To put it bluntly, if people have no money and status, even if you were born in the city, no one will come to visit. If you have money and status and live in the mountains, you won't feel lonely, but your home is very lively.
Therefore, this old saying reflects the social human feelings, the law of the jungle, and the world. In today's society, the country must be rich and strong, and it must work hard. Only a strong motherland will not be bullied and suppressed. As a member of the country, everyone should care about the feelings of home and country, strive to get rich, and be a person with quality cultivation and a sense of responsibility to society.
This sentence comes from augmented literature, which is an ancient children's enlightenment reading. It focuses on interpersonal relationships, ways of dealing with life, karma and so on. And most of them are to persuade people to be good, not malicious.
How painful it is to realize that the poor live in downtown areas and the rich have distant relatives in the mountains! If you have no money, even if you live in Chang 'an Avenue, you are a beggar, and no one will talk to you!
If you are like Bill Gates, even if you live on Mount Everest, your relatives will look for you all day! This is a man-made accident! When Su Qin failed to lobby, his father ignored him, his wife did needlework, and his sister-in-law didn't cook. When I hung up the seal of the six countries and came back with the scenery, my father took out dozens of miles of land, but my sister-in-law didn't dare to look up on the ground, just saying: My brother is expensive and there is more gold! This is the reaction of such a close relative, and we can look at the other side or the real side of human nature.
There is another sentence below: don't believe me, just look at the wine on the banquet, and respect the rich first. Although they are all vernacular, they can be understood at a glance. But after reading it, it is so real and sad. This is the way of the world, and this is the Jianghu.
If you read the book, you will be suddenly enlightened, and you will look down on the troubles of this world. Thank you, everyone?
The rich have distant relatives in the mountains, and the poor live in the city. No one asks. This sentence has been circulating since ancient times. Very practical, especially realistic, especially in this era. It is composed of several aspects:
First, friendship has been diluted by greed. Many people want to climb the rich and rely on your power. It is normal to look down on the poor.
Second, the word helps the fierce, and the word helps the fierce. From a realistic point of view, it shows itself while winning the red, but from the perspective of morality, justice and kindness, it is immoral, because morality should be the first person.
Third, the rationality of idolization is more prominent. Today's children are influenced by the environment and want to be stars and rich, not scientists. This is an era of arrogance.
Life is less than ten poor and ten rich. Of course, the Coward by Reham should be an exception. Maybe he will be poor all his life. In fact, the road of life is bumpy, and he will wander at the bottom. People who have a keen eye for profit will have a better status quo. It is human nature that people go up and water flows down, but I agree that the wisdom of being a man should be changed from "supporting the red and stepping on the black" to "supporting the red and not stepping on the black". If you want to be such a person, you should remember one sentence: "It is better to be thirsty for a drop of dew than to be drunk with nothing." You should remember the benefits of others and the difficulties of helping others. You will make the mistake of "a bucket of rice makes an enemy", which depends on human interests, because you look down on the poor who need a bowl of rice to help. In fact, IQ is very important for survival, and EQ is more important than IQ. If you can unify everyone's emotions organically with high EQ, then you must be a person who has achieved great things.
In the wisdom of life, cherishing virtue and kindness is the first character. Helping some people in trouble and being polite and virtuous is a very high accomplishment, and it is also to help others when they are in trouble in the future. Therefore, the material is lighter and the family is heavier. You value me more, so, "You can win the red, but you can't step on the black!"
It is a social phenomenon that there are distant relatives in the mountains, which has been passed down for thousands of years since ancient times. As for the literal meaning, it is easy to understand that even if a poor man is in a busy city, not many relatives and friends are willing to associate with you, and even if a rich man is in a remote mountain with inconvenient transportation, many people will be willing to visit him, hoping to get some benefits and help. Communication between people can be roughly divided into feelings and interests. Based on affection, friendship, love and other emotional exchanges, sincerity is a beautiful interpersonal relationship of human beings. Interest-based communication is a naked mutual utilization relationship, and relationships are often profitable. Without interests, we will go our separate ways. Although it is a cliche, it shows that people have seen through human nature and understood the law of human existence.
I am a layman, and I am humble. I hope it's not surprising to be an official again. In my opinion, people are selfish, but to varying degrees. In fact, the richer you are, the more important you are, and the more selfish you are. However, it is generally believed that people can get some benefits by associating with people who are better than themselves, so most people flock to the rich people's homes to associate with them and even curry favor with them. Generally, people who mix well have their own personality and bottom line. In order to avoid being disturbed by some useless people, they moved out of the downtown area and lived the life they wanted. However, there are also some people who, in order to cling to wealth, are not afraid of the long and bumpy road and go to others. And some particularly poor people, in order to get along with others, are often willing to live in the crowd, but people around them are afraid that the poor will be stained with his light, but stay away from him. It is precisely because of the cold world that the phrase "no one asks you if you are poor in downtown, but you have money and distant relatives in the mountains" came into being. What do you think, old irons?
