Problems that divorced women should pay attention to in their lives.
1. Don't live on alimony.
Usually after divorce, if the child is brought by the woman, the man will give the child support every month, and the two will negotiate the amount of this support. If the man has money, he will give more, and if the economic conditions are poor, he will give less. No matter how rich a woman is, she can't live on these alimony. Alimony is only the most basic guarantee for her children, and she can't live on them.
Women need economic independence, don't need to earn much money, find a more relaxed job, have more time to take care of their children, and at least make enough money for their own expenses. If you live on alimony too much, and with the growth of children, there are more and more places to spend money, then these alimony payments are simply not enough. You have to rely on the man who has hurt you, and you still can't get rid of him. Women will live with dignity.
2. adjust your mentality.
After divorce, many women's mentality will collapse, they will lose hope in life, lose confidence in their feelings and marriage, and even plan to live alone for a lifetime and never trust men again. Moreover, in the face of real life, I have to take care of and raise children. Children can only rely on their own companionship and help in their future life, and they will have the idea of being unable to face life.
A divorced woman should never have such thoughts. Everything has two sides. Look on the bright side. Although you have experienced a failed marriage, you have grown a lot. God gave you a chance to start over. With the last experience, the next marriage will definitely be happy. Moreover, children are not a burden, but your best gift, which is equivalent to buying insurance for your future. Even if it is not good in the future, there are children to accompany you, adjust your mentality and meet every day.
3. Let children feel complete love
No matter who is right or wrong in divorce, children are the most innocent, and children can only accept this situation. In fact, the child is the most injured person in the divorce, because he will leave a father or mother who loves him anyway. For him, no one is right or wrong, and both parents love him.
Fatherly love and maternal love are indispensable for a child's growth, because they give him different things. Therefore, for the sake of children's happiness, the road to growth will not go wrong, and women must not let their children lose their father's love. Even if you hate men again, for the sake of children's growth, children should always see their fathers and feel complete love.
4. Try to live beautifully.
Many divorced women will lead a sloppy life, because their hearts have lost confidence in the future, or women are self-pleasing. When they lose confidence in men, they won't want to dress themselves up any more. Besides, they have to take care of their children every day, and they have no time to go shopping and have fun. They don't want to tidy themselves up, and they don't have time to stop and enjoy their time.