As husband and wife, we support each other through ups and downs.
What do you mean, after being together for a while, you will be separated forever.
Who can know the secret in order to ask when we will meet again?
I'm alone at home, and I'm very sad and sad.
20 10, after the Mid-Autumn Festival, on the occasion of the 0/00th anniversary of Qian Zhongshu's birthday/kloc-0, Jiang Yang wrote his thoughts and love for his lover Qian Zhongshu in this poem.
The Biography of Jiang Yang was written by Luo Yinsheng. The book gives a comprehensive introduction to Jiang Yang's life, which is divided into several stages: his hometown and family background when he was young; In college, I first met Qian Zhongshu; Further study together, husband and wife life; Hard times, ups and downs; Resist misfortune and live a long life; If the dead are still alive, the living are innocent.
In this book, you can feel how beautiful the feelings in the world are. The ups and downs of life and the ups and downs of the environment have not defeated their emotions and their sincerity. Every time they are together, it makes people happy and touching.
Sincere feelings, down-to-earth life, from the moment we first met.
1, the first sight of life is a kind of fate, and it is also a bridge between the elderly.
When we first met, Qian Zhongshu in Jiang Yang's eyes wore a blue gown, woolen shoes and a pair of old-fashioned glasses, and his brow was "beautiful and moving". At that time, they just saw each other in a hurry and didn't even say a word, but they were unforgettable.
Qian Zhongshu wrote a letter to Jiang Yang to meet him in the I-shaped hall. As soon as they met, his first sentence was, "I'm not engaged." Jiang Yang replied, "I don't have a boyfriend either." From then on, the two began to spread Hongyan's book and talked about love.
I got engaged the next year. When Qian Zhongshu recalled their first meeting in middle age, he wrote a poem like this:
At first glance, the new petals of the rose are soaked.
I don't know if I ate safflower and snowflake when I washed my face before.
I remember the first time I saw Jiang Yang, her face was rosy in the Bai Jie, like a spring flower, elegant and refined, like a new petal of a rose, with a touch of shyness.
At first glance, it's like bathing in the spring breeze, and memory is like the ripple of spring water.
Jiang Yang's mother once joked: "Aji has an old man tied HongLing to his feet under the moon, so I want to be admitted to Tsinghua."
2. Happiness is simple but not easy.
After marriage, two people turned trivial things into fun, while some of us turned trivial things into pain, from liking someone to hurting someone.
Qian Zhongshu, who can't even take care of himself, learned to cook a lot after marriage. Jiang Yang is washing her hands to make bridal soup and taking care of everything for two people.
Jiang Yang stewed beef for the first time. After fire, water and boiling, it didn't go bad. Later, I learned that I had to simmer slowly. The first time I cooked braised pork, I used red wine as yellow wine. Later, the two men stood directly by the fire, washing vegetables and eating meat.
Qian Zhongshu is still enjoying himself, and Jiang Yang looks very happy.
Whether the food is delicious or not, no one doesn't like it, and everyone eats it with relish. Because a meal full of love is always the best.
After Jiang Yang gave birth, Qian Zhongshu sweated four times and walked seven times in one day in order to see his waking wife at the first time.
The birth of a daughter brought another kind of joy to two people. Every time her daughter's birthday, Qian Zhongshu would say, "This is a day of distress for her mother."
Sometimes, in fact, two people live together, how can they be happy? Is to have each other in your heart and see each other's efforts.
3. Qian Zhongshu said, "I did something bad again"? Jiang Yang said, "Never mind, I'll fix it."
It is hilarious that every time he visits, Qian Zhongshu will report to Jiang Yang with a bitter face: "I did something bad, knocked over the ink bottle and stained the tablecloth of the landlord's house."
Jiang Yang said, "Never mind, I'll wash it."
"Ink! Ink can also be washed. "
The second time, he "did something bad" and said, "I accidentally smashed the desk lamp."
Jiang Yang inquired about the situation and said, "Never mind, I will solve it."
Qian Zhongshu said with a bitter face, "I broke one end of the door shaft."
Jiang Yang smiled and said, "Never mind, I will fix it."
On another occasion, Qian Zhongshu had a boil on his forehead. Jiang Yang comforted Qian Zhongshu and said, "Never mind, I will cure it." Then I will give him a serious hot compress every few hours every day according to the doctor's instructions. In this way, uprooted, leaving no scars.
