Before dying, the students asked if there was anything left.
He thought for a moment, leaving only one last word: "China will shine brilliantly in the future, so pay attention to the Book of Changes."
This old man is the famous philosopher Mr. Feng Youlan.
as the ancients said, the Book of Changes is extensive and profound because it covers everything.
Yu Shinan said, "I don't know if it's easy to be a general."
For ordinary people, The Book of Changes is an ancient book to preserve the blessings.
Among them, the eight laws are the famous sayings and wisdom of becoming a useful person.
after reading these sentences, your life will be more and more blessed.
The Book of Changes is a wonderful book in ancient China. Now the Book of Changes generally refers to three books: Lianshan, Guizang and Zhouyi. At present, only Zhouyi has been circulated in the world.
In essence, The Book of Changes is a book about changes, which has long been used as "divination". Later generations learn more about his philosophy, thus becoming a profound book of dialectical philosophy.
One of the successful "Eight Laws of Perfection" contained in the Book of Changes is very pertinent.
first, feel cheated by others, and don't be angry with words
when a person feels cheated by others, he must not turn anger into language, be tit-for-tat, and make a bad impression or even be caught by the other party. At this time, we must think calmly or take it lightly and laugh it off. This seemingly dismissive attitude is actually the highest realm of life.
2. Being insulted by others is indifferent
When a person is insulted, he can keep a straight face, which is the gentleman. Han Xin, the founding hero of the Han Dynasty, was humiliated by his crotch before he became rich. Only with such tolerance can he achieve great things. Nowadays, Li Ka-shing, Ma Yun and Wang Jianlin, the richest men, can achieve such an inheritance. The author expects that they must have the ability to tolerate people and be indifferent to humiliation.
3. It's not important to observe others' faults, but not to spread them around. In fact, this is also a great performance of cultivation. Young people may be a little careless about this, and the elderly can basically control it. The profoundness of Chinese studies is a kind of cultivation and a life experience. As the old saying goes, "Don't blame others for their mistakes", and it is a true gentleman not to discuss the right and wrong of others.
fourth, do others a favor, don't remember it
This sentence means that you don't leave a name when you do a good deed. True kindness comes from the heart and bones, from the heart, and is unrequited. Nowadays, there are many pictures of positive energy in Tik Tok mini-videos. Many people set an example to help the traffic police and cleaning staff who fight the epidemic without leaving their names, which is admirable.
5. Be indebted to others and bear in mind
The meaning of this sentence is just the opposite of the previous sentence. It means that when you are indebted to others, you must keep it in mind. Here is the so-called "dripping grace, when the spring is reported." We can't accept even a little help from others.
6. You learn to fish when you are a fish.
This sentence means that when you receive help from others, you must also master the methods and skills to get it. You can't be lazy and pray for others' help, which is doomed to nothing, let alone success.
seven, recognize people's talents and give them power
This sentence is most suitable for managers, which means to be good at appreciating others' talents and entrust them with corresponding rights and responsibilities according to their talents. This sentence has the same meaning as the idiom "knowing people and being good at their duties".
a person's success is basically based on a team. At this time, it is very important to "know people's talents and empower them". Being good at knowing people and authorizing them is the greatest ability. The famous Liu Bang in history is the best example.
eight, be good at seeking people and be tolerant
People who are good at planning and handling major events are mostly people who know how to deal with interpersonal relationships. Only when you have a heart that embraces the universe and an open mind can you build a strategic plan from a strategic perspective and seek great things. When Cao Cao and Liu Bei were talking about heroes, they called such people "heroes".
"Man proposes, God disposes". Sometimes whether something can be successful depends on personal planning. As Sun Tzu said in the Art of War, the greatest victories are all planned.
people with high emotional intelligence will never put each other in an embarrassing situation.
Before you judge others, you might as well ask yourself, "Did I do a good job?"
It is a kind of warm kindness to see through without telling the truth, and at some moments, this kind of kindness can often protect others.
don't compete with each other because of different cognition; Different levels, no need to convince.
There is a poem that says well:
Learn to read through without breaking, leaving some room for both sides.
learn to know people and not judge them, and improve your self-cultivation.
learn to be reasonable and not argue, and focus on more important things.
encourage you.