Carving a boat for a sword
Love is rarely eternal and will change with time. Love needs the cherishment and care of both parties, but it also needs fate. One mistake that lovers often make is that when one party's love has faded, the other party is still indulged in the feeling of love at its most beautiful. In fact, the lost love is as unavailable as searching for a sword, and it always lives in the past. The memory will only add infinite troubles. So when the other person loves you, he really loves you, but if he doesn't love you, he really doesn't love you either. This is fate.
Reciprocate love
If we are friends, we will often get obvious rewards for our efforts, but in love, the best reward you receive for your efforts is love. The most painful thing for a zero-lovelorn person is that they have given love but feel that they have not received love in return. But if the other person accepts you when you give, then you will get a deep sense of relief. In fact, love is not a transaction, it is not a simple investment, and the cost cannot be calculated. To love someone is to hope that the other person will be happy. To love someone is to pay continuously and unconsciously. In love, you pay a lot but feel you get very little. It seems unfair, but it cannot be calculated.
Ye Gong loves dragons
Young women always have very romantic thoughts about love, but when true love comes, they often reject it thousands of miles away like Ye Gong loves dragons, but this If the dragon does not shrink because of this, then there will be many opportunities. Maybe as long as you appear often, you will become the lovely real dragon emperor in the hearts of girls. Guys must understand that for girls, accepting someone's love is the biggest commitment in life and they must consider it carefully.
Nan Ke Yimeng
Love is a romantic dream. No matter how beautiful the dream is, there will always be a time when you wake up, and you will always return to the reality of daily necessities. The kind of romantic love in movies and TV shows is a short-lived dream in ordinary life. Real love is ordinary, it is responsibility and tolerance. The final and best state of love is to return to the family relationship that shares the same joys and sorrows, and to return to a marriage where both parties take responsibility. The so-called holding hands and growing old together.
If you have to look forward to Shu
What you get is often not cherished, but what you can’t get seems to be better, so you often have to look forward to Shu. This is the weakness of human nature.
So close and so far away
Love is the shortest distance between hearts, but when love disappears, it is so close yet so far away. The deepest suffering in the human world is as Buddhists say: "The thirty-three days of separation and hatred are the highest, and the four hundred and fourteen illnesses of lovesickness are the most painful." But there is another deepest regret in love, that is, as the West says, the person you love is close to you, but you know that you can never get her (him).