Psychological enlightenment: the hidden rules are to get a "social pass"
Pei Yuxin, Ph.D. in Sociology of Sex, The City University of Hong Kong, made a sociological survey of "globally active women". The results show that many sexually active women increasingly regard sex as the link of interpersonal relationships, rather than just the purpose of happiness.
For example, if you want to climb up in the workplace, you should choose to have an affair with your boss. Don't give your feelings, just your body.
For example, if you want to catch that important customer, then it will go to bed and the business will be done naturally.
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This is probably what we call hidden rules. The office is often full of resentment. How can a seemingly ordinary woman climb so fast? Soon the official was in a high position, not only holding a high salary, but also giving orders to people whose ability obviously exceeded her. Therefore, Wolfensohn, the former president of the World Bank, had to resign suddenly because he specially handed a note to the personnel director of the World Bank asking him to raise his girlfriend's salary, which caused public anger.
Those who dislike the hidden rules of society cannot change the fact that sex is indeed becoming a social pass.
Psychological revelation: the hidden rules are for intimacy.
Don't say that the female star slept a lot before the director got a female number one; Not to mention, that billionaire slept with many businessmen before she had a career opportunity. Romantic Picasso and Rodin both have a similar famous saying: I just painted my model more * * * after sleeping with her. This sentence can be explained as follows: only when they have physical relations with their models will they have a more unreasonable sense of closeness. This sense of closeness can inspire great artists' artistic inspiration and make them relax in front of them.
Therefore, a big man in the entertainment circle admits that actresses who have really had physical relationships with themselves seem to be more handy to use. This may not be difficult to explain why so many directors finally recruit the most beautiful actress under their lens as Mrs. Zhazhai.
Why is this happening?
A romantic man says to the woman he wants to pursue: You will only love me more when you are with me. Sexologists will say that a pair of men and women who have had physical relations will naturally feel close. It was a window that opened the most secret between people, and he (she) caught a glimpse of his (her) most animal side. Because of this deepening, he established a sense of trust with her. Even in the most intimate Victorian salon in Britain, two gentlemen and ladies are talking affectionately, but in their bones, they still don't necessarily trust each other.