1. Generally, we do not defend ourselves, but we can clarify some concepts, some choices, and some rights and wrongs.

2. Don’t let others know everything about the past.

3. Talking too much will lead to mistakes. Talk less when there are many people.

4. When someone speaks ill of someone in front of you, you just smile.

5. A person who only cares about himself when he is young will become a very stingy person and become a hopeless miser when he grows old.

6. If we want to make friends, we must first do something for others—things that require time, energy, thoughtfulness, and dedication.

7. Friends who admonish you in secret must be friends who praise you in public.

8. Never get involved with anyone, including those who are least friendly to you. You deal with your interpersonal disputes, while I'm busy with my business work.

9. Respect people who don’t like you.

10. Every milestone on the road of life is engraved with two words "starting point".

1. When a gentleman is involved in the world, he should not take joy and anger lightly when dealing with people. If joy and anger are light, his heart, liver and gallbladder will be seen by others; Made for things.

2. If you rely on your talent to be cynical, you must be careful about the shadows behind your back; if you use your good looks to deceive others, you may have a mirror in front of you.

3. If the mind and body are clear and clear, and are always in the clear mirror and still water, then there will be no hateful things in the world; if the mind and spirit are peaceful, if they are always in the bright sunshine and wind, then there will be no hateful people in the world. When you are a friend of right and wrong, you must be less accommodating. If you are less accommodating, you will lose the rightness of obedience and disobedience. When you value the gains and losses, you must not be too clear-cut. If you are too clear-cut, you will be selfish in seeking to avoid others.

4. When a fly clings to a tree, a quickie will lead to success, and it is difficult to avoid the shame of being left behind; when a radish clings to a pine tree, it will be high if it is high, and it will be shameful to climb up. Therefore, a gentleman would rather take the wind and frost to hold himself hostage than to be relatives of fish and birds.

5. If the love and ugliness are too clear, things will not be compatible with each other; if the virtue and foolishness are too clear, people will not be close to each other. A gentleman must be shrewd on the inside and honest on the outside, so that the good and the ugly can be balanced, and both the wise and the foolish can benefit from it. This is the natural virtue.