How to face an unsuccessful life? First of all, what is an unsuccessful life? I don't think you, including everyone at the scene, can say that your life is an unsuccessful life, because your life is not over at all. As long as we don't die, we just have a failure in life. No one can say that your life is an unsuccessful life.
Yuanyuan tells us that as long as people are not dead, it is impossible to judge success or failure. The popular chicken soup for the soul often tells us that as long as we persist and work hard, we will succeed. If we fail, everyone has different standards for success. As long as you have spiritual satisfaction, it is also a success. I don't know what the self-deception ability of all of you here is, but I will always find that in this play of life, I am not the protagonist, but a walk-on.
I am a walk-on in your life and all of you, but I am the protagonist of my own life, so when I fail and get booed by the audience, I can and must sing alone. Yes, I'm from Peking University, but in high school, no one thinks I'm a poor student, the kind who didn't do his homework and passed the 180 exam in the whole grade. Then one day, the poor student suddenly wanted to enter Peking University, and then worked hard like a psychopath, but I still failed the college entrance examination. Some people say that you failed. Did I fail? How easy it is to admit defeat is much easier than that kind of persistence and patience day after day. But I don't believe it. Four years later, I returned to Peking University for postgraduate study. Therefore, a person has never tried anything, never done anything risky, never worked hard for anything, and never failed. He is not qualified to fail, but you are different. You have dreamed and sent it. You have loved, hated and regretted. Therefore, as an ordinary person among all sentient beings, you have tried your best to live the best life. Who is qualified to say that your life is unsuccessful?
The success rate is actually extremely low. After all, monkeys know that it is the instinct of every animal to climb trees with more bananas, weigh the gains and losses, and seek advantages and avoid disadvantages. But do you know that the pursuit of this almost hopeless success is what distinguishes us from other animals? Because you are almost doomed to fail, every day you expect success is full of a kind of happiness called anxiety. When you try your best to fail, you will know that your life has never been wasted, because it is wasted on ideals.
Every ideal is worth your life. Life is so short, I choose to be a blind and enthusiastic fool. I will always be young and always have tears in my eyes. I will always believe in dreams, the meaning of hard work, and that regret is more terrible than failure, because an unsuccessful life is only imperfect, but it is complete.
Tagore said, "Birds fly through the sky without leaving a trace." But my friend, you know, you should know that you have flown in this sky.
Article 2:
I am a student of law school, and every professor of mine has said this in his class. They often say that this is the law, but in real life. Real life is a magical life. In real life, honest people who respect the rules are often unknown all their lives. On the contrary, people who cheat will gain fame and fortune. Therefore, young people like me often have experienced seniors to pat you on the shoulder and tell you, young people, you still don't understand. What I want to ask is what we young people can do for the world. One day, the post-90s generation will be the bank president, the post-90s generation will be the entrepreneur or even the president. But when the whole society is occupied by the post-90s generation, I want to ask you what do you want to make this society look like? I know that not everyone can be a person who stands on the cusp and grasps his own destiny. You and I are just ordinary people. It is a small screw on this huge social machine. I was told by my parents every day when I was studying, don't delay my study. When I graduated, I sent resumes everywhere and was forced to get married on holidays. When you get married, you have to spend the best 20 years of your youth to repay the loan, so that every young person is too busy to live without dreams. I have no time to care about the fate of the country, and I have no energy to do anything for this society. But later, I found that there is one more thing that you and I can do, and that is, our generation must not become bad on the way to old age, and do not become the kind of adults you hated most when you were young. It is very, very serious for no ordinary person to be a good person in his post, because each of us is destined to change the world when we are born. I am a law student. If I am a fair and strict judge in the future, then society will be better because of having a good judge. I hope everyone will remember that even if you are given 100,000 reasons to do evil, you should keep your integrity and bottom line, just for one reason, that is, you are not an animal, but a person. I hope that all of us born in the 1990s will become that kind of valuable young people, who will hate evil all their lives, never go with the flow, never bow their heads, never give up their principles, and never be disappointed in human nature.
