also convey your meaning through them. This is much better than what you said directly. Don't ignore this new force. I have seen the boy succeed in this way more than once.
finally, I want to remind you that there is never a fixed formula for love. The way others succeed may be your failure; The way others fail may be just your wonderful thing. I'm only going to mention something of principle here, and I must not copy it mechanically.
I'll give you three brilliant ideas!
The first plan: Perseverance
Men rarely succeed in chasing girls, especially when there is a big gap between two people in all aspects and men are at a disadvantage. If men want to get girls' love, they can only use this plan. Jianghu says: thick-skinned, eat enough; Thin-skinned, unable to eat. If you give up as soon as a girl refuses, then there is no chance.
at this time, men should display this plan. They are not afraid of shame, humiliation, tiredness, spending money and wasting time. Men know that men are afraid of pestering women and grinding. As long as they persevere and never give up, victory must belong to them. This is also the fundamental reason why a hero has no good wife and Lai Han occupies a flower branch.
second plan: playing hard to get
such a man is very cunning. He is obviously drooling over girls, but he always keeps a certain distance from them. Men play hard to get, despise girls strategically and attach importance to girls tactically. He knew that the girl, the prey, the tighter she chased, the faster she might run. On the surface, he pretends not to care about girls, and his attitude is lukewarm, neither salty nor light, just to let girls relax their vigilance against him, so that it is easier to observe girls' weaknesses and not expose their own shortcomings.
He never talks about feelings in front of girls, but he always shows himself very good at the right opportunity. The purpose of his doing this is to let girls know that he is not in the same class as those flies. As long as the opportunity is ripe, get the girl in one fell swoop.
the third plan: simmer slowly
as the old saying goes, you can't eat hot tofu if you are impatient, but your feelings are cultivated. Men have a thorough understanding of these two ancient famous sayings of China. Chasing girls is like cooking. It is definitely impossible to stir-fry with violent fire, and it is necessary to stir-fry them slowly with slow fire, so as to enjoy the joy of cooking.
Their specific approach is to find opportunities to get close to girls, and first put them in their own prepared pots in the name of friends. The seasoning is to often invite girls to dinner, outings, movies, parties, and so on. As long as the girls don't refuse, they will slowly fry them, and one day they will stew the raw beef of girls and it will become his appetizer.
I wish you success! ! ! ! ! !