It's really stinging
I often say "get married and have children early" to young colleagues around me. The atmosphere at the scene is always enlivened by this sentence. There are jokes and personal experiences. Many of my classmates got married early, most of the children have gone to college, and some even have grandchildren.
A classmate who hasn't contacted for a long time recently added WeChat and learned that my child is only a freshman, saying that I "delayed a generation".
More and more, I feel that many things in life need to be seized as soon as possible.
A few months ago, my mother told me that she really wanted to find a cousin. They haven't seen each other for over forty years. My mother still remembers that the last time I saw that cousin was at my house. She said in a regretful tone, "Hey, she left without even eating."
My mother is 76 years old, and my cousin should be over 70. I only know that she lives in Xi 'an and vaguely know that she once worked in a certain unit.
I sent a circle of friends, and privately wrote to Xi 'an related departments in Weibo, asking, "Do you have any relatives in Xi 'an? "In the WeChat group whose owner is Xi 'an. Looking for friends who work in the public security department and the insurance system, and even registered the information of the program "Wait for me" hosted by CCTV Ni Ping ... One build what did not build helped my mother find a cousin.
The days passed day by day.
Today, I entered the unit where my cousin may have worked in Baidu and found a phone number. When I called, it was a lady named Liu who answered the phone. I introduced the background, and she said she didn't know or heard of it, but you can ask the department of retired veteran cadres for me. Call me when you find it, and forget it if you don't find it.
I really don't have much hope. How can a person who hasn't contacted for more than 40 years be found by a phone call?
Who knows that in less than five minutes, my mobile phone rang. It was that Ms. Liu who told me two mobile phone numbers. ...
In the process of talking with my cousin's family, I learned that my cousin was paralyzed in bed after a stroke a few years ago, and she didn't even recognize her own daughter. This is all because of her uncle's concern.
On the day when I helped my mother find my cousin, my heart was really "sad and happy". I am glad to let my mother know the whereabouts of her faithful cousin. Sadly, even if my mother visits her in Xi, she may not recognize my mother.
I once wrote an article "I miss you, so I met you". Meeting may be a kind of regret, but never seeing it again is another kind of regret. Zhang Ailing said, "Be famous before it's too late." I said, "See your relatives before it's too late. Otherwise, if the reunion comes too late, we won't be so happy!
In the process of chatting with my cousin I have never met before, I remembered that when I first joined the work, my grandmother said that she would go to Xi 'an to visit my uncle, the cousin's father. My grandmother hasn't seen this brother for many years. I haven't been to Xi 'an in those years, and I promised my grandmother "I will go to Xi 'an with you" at will. As a result, until the death of the two old people, their brother and sister never met again. Today, I learned that this uncle and grandmother died not far away.
If you want to know someone, get to know him as soon as possible! Whether it is relatives, friends, comrades-in-arms, classmates, or even your enemies. In case we never meet again.
Today, my friend Eleven shared an article written by her in the group, which moved me to pieces.
Her daughter is a freshman now. She said that she was "not a patient mother. She went to primary school for six years and her daughter was detained for five years. I work overtime almost every Sunday. If I'm not busy, I can take half a day off on Sunday. But that half a day, also can't all be used to accompany her daughter ... "
She said:
If I could go back in time, I would listen to her patiently, carefully analyze the reasons for the decline in my grades with her, support her to visit her sick classmates, bend down and pat her wet ass and say, "Nothing, who didn't wet his pants when he was a child?" ! ..... "Be sure to tell her many stories, spend all your time on her, be patient and reasonable in the face of her mistakes. ...
I am willing to wait all my life until she divides the pile of wood with her four-year-old fingers.
It's still early to accompany the children. Otherwise the child will grow up in an instant.
Life is too short. Become famous early, work hard early, get married and have children early, meet each other early, honor your parents early and accompany your children early. ...
One morning at work, I heard the company gardener say a folk proverb. It's cloudy and looks like rain. He was watering the flowers when a young colleague came up to him and said, "The weather forecast says it will rain today, so you don't need to water it!" " The gardener Lao Wu said, "If you plan early, you will be lazy!" I was afraid I would forget, so I quickly wrote it down in my notebook.
The founding leaders have long written that "10,000 years is too long to seize the day".
It's early!
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