So, my dear post-90s generation, if someone tells you again, don't dislike young people and adapt to this society, then you should face him like a real warrior. You tell him I'm not like you. I'm not here to adapt to the society, but to change it.
Article 3:
It is said that everyone once had a crush on others. Do you remember the man you had a crush on when you were seventeen or eighteen? Is she the kind of Shen Jiayi who studies hard and looks handsome, or the kind of Rukawa Kaede who loves playing basketball and is particularly cool? Now think of it as a smile or silence? Or do you think this is what you want?
I found that when we are most willing to love someone, it is the time of unrequited love. I have had a crush on a boy since my sophomore year. Secret love is an exciting thing. Every time I see him talking to him, I try to act like a war. I'm afraid he knows, I'm afraid he doesn't know, and I'm even more afraid he knows, but I pretend I don't know. Secret love is also a lonely thing. I think his name is only safe in my mouth.
Do you think there is pure friendship between boys and girls? Yes, as long as one kills and doesn't say anything, the other will play the fool to the end. I played the role of his most loyal friend from beginning to end. Every time he needs help, I am the first to rush over. He said I know him best. Why don't I understand? No one knows him better than I do. I know he likes petite girls. I started to lose weight from a fat man weighing 120 kg, and he often praised me as a sensible girl. Yes, because I don't know what else to do besides being sensible. I want to give him everything, but I have nothing. I want to give up everything for him, but I have nothing to give up.
What about you? Do you remember, like a person likes to die? One day, when you fall in love with someone, you suddenly feel that you have it.
Soft rib, as if wearing armor, may have experienced several injuries and unforgettable love, and will become smarter, more rational and more skilled. But I want to ask you, do you really not believe in love? Then why do you cry when you watch Titanic and Love Story in Beijing? Do you really prefer cleverness and sophistication to impulsiveness? Whether you are wet behind the ears or you have already been scarred by love, you are eager for a love in your heart. It is sincere, exclusive and lasting. If a person is in love and he is hurt because he really loves others, does it seem silly and sad? No, those who get married after considering various conditions find that they have no memory of love after marriage. Love never seems to have happened. I think those talents are pathetic, so I hope we can try to love a person with the purpose of getting married, just like a girl of seventeen or eighteen. I love him to the bone. He can't hear me. I love him so much in my heart that he can't stand it. But like a lonely Sivir, I love her so clumsily and bravely. When I die, I'd like to recall it. I think it is precious and beautiful, and I won't regret it.
If someone tells me that I love you to get married, or that I love you to get married, then he looks down on me too much. He looks down on my love too little, because for an idealistic girl who is 23 years old and can't be grounded, it's terrible not to get married all her life, but what's even more terrible is that some people have been married all their lives, but they have never loved.
Article 4:
A few days ago, there was a senior HR who worked in a bank for ten years. He posted a post on the Internet called "It is difficult for poor children to be born again", which means that in our society, it is more difficult for poor children to get ahead and succeed than our parents. This post caused a particularly extensive discussion. Do you think this sentence makes sense? Let me start with myself. Our family was born in poverty. Our family is not poor. There is no door in our house. Now think about how my parents, such an ordinary rural couple, donated their three children, me and my two brothers, from the countryside to go to college and graduate school. I always feel lucky. My father and mother don't read much. My mother didn't even go to the first grade of primary school. She really thinks reading is very important. No matter how hard she is, she will let our three children go to college. I never compare myself with those rich children and say that there will be any difference or inequality between us. But we must admit that there are some inequalities in this world. We don't have many advantages, and we don't have many shortcuts. But we can't complain. Everyone's life is different. Some people are born with a golden key, others are born without parents, and life is not as good as life. What our life is like depends entirely on our feelings. You have been complaining all your life, so your life is a life of complaining, and you have been moved all your life. Your life is a life of inspiring and changing this society, and your life is a life of soldiers. There is a documentary in Britain called Seven Years of Life, in which 12 people were interviewed.
Children in different classes, once every seven years. Go back and look at these small ones again.