This sentence is human nature after all, and it is the natural survival law of human beings after all.
It is the evil side of human nature to seek advantages and avoid disadvantages, and to dislike the poor and love the rich, which has always been despised by people. Strange to say, do you love rich people too much? The phenomenon has been burning incense, and the world is happy to see it. In the morning, I still scold someone for looking down on the poor and running to the rich's house, but at night I have to neglect the poor around me and visit the rich with gifts.
The poor are unpopular because he is poor, he is weak, he has no available resources, and he needs help. He can only take, not give. Only caring people in the world will help them. Many people have nothing to spare and have no time to take care of the poorer people. So the poor people's houses have been very cold, and even if they live in busy streets, few people care about them.
The reason why the rich man is chased is because he is rich and powerful and has a lot of resources in his hand. If you climb him, you will get benefits. What people pay to the rich is equivalent to fertilizing crops, and there is always a return. Most people like to squeeze into rich people's houses for their own interests, so rich people's houses have always been very popular, even if they live in far-away rural areas, they are overcrowded.
Disliking the poor and loving the rich is often manifested in the fact that yesterday you were poor and few people looked up to you. Today, you suddenly became rich, and your family suddenly became lively. If you were rich yesterday and your family was busy, but you are poor today, then your family will be quiet.
From a moral point of view, people who are too poor and love the rich will be scolded, and people are so clear on the surface.
It is very useful to be too poor and love the rich, which most people will do in their actions.
How can we be unified? You can love the rich, but not too poor. In order to change fate, it is a shortcut to make friends with people with more resources. But don't be too poor, because this poor person is who he used to be, and loving them means loving yourself.
The current feelings are a particularly obvious and chilling reality:
No one asks you if you are poor in downtown: it can be understood that everyone has a strong heart to compare with others, and the modern living standard is relatively high, so it is reconciled: some people are really poor and ambitious: can't I bend down to pick up half a bucket of rice? Richness has distant relatives in the mountains and forests: it's just that our feelings are still warm: I am rich, and I praise it from scratch: but you didn't abandon me in my most difficult time, but I have meat to eat. I won't forget the gratitude of the bowl of porridge: of course, there is absolutely no heart to show off wealth? As long as my friends need me, I will try my best to help them: with the continuous improvement of social living standards, this situation seems to fade out of a group of people! Birds of a feather flock together. This is how you become suitable for your team. You can do whatever you think, but don't force it: the last thing that hurts is yourself.
This old saying has stood the test of time. Of course it makes sense, and of course I agree with it very much. Social people, though not so bad, are not so good. There are many people who are mutually beneficial and win-win If there is a big gap between the rich and the poor, the rich can only take pity on them once or twice, but who wants to take more? But there is no need to resent, human nature is like this, and everyone can only rely on themselves in the end.
Cold world, declining world, naked monetarism? It seems that there is no!
When people are rich, people from all walks of life come to kiss up, whether familiar or unfamiliar, as long as there is oil and water to earn, they will come to rub some. So we often see an endless stream of officials and business people at the door.
Now this society talks about relationships everywhere? Money can settle many things, and those who have no money rely on human feelings. So, when you have nothing to do, why don't you visit some bosses in the mountains and forests? Take more human relations, win people's hearts, and thus seek benefits for yourself.
The monetarist world outlook has made our society more and more impetuous, and now the rich have become a beacon in the eyes of many people? . Many people think that having money means having contacts, conditions and resources; No money means no ability, no conditions. So many people would rather kowtow to the rich than help a poor friend.
Many people like to compare wages, earning power, cars and houses. Because they attach too much importance to materialization, the tendency to compare is becoming more and more serious. Once a person has no money, it can be said that it is difficult to move. At this time, he can best see who is sincere and who is hypocritical.
Inflated monetarism? Outlook makes us lose innocence and simplicity gradually, and also makes this society more and more impetuous and complicated. In fact, happiness is achieved by our own efforts, not by insincere attachment to others. Sticking to the rich with the wind will not bring you long-term benefits, and this ugly face will be exposed sooner or later.
In this world, only by treating others sincerely and sincerely can we win friends and go further.