When he was grateful, he was sure that what Jiang Yang said was "Never mind".
After returning home, he gave her chicken soup and peeled broad beans, and she also restored all the damaged things to their original state. Their love flowers continue to bloom in the triviality of life.
I like to read this passage over and over again: "Never mind, I'll fix it." I will be very happy after reading it, and sometimes I will laugh out loud.
I read the taste of love and the beauty of marriage. From mutual consideration and mutual trust. Love can continue slowly.
They said the most beautiful love words in the world in the most common language, and this love word has always been with them.
After returning home, Jiang Yang took her daughter Yuan Yuan and her old father to live with relatives. Qian Zhongshu taught at the school of National Southwest Associated University in Kunming, and then transferred to Lantian Normal University in western Hunan as the head of the English Department. Two years later, Qian Zhongshu returned to Shanghai to visit relatives. For various reasons, he didn't start again, and the family was together again. After the Pearl Harbor incident broke out, the isolated island of Shanghai began to sink.
He also said the most beautiful love words to Jiang Yang: "From now on, we will only die and never part."
1998165438+1On October 20th, Qian Zhongshu had his last birthday in Beijing Hospital. He has been in the hospital for four years. Every day, Jiang Yang takes his meals to the hospital. At this time, Jiang Yang was over 80 years old, and her daughter left them for heaven on 1997.
He can speak Wuxi dialect and English when he is together. Jiang Yang sincerely prayed that her lover would overcome the disease. But after 1 month, Qian Zhongshu still left.
Before leaving this world, Qian Zhongshu looked at his wife's sad face and didn't want her to have the idea of meeting him in heaven. Say "live well" with the last strength and weak voice.
Qian Zhongshu's breathing stopped, and Jiang Yang kissed his forehead and stuck it on his cheek for a long time.
Some photos of Qian Zhongshu can't help appearing in front of you:
Qian Zhongshu covered the sweater that Jiang Yang knitted for him with his hand and said, "This is the thread in the hands of a loving mother."
Qian Zhongshu said Jiang Yang: "The most virtuous wife, the most talented woman."
Qian Zhongshu said that Jiang Yang: "It is unique to combine these three incompatible things: wife, lover and friend."
You are my unexpected warmth, and I am your endless hope.
Jiang Yang's handmade purple forget-me-not and white rose baskets are placed next to Qian Zhongshu.
When the body was sent to the cremation room, Jiang Yang uncovered the white cloth, carefully stared at Qian Zhongshu, helped him take off his glasses, and visually observed that the body was pushed into the cremation room. As soon as the door of the cremation room was closed, others advised her to leave. She said, no, I want to stand for another two minutes. "
"I'm going to stand for another two minutes." No matter how beautiful the vows are, they can't last two minutes.
Do you remember? When Qian Zhongshu wrote Fortress Besieged, Jiang Yang always read it first. When she smiles, he can finish it. In other words, in order to let Qian Zhongshu create Fortress Besieged, Yang Jianggan was a "servant girl under the kitchen", and Jiang Yang exerted Qian Zhongshu's potential and creativity with understanding and support.
One of the true love in the world is called mutual understanding and mutual support. Everything has the blood of love, and everything is accompanied and supported by love.
This is a real and warm human emotion.
Support each other and snuggle up to each other. "I would like to be a wing bird in the sky, and I would like to be a branch on the ground." Two of a kind is so vivid, but they interpret this sentence vividly.
Some people love after marriage, others love before marriage, and everyone wants to have a share: share life and death, talk to themselves, hold your hand, and grow old with your son.
Then some people keep trying and running in the long river of love and marriage.
At the end of the article, I provided a passage from Mr. Jiang Yang: "I am an old man, and I just said some old sayings. For the times, I am a laggard, and I have no good words to contribute to modern marriage. Just under the trend of the times above material things, I want to remind young friends that the most important thing in the combination of men and women is affection. Only when we know each other to a certain extent and depth can we appreciate, attract, support, encourage and satisfy each other. In my opinion, the most important thing between husband and wife is friendship. Even if you can't be intimate friends, you should be friends who can be partners or partners who respect each other. It doesn't matter whether you are suitable or not. "
Reading your heart, understanding what you say, and keeping pace with your knowledge are worthy of your kindness, giving each other comfort, understanding and strength.
May everyone cherish the person you love in front of them.