Son, at the end of the film, you will find that the children of the rich are still rich and the children of the poor are still poor, but there is a poor child named Nick who eventually became a university professor through his own struggle. It can be seen that there is a fish that escapes from the net in the palm of fate. Moreover, in real life, there are countless examples of children from poor families attacking back, so when we fail, we can't blame all the reasons on birth, let alone complain why our parents are not as good as others' parents, because a poor family has not cut off all the possibilities of a person's success. When I encounter difficulties in my life, I will take a walk in the streets of Beijing. I thought at that time, Li Yuanyuan, you are really helpless in this city. This speech is the last one. In fact, when I first asked, I found that most of us were not born in rich families and had to rely on ourselves. Therefore, you have to believe that fate gives you a lower starting point than others before you can tell you that you can use your life to fight a story of Jedi counterattack. This story is about independence, dreams, courage and tenacity. This is not a natural fairy tale. The story is that where there is a will, there is a way, and you cross the rubicon. After all, Qin Guan belongs to the State of Chu after all. The story is that as long as you work hard and something unexpected happens, you will have enough courage to swallow Wu.
Article 5:
One day I asked my brother seriously, why do you think I can't get married? My brother looked at my face and answered me more seriously. Don't you know that you are ugly? I said I don't know. He said that many things in this world are related to looks. For example, was Cinderella chosen by the prince because she was poor? That's because she is good-looking.
But can't ugliness be saved? The first typical girl with a crooked face forwards wonderful quotations on Weibo every day. For example, I will be unreasonable, nagging, crying and arguing with you. I'm just like Monroe, but if a man can't handle my worst, she doesn't deserve my best. I just want to see if you still care about me. Every time I see such words, I feel it's great to say them. That's the feeling. Have to comment on forwarding. You can dump such a girl. The second kind is a pseudo-female man. Now, whenever a woman is rude, she thinks she is a woman. In fact, everyone really misunderstood. The three words "female man" stand for gentleness, while "Han" stands for skill. Every time you gently remind them, the other party will bring out the pattern of domineering and leaking, and then scold you for being hypocritical and mean, questioning you and saying that you dare to be yourself. I want to ask them if I can. Relatives and friends often tell you that you can't find a boyfriend because your standards are too high. Don't trust them. What they mean is that you simply don't deserve the standard man you like. An ugly orange, he will try to sweeten it, because he is ugly. Aren't we ashamed of our efforts? The standard man you like always tries to sweet talk because he is ugly. Are we still ashamed not to try? Finally, I'll give you four words: Sometimes you have to have something in life and you have to stick to it all the time. If you want to find someone who is not afraid of ugliness, you will have a boyfriend if you work hard.
Article 6:
How to face an unsuccessful life? First of all, what is an unsuccessful life? I don't think you, including everyone at the scene, can say that your life is an unsuccessful life, because your life is not over at all. As long as we don't die, we just have a failure in life. No one can say that your life is an unsuccessful life.
Yuanyuan tells us that as long as people are not dead, it is impossible to judge success or failure. The popular chicken soup for the soul often tells us that as long as we persist and work hard, we will succeed. If we fail, everyone has different standards for success. As long as you have spiritual satisfaction, it is also a success. I don't know what the self-deception ability of all of you here is, but I will always find that in this play of life, I am not the protagonist, but a walk-on.
I am a walk-on in your life and all of you, but I am the protagonist of my own life, so when I fail and get booed by the audience, I can and must sing alone. Yes, I'm from Peking University, but in high school, no one thinks I'm a poor student, the kind who didn't do his homework and passed the 180 exam in the whole grade. Then one day, the poor student suddenly wanted to enter Peking University, and then worked hard like a psychopath, but I still failed the college entrance examination. Some people say that you failed. Did I fail? How easy it is to admit defeat is much easier than that kind of persistence and patience day after day. But I don't believe it. Four years later, I returned to Peking University for postgraduate study. Therefore, a person has never tried anything, never done anything risky, never worked hard for anything, and never failed. He is not qualified to fail, but you are different. You have dreamed and sent it. You have loved, hated and regretted. Therefore, as an ordinary person among all sentient beings, you have tried your best to live the best life. Who is qualified to say that your life is unsuccessful?
The success rate is actually extremely low. After all, monkeys know that it is the instinct of every animal to climb trees with more bananas, weigh the gains and losses, and seek advantages and avoid disadvantages. But do you know that the pursuit of this almost hopeless success is what distinguishes us from other animals? Because you are almost doomed to fail, every day you expect success is full of a kind of happiness called anxiety. When you try your best to fail, you will know that your life has never been wasted, because it is wasted on ideals.
Every ideal is worth your life. Life is so short, I choose to be a blind and enthusiastic fool. I will always be young and always have tears in my eyes. I will always believe in dreams, the meaning of hard work, and that regret is more terrible than failure, because an unsuccessful life is only imperfect, but it is complete.
Tagore said, "Birds fly through the sky without leaving a trace." But my friend, you know, you should know that you have flown in this sky.
Article 7:
I am a student of law school. Every professor of mine has said this sentence in class. They often say that the law stipulates this, but in real life, real life is a magical life. In real life, honest people who respect the rules are often unknown all their lives. On the contrary, people who cheat will gain fame and fortune. Therefore, young people like me often have experienced seniors to pat you on the shoulder and tell you, young people, you still don't understand. What I want to ask is what we young people can do for the world.
One day, the post-90s generation will be the bank president, the post-90s generation will be the entrepreneur or even the president. But when the whole society is occupied by the post-90s generation, I want to ask you what do you want to make this society look like? I know that not everyone can be a person who stands on the cusp and grasps his destiny. You and I are just ordinary people, a small snail on this huge social machine.
Silk nail. I was told by my parents every day when I was studying, don't delay my study. When I graduated, I sent resumes everywhere and was forced to get married on holidays. When I get married, I will use the best 20 years of my youth to repay the loan, so that every young person is busy with a life without dreams and has no time to care about politics and the environment. I still don't have the energy to do anything for this society, but later I found that there is one more thing that you and I can do, and that is, our generation must not become bad on the way to old age, and don't become the kind of adults you hated most when you were young. It is very, very serious for no ordinary person to be a good person in his post, because each of us is destined to change the world when we are born. I am a law student. If I am a fair and strict judge in the future, then society will be better because of having a good judge. I hope everyone will remember that even if you are given 100,000 reasons to do evil, you should keep your integrity and bottom line, just for one reason, that is, you are not an animal, but a person. I hope that all of us born in the 1990s will become that kind of valuable young people, who will hate evil all their lives, never go with the flow, never bow their heads, never give up their principles, and never be disappointed in human nature.
So, my dear post-90s generation, if someone tells you again, don't dislike young people and adapt to this society, then you should face him like a real warrior. You tell him I'm not like you. I'm not here to adapt to the society, but to change it.
Chapter 8:
It is said that everyone once had a crush on others. Do you remember the man you had a crush on when you were seventeen or eighteen? Is she the kind of Shen Jiayi who studies hard and looks handsome, or the kind of Rukawa Kaede who loves playing basketball and is particularly cool? Now think of it as a smile or silence? Or do you think this is what you want?
I found that when we are most willing to love someone, it is the time of unrequited love. I have had a crush on a boy since my sophomore year. Secret love is an exciting thing. Every time I see him talking to him, I try to act like a war. I'm afraid he knows, I'm afraid he doesn't know, and I'm even more afraid he knows, but I pretend I don't know. Secret love is also a lonely thing. I think his name is only safe in my mouth.
Do you think there is pure friendship between boys and girls? Yes, as long as one kills and doesn't say anything, the other will play the fool to the end. I played the role of his most loyal friend from beginning to end. Every time he needs help, I am the first to rush over. He said I know him best. Why don't I understand? No one knows him better than I do. I know he likes petite girls. I started to lose weight from a fat man weighing 120 kg, and he often praised me as a sensible girl. Yes, because I don't know what else to do besides being sensible. I want to give him everything I have, but I don't know.
It's nothing. I want to give up everything for him, but I have nothing to give up.
What about you? Do you remember, like a person likes to die? One day, when you fall in love with someone, you suddenly feel like you have a soft spot, or armor. You may have experienced several injuries and unforgettable love, and you will become smarter, more rational and more skilled. But I want to ask you, do you really not believe in love? Then why do you cry when you watch Titanic and Love Story in Beijing? Do you really prefer cleverness and sophistication to impulsiveness? Whether you are wet behind the ears or you have already been scarred by love, you are eager for a love in your heart. It is sincere, exclusive and lasting. If a person is in love and he is hurt because he really loves others, does it seem silly and sad? No, those who get married after considering various conditions find that they have no memory of love after marriage. Love never seems to have happened. I think those talents are pathetic, so I hope we can try to love a person with the purpose of getting married, just like a girl of seventeen or eighteen. I love him to the bone. He can't hear me. I love him so much in my heart that he can't stand it. But like a lonely Sivir, I love her so clumsily and bravely. When I die, I'd like to recall it. I think it is precious and beautiful, and I won't regret it.
If someone tells me that I love you to get married, or that I love you to get married, then he looks down on me too much. He looks down on my love too little, because for an idealistic girl who is 23 years old and can't be grounded, it's terrible not to get married all her life, but what's even more terrible is that some people have been married all their lives, but they have never loved.
Article 9:
20xx, one of the top ten online buzzwords. Without left, there is no death. Have you all heard of it? If you don't do it, you won't die, but what I want you to remember today is not this sentence, neither left nor dead, but neither left nor born.
What is "Left"? "Left" is just messing with the status quo. I like it very much. My brother has scolded me for coming to the Super Speaker program countless times. He said you were just messing around. You're not studying acting or hosting. What's the use of a law student on TV for your future? Maybe I just love "Left". So I'm here. I "write" myself, I can bear it. Every time I write a manuscript, I have to stay up until one or two. Every time I stand on the stage and wait for everyone to vote, I will clench my fist nervously, but I have no regrets at all. I will always remember these moments. There are people on this stage who can "write" better than me. You will meet him in a moment. He is my new idol, Lin Yijie. As a teacher, everything is fine, but he chose sports, a road with great risks and low success rate. He likes running to take risks. His legs ran across the North Pole, the South Pole and the Sahara Desert, the largest tropical desert in the world. I feel in my heart that this man's life.
It is a life of "doing" death. This kind of death doesn't mean that you fell down on the road of life and lost a partner, so you really died, but I also feel that his life is particularly wonderful. If he goes to college according to his parents' wishes, he may succeed in the future, but in his present life, he sees not only a success, but a miracle of life.
Dear friends, since childhood, we are all listening to other people's voices and drawing squares for our lives. The line on the left is academic success, and the line on the right is that you must have a stable and good job. The upper line is that you must get married before you are 30, and the lower line is that you must have children when you get married. It seems that only in this grid can you be safe and be considered happy by others. Once you want to jump out of this box, someone will say you are. " However, I know that when everyone is young, there will be a little "work" impulse in his heart. Obviously, you should take an examination of economics, law and civil engineering. You said you wanted to learn acting, and you wanted to act in movies. You should find the right person to get married now, and you are still waiting. You also said that you wanted true love. In fact, most young people have no idea what they want. Do you know what kind of life you want to live in the future? Come to think of it, I don't know. I have no idea what kind of life I want to live in the future, which city I want to go to and what job I want to do. All I know is what I don't want. I don't want that routine, stable and plain life, and I don't want that life where I can see death at a glance. You may be. Every time I hear a young man in his twenties and thirties say such things, I think he is not wrong. I just feel it's a pity that the world is so big and wonderful, but you are willing to stay in a grid and live a disciplined and self-disciplined life without seeing anything. This kind of life is not risky and will not be laughed at by others, but I always feel that a person who has not tasted all the liquor is not big. A person who has lived quietly all his life and dare not "work" has never lived a wonderful and rich life. After all, without Left, there would be no death and